She's Back. Please help...
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Run, fucking run.
Kidding, but I doubt she's changed her whole belief system for you, she's lying, at best. Perhaps she hopes to convert you.
You could take her back, but it would probably only get worse. And, it sounds like ignoring her won't work. Maybe it's time for the male version of the "friend talk"?
Kidding, but I doubt she's changed her whole belief system for you, she's lying, at best. Perhaps she hopes to convert you.
You could take her back, but it would probably only get worse. And, it sounds like ignoring her won't work. Maybe it's time for the male version of the "friend talk"?
ill give you the suggestion j.d. gave himself on a episode of scrubs: kick her in the crotch and run!Julianking93 said:
but in all seriousness if she gave up her religion for you she is either batshit crazy, totally obsessed with you, or she never was really that strong religiously in the first place.
also hating her for her religion in the first place is a dick move. from your first thread i saw she is an obama hater and a gay basher - not all evangelical Christians are like that. and just because her religion changed doesnt mean her views on the gay community or obama have changed.
This is the only response this thread deserves.thiosk said:
It is a conflict in terms for The Escapist to be a website about seriously dealing with relationship issues.
And why does "crazy jesus freak" sound like something you'd hear in a Lady Ga Ga song?
Dude... I totally saw that joke coming from someone.thiosk said:
See if she means well and if things have changed, a person is capable of that so why not have a look. Just don't commit to anything until you're sure
Not quite, I rarely do any of those things, and I have plenty of friends. I don't quite get your meaning. I mean that he should consider keeping her as a friend (and hopefully avoiding any stalking), cutting all contact is easier said then done and can be problematic in the long run.
Not to be rude or anything but this isn't the type of thing you ask an internet community. Specifically on the relationship advice part.
This is something you and your ex need to talk about. I am not saying it isn't good to ask for advice but something like this should be left up to you and perhaps discussed with close friends and family not an internet community.
Please do not be offended by my comment.
I'll be honest with ya. If she really is a Christian and you're so bigoted (taken from the tone of your first post) against Christians, then it isn't going to work for you two. Eventually, she'll want to go back to it. Especially if you ended up married. One day she'd want the kids to have the same good experiences she had and perhaps want to take them to church or Sunday School. She might want to send them to a Christian camp. Something will happen that will set you off, because you're so totally against it. If you can't honestly say that you'd support her if she wanted to do these things or to present Christianity as something that is good, then be kind to her and don't get back together.
You broke up for her because of her religious beliefs? Come on, I thought people here were better than that.Julianking93 said:
Edit: I have gone out with a crazy girl before. I found out she was obsessive and broke it off. Then I thought "hey, why don't I listen to my mentally handicapped friends and make it a friends with benefits thing." So I did that, got lucky. Next thing she calls me asking me for a ride. I say sure, why not? Turns out I helped her run away and was pretty close to getting arrested. Thank god for mom and dad.
Moral, don't take a girl to McDonalds if she says she is meeting a friend.
Omegle.
Used it once. In quick succession I was asked by three guys if I was a Chinese girl living in their province... yeah, that One Child Policy has led to a SCARY over-representation of males.
See the details of the policy is if you have a girl you can have a second baby in hope it is a boy, but if it's a boy no more babies for you! Combined with other factors China has on average 1.5 times as many young men as women, now that has to be the world's largest sausage-fest.
Yeah, so if you want to be an ULTIMATE TROLL, pose as a Chinese girl on the internet and make up some bullshit about wanting to speak in English for practice.
Used it once. In quick succession I was asked by three guys if I was a Chinese girl living in their province... yeah, that One Child Policy has led to a SCARY over-representation of males.
See the details of the policy is if you have a girl you can have a second baby in hope it is a boy, but if it's a boy no more babies for you! Combined with other factors China has on average 1.5 times as many young men as women, now that has to be the world's largest sausage-fest.
Yeah, so if you want to be an ULTIMATE TROLL, pose as a Chinese girl on the internet and make up some bullshit about wanting to speak in English for practice.
emphasis mineJulianking93 said:
Don't call her. Seriously, don't call her.Julianking93 said:
You dated this girl for a month and found out she was clingy, hyper-religious, and borderline stalker-iffic. In the space of a month she's supposedly ditched all her old views and personality and is now a new person.
Bro, this is a continuation of her previous behaviour. Calling you a zillion times a day didn't work, so now she's taking even more drastic measures by trying to change her religious beliefs and personality. Getting embroiled in this isn't healthy for you, it's not healthy for her, and if you let it continue, it's going to spiral out of control. Cut your losses and cut off contact -- it sucks, but seriously, this is nuts.
at least in the short term, run. run like Dick Cheney and Karl Rove were chasing you, laughing maniacally and brandishing giant dessert forks.
AH HAHAHAHAHAHAHHAAHHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!Julianking93 said:
So long as she can keep it to herself then who cares? You said she was perfect in every other way, clearly an exaggeration but all the same if you felt that way then there shouldn't be a huge issue, get back together with her and for gods sake be completely honest if she starts that shit up again and tell her to keep religion separate from you too. Unless its something you believe in, then its okay. =]Julianking93 said:
Also, I'm sorry for the first portion of my... well my laughter, I've found others under similar consequences and it is often hilarious.
Take her back, good luck.
I have only one response adaquate enough. LOL.thiosk said:
Seeing as I haven't read your original post, I'd say give her a second chance, but make sure that is the only one. Everyone deserves one, except paedophiles and murderers.
