My Xbox effectively red ringed last week, my brother reset the router and it refuses to connect to the network. It happened like 2 years back, and I had no idea what I did to fix it then, I just stopped using it and it magically re-connected a few months later. I bought a PS3 today, not because of that, but because the exclusives are fucking awesome. I picked it up with Motorstorm: Apocalypse, s'dope. I've always thought the PS3 was the better console, I only used the Xbox to play with friends. I haven't even touched the thing in months now though, and it's fucking useless without an internet connection.
I'd say get a PS3, Uncharted, Little Big Planet, Infamous, Motorstorm, Metal Gear Solid, they just fuck up the Xbox, at least for me anyway.