There are plenty of women who aren't like that. You wouldn't be compatable with her anyway if that's all she wants.
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Being nice to women doesn't mean they're obligated to go out with you. Those things you listed are nice in a potential partner, but not enough in and of themselves.OneBig Man said:
Also, I highly doubt the people hot chicks are dating who aren't you are all to a man douchebags whose only goal is to get in her pants.
I'm glad you understand.Good morning blues said:
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And it is not just me. I'm sure there are plenty of people who haven't lost their mind yet to this world based off of pop-culture.
Perfect answer. As long as I still draw breath, chivalry is not dead.Erana said:
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Who's with me?
On topic. I believe hyper-masculinity has become a stereotype, somewhat.
Mmmmeh.
Its different for every girl. Obviously you dont want to come off as a total douchebag but you dont want to seem like a wuss either.
Heres a tip, take a girl out somewhere... find a random guy, make sure he's bigger than you. Ask "did you just call my friend here a whore?" Before he says anything punch him square on the chin... or if you have a strong head, do the headbutt. Guaranteed Chivalry Poontang. OR GCP.
Sadly, yes i have noticed this. Im actually the kind of guy who is chivalrous and sadly someone said it earlier girls in our age group dont go for that... but all these unhappily married women in there 30's they cant get enough of us
Change your game up, be caring but neglectful. Nice but mean... i know it sounds wierd but they are women and well i cant say that i really understand them. Just along for the ride.
Its different for every girl. Obviously you dont want to come off as a total douchebag but you dont want to seem like a wuss either.
Heres a tip, take a girl out somewhere... find a random guy, make sure he's bigger than you. Ask "did you just call my friend here a whore?" Before he says anything punch him square on the chin... or if you have a strong head, do the headbutt. Guaranteed Chivalry Poontang. OR GCP.
Sadly, yes i have noticed this. Im actually the kind of guy who is chivalrous and sadly someone said it earlier girls in our age group dont go for that... but all these unhappily married women in there 30's they cant get enough of us
Change your game up, be caring but neglectful. Nice but mean... i know it sounds wierd but they are women and well i cant say that i really understand them. Just along for the ride.
My brother tries to get me to change who I am all the time to get a girl. But if I ended up with a girl that loved me for something she thought I was, it wouldn't be a great relationship. If they don't love you for who you are, it's not really love, is it? I'm just like you are TC, and hopefully I too will one day find the girl that's right for me. I can't be anything but what I am, and I hope that one day I'll find some girl thats insane enough to want to live with that forever .
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I know this is mildly off topic. But, I. Hate. Man-whores.
One of my friends, whom i shall only refer to as man-whore, went off and got his life fucked up because he dove into as many girls pants as he could. While i spent those years accepting my virginity. Now he has an illegitimate child with a ***** he hates to death, and i have a a girlfriend that i've been madly in love with for four years. And he has the nerve to whine about it to me. Aaron Nix is an asshat.
Anyways. Bitches be crazy. I found a nice girl. You can too.
One of my friends, whom i shall only refer to as man-whore, went off and got his life fucked up because he dove into as many girls pants as he could. While i spent those years accepting my virginity. Now he has an illegitimate child with a ***** he hates to death, and i have a a girlfriend that i've been madly in love with for four years. And he has the nerve to whine about it to me. Aaron Nix is an asshat.
Anyways. Bitches be crazy. I found a nice girl. You can too.
I know from personal experience that most girls go for guys that have respect for women, but keep in mind girls don't like guys that are way too gentlemanly either. You just have to find a balance. Most women that I know appreciate a guy who is chivalrous, just don't take it to the extreme.
I'm so sick of that stereotype too. I'm sick of people who are that stereotype.TriggerUnhappy said:
Here's a tip for you: If your friends and family are all telling you that your boyfriend is an asshole, it's not likely because he forgot to open the door for you. It's because, you know, he truly is a complete loser asshole.
I'm sure he only cheats on you because he loves you. I'm sure he only beats on you because he loves you. I'm sure he only verbally berates you because he loves you. Stop lying to yourself already. Women need to learn to respect themselves and demand that others in their life be respectful as well or not be in their lives. Women aren't the only ones who need to do this though. The guys who act like doormats need to learn to respect themselves as well and stop letting women walk all over them. There's a difference between being a doormat and showing respect. I'm sure I could explain but I'm also sure that anyone who needs this explained would ignore me just as much as they do their own family when they say the same thing.
A few points for your consideration:
I believe this goes back to our ancestors in the Ice Age. The douche bags were the ones that went out and hunted Woolly Mammoths, because back then there was nothing more bro-tastic than killing creatures for meat. Often times they would perform a ritual to sanctify and imply domination of said kill. (This ritual would later evolve into what we now know as the "T-bag".) Natural selection dictates that the man who brings in the most meat to provide, is the best partner.
Furthermore, many women are under the false impression that they can "change this douchebag of a man, into a wonderful caring human being." This viewpoint is very similar to a common delusion held by males in that "When she's talking about her feelings, she obviously wants me to give her constructive criticism about how to fix all her problems." These views will only invite disaster.
I believe this goes back to our ancestors in the Ice Age. The douche bags were the ones that went out and hunted Woolly Mammoths, because back then there was nothing more bro-tastic than killing creatures for meat. Often times they would perform a ritual to sanctify and imply domination of said kill. (This ritual would later evolve into what we now know as the "T-bag".) Natural selection dictates that the man who brings in the most meat to provide, is the best partner.
Furthermore, many women are under the false impression that they can "change this douchebag of a man, into a wonderful caring human being." This viewpoint is very similar to a common delusion held by males in that "When she's talking about her feelings, she obviously wants me to give her constructive criticism about how to fix all her problems." These views will only invite disaster.
True, but you do want to get some relationship experience under your belt while you're young. Your WILL (and I know this sounds horrible) mess up your first couple of relationship. This way, when you do get into a relationship with someone you really like, you will have learned to avoid (most of) the pitfalls that would have otherwise spelled doom for your relationship.Vohn_exel said:My brother tries to get me to change who I am all the time to get a girl. But if I ended up with a girl that loved me for something she thought I was, it wouldn't be a great relationship. If they don't love you for who you are, it's not really love, is it? I'm just like you are TC, and hopefully I too will one day find the girl that's right for me. I can't be anything but what I am, and I hope that one day I'll find some girl thats insane enough to want to live with that forever
That's because all of the brain-dead asshats are out getting laid. Weren't you paying attention?Jark212 said: