She's Back. Please help...
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Give her a second chance, everyone deserves one. But if she pulls the same rubbish on you, forget about her.
Second Chance,
Your not commiting to her via marriage or anything take it slow, a date or two.
Low key things, Coffee at a nice cafe, Do not do dinner dates where your forced to take her home and kiss her or anything.
Make a clean start, First date casual and daytime. Second Date as daytime but more formal, Movie or whatever.
Third date do a dinner.
If you get through the first date ok, Then the 2nd feels good enough to tide you to third, see how it goes from there.
Space each date a week apart. Keep Casual loose contact via text/FB, do not call unless on the day if your running late or she is late. Too much communication can create a unwanted serious vibe.
Your not commiting to her via marriage or anything take it slow, a date or two.
Low key things, Coffee at a nice cafe, Do not do dinner dates where your forced to take her home and kiss her or anything.
Make a clean start, First date casual and daytime. Second Date as daytime but more formal, Movie or whatever.
Third date do a dinner.
If you get through the first date ok, Then the 2nd feels good enough to tide you to third, see how it goes from there.
Space each date a week apart. Keep Casual loose contact via text/FB, do not call unless on the day if your running late or she is late. Too much communication can create a unwanted serious vibe.
Probably this one. She sounds bat-shit insane to me.Julianking93 said:
Then again this is something you have to figure out. It doesn't always have to be hard lessons and heartbreak, maybe there is a chance.
well...considering that in 13 hours she tried to contact you like , like.....hell i don't know......i have never seen someone that determined.
considering she (Forgive the quote) "I know where you Live!" (Cough*sorry*Cough) i suggest that whatever your'e decision is .You should let her down LIGHTLY.
Though Personally since she is a bible-banger (sorry) i would advise you to do the following (in no particular order)
call her
Skip town
Change your Face
Eat Nachos
Change your Name
Lose Weight
Burn your House
feed your dog
lock her inside
Go buy Mass Effect 2
Relax
considering she (Forgive the quote) "I know where you Live!" (Cough*sorry*Cough) i suggest that whatever your'e decision is .You should let her down LIGHTLY.
Though Personally since she is a bible-banger (sorry) i would advise you to do the following (in no particular order)
call her
Skip town
Change your Face
Eat Nachos
Change your Name
Lose Weight
Burn your House
feed your dog
lock her inside
Go buy Mass Effect 2
Relax
Give her a chance, but make sure when you meet up it's in public and somewhere casual, not because I think she will try and stab you or anything, but to allows you to see her behaviour without being pressured in any way.
That way if she still seems "crazy" (she's more neurotic rather than psychotic from the sounds of it) then you can walk away with no problem.
I wish you the best of luck.
That way if she still seems "crazy" (she's more neurotic rather than psychotic from the sounds of it) then you can walk away with no problem.
I wish you the best of luck.
You bring up a good point, but from what i read on all the post about this girl, he really likes her, so he might as well give her another chance, if she truly changed, then great, if not, so be it right?Naheal said:
Just talk to here.
Really, just having a talk about her won't do you any harm. Very important though: be honest. Say what your problems with her were, or maybe still are. If she doesn't realise that space in a relationship is important, it won't end well anyway. If she's still a Bible-thumper, which you obviously don't want, explain to her that you don't see that mix well with yourself.
If she's changed to your benefit, I say give her the benefit of the doubt. People can change. But be cautious though, and take it slow.
Edit:
If you still don't know if you can fall for her, you probably can't. In my opinion, you don't choose whether or not you fall for someone. You just do, wam, all of a sudden. If you could've ignored her political and religious bias, you would've done so already.
However, seeing as she has apparently changed, I don't think it'd be wrong to, as I said before, start talking to her again. Maybe you'll fall for her, maybe not, but you'll only know for sure if you get in contact with her again.
Really, just having a talk about her won't do you any harm. Very important though: be honest. Say what your problems with her were, or maybe still are. If she doesn't realise that space in a relationship is important, it won't end well anyway. If she's still a Bible-thumper, which you obviously don't want, explain to her that you don't see that mix well with yourself.
If she's changed to your benefit, I say give her the benefit of the doubt. People can change. But be cautious though, and take it slow.
Edit:
If you still don't know if you can fall for her, you probably can't. In my opinion, you don't choose whether or not you fall for someone. You just do, wam, all of a sudden. If you could've ignored her political and religious bias, you would've done so already.
However, seeing as she has apparently changed, I don't think it'd be wrong to, as I said before, start talking to her again. Maybe you'll fall for her, maybe not, but you'll only know for sure if you get in contact with her again.