She's Back. Please help...

[Naheal]

Everyone needs a 2nd chance, (I am a christian, but i have a lot of different views then most of... well, as you put it, Jesus freaks.) heres the main question, do you still like her?

Insanity is defined as doing the same thing multiple times and expecting different results.

 

[Dommyboy]

The Escapist - the ultimate source of relationship assistance.

 

[Bouncing Ferret FIlm]

I'd say proceed with caution, and keep a watchful eye out for the JESUS MALLET she maybe hiding behind her back. A CRITICAL roll to the head causes everyone who is hit with it to automatically believe in JESUS just the way the wielder does, it's power is biased on their faith. And its crit roll is 2 to 20.... soooooo good luck.

In all seriousness, everyone deserves a second chance.

 

[Brad Shepard]

Everyone needs a 2nd chance, (I am a christian, but i have a lot of different views then most of... well, as you put it, Jesus freaks.) heres the main question, do you still like her?

Insanity is defined as doing the same thing multiple times and expecting different results.

thats true, but still, you dont think that someone that you care about needs a 2nd chance if they mess up?

 

[derelict]

Why not, If she is the same you can always leave again.

Kind of like how if you live through licking an electric fence, you can always do it again?

If it was bad the first time around, it'll be bad this time around. People fail to work out for a reason, and people may learn, but they never change.

 

[rynocerator]

If its been over a month and she's still obsessing, it seems like a red flag.

 

[Tarrou]

Tap it. If she's out of her "jesus phase" she won't care (unless you suck in bed). If she isn't, you'll know, and you'll at least get a bit.

 

[Sebenko]

Spoiler: Probably the wrong answer

I'd totally fill the void left by Jesus's departure.

Repeatedly.

I was going to say punch her out and laugh, but this is a much better answer.

 

[Segadroid]

The choice is up to you, but be weary of any signs.
Girls don't change that easely.

 

[silasbufu]

Wow..that's so wrong it's just right!

 

[gxs]

Give her another chance. People can and do change.

I never found out how old you two are so I can only speculate but people can become more serious and stable when they grow older. There are exceptions but serious relationships usually form when you're past 16. Everything sooner is usually just romance and high school crushes.

You have to talk a lot and make some compromises if you want the relationship to work. I would know because I'm about to marry a really religious girl. She learned to ease up on her religion and I learned to except mine. I learned to listen to her wishes and she learned not to be so uptight. Everyone says that she's a different (more open and social) person now so you can see that people can change if you give them a chance and some support.

My girlfriend wasn't calling me all the time but maybe you're her first boyfriend and she really likes you so she's afraid to lose you and that can make her a little clingy.

You said (in your previous post) that she broke it off because she had a feeling that you were growing apart. Maybe you weren't paying her as much attention as she needed so talk to her and see what she expects from you and you tell her what you expect from her. That will at least give you some clue as to where your relationship is going.

Edit: Damn that was a long and boring post.

 

[alex1314159]

do it, whether she is religious or not.

 

[BHoSV]

There are two ways I can react to this.

first:
Make her prove she isn't christ-crazy anymore by French-kissing a girl, burning down a church and sending Obama a letter of admiration.

second:
If a girl calls you sobbing that she's sorry for everything she made you go through, it's worth looking into. You'll find out soon enough if she's still whack as hell the minute you talk to her again. The best thing to do is meet in a public place (coffe shop, diner, whatever) and talk things through.

In the little time I've walked this ungrateful shitty rock we call Earth, I've been dealing with all kinds of people asking for my help in relationship issues. And this one is no different. I hope she's turned around for the better, and that you'll be happy with her as she is right now.

All the best.

 

[Nickolai77]

General strands of advise seem to be a) give her a second chance because everyone deserves a second chance, or b) run for the hills, she's possesive and crazy, could easily revert to her old self. So, you have to choose between a or b

Option A
Pro's:
+ Karma points, everyone deserves a second chance
Who knows, it might work?
Easiest short term soulution
Experience dating girls

Cons:
She could revert to her old self
She may not be a Jesus freak, but what about her family??
She sounds rather..neuortic and possesive, best to avoid them types

Option B
Pro's:
Could avoid you lot of pain and hassle
Could be the be best thing for her as well, she can get over you
Could be the best long-term stratagy, and besides your young and you'll meet a new girl sometime soon anyway- why waste your time with her and go for someone better?

Cons:
Could make her even worse
Could be difficult for you to run away from her
She might still come after you?

 

[Dusty Donuts]

Reminds me of three people I hate.
Fuz.
Big Crazy.
Pindle.
I hate them with a passion. All kicked me from games for no reason, and I came back and I thrashed them!

 

[Huupertti]

I guess ye could proceed with caution...

 

[twostripe]

dude someone shouldnt have to leave their religion for you
you aint rite 4 each other

 

[Outlaw Torn]

Make her play all the way through Dante's Inferno.

 

[Rayansaki]

Tell her you found out you were gay all along.