So relationships...Why?

[bdcjacko]

Just a personal number I guess. It just seems that to me that people tend to get tired of the party and dating scene around this age + or - 2 yers I guess

Some people don't even get into the party and dating scene you know.

If I understand creager correctly, and also being older than 25. It is because you don't really know who you are till at least 25.

Some people don't even know who they are when they're 40. Arbitrary numbers.

Now you are just being difficult.

I'm sorry. But this is a thread about relationships, which are never easy to understand.

But hey I'm not 25 yet, so what do I know

Well it isn't that you just wake up on your 25th birthday and are changed. But one day you do just start getting tired of only living for you and wondering if their is more.

This is what I meant actually, and seeing as how im 19 Im going to live it up while I can. That is while I have my health, charm, good looks and a desire to party

Good attitude. Enjoy it while you can, because sooner or later you just get tired of it, and all you want to do is come home at relax and not worry about making it to the party. Also one day you realize you only have space in your wallet for a condom or an antacid and you know the antacid is going to be more useful.

 

[Rayne870]

I enjoy having someone who shares like interests and a like mind but also interjects their differing opinions and gives me a different insight into the things into my life. It's just really cool having someone that you care about and deeply cares about you and you both shape each-others lives and experiences.

Also it is really nice to have someone cook a meal for you so that it is ready when you get home from work, and also return the favor.

 

[creager91]

Just a personal number I guess. It just seems that to me that people tend to get tired of the party and dating scene around this age + or - 2 yers I guess

Some people don't even get into the party and dating scene you know.

If I understand creager correctly, and also being older than 25. It is because you don't really know who you are till at least 25.

Some people don't even know who they are when they're 40. Arbitrary numbers.

Now you are just being difficult.

I'm sorry. But this is a thread about relationships, which are never easy to understand.

But hey I'm not 25 yet, so what do I know

Well it isn't that you just wake up on your 25th birthday and are changed. But one day you do just start getting tired of only living for you and wondering if their is more.

This is what I meant actually, and seeing as how im 19 Im going to live it up while I can. That is while I have my health, charm, good looks and a desire to party

Good attitude. Enjoy it while you can, because sooner or later you just get tired of it, and all you want to do is come home at relax and not worry about making it to the party. Also one day you realize you only have space in your wallet for a condom or an antacid and you know the antacid is going to be more useful.

Lol never thought about the antacid with my metabolism but ill keep that in mind, and also Do women really care if a guy has a condom or not? cuz my usual excuse is...would you rather I dont have one when things get to that point?

 

[bdcjacko]

Just a personal number I guess. It just seems that to me that people tend to get tired of the party and dating scene around this age + or - 2 yers I guess

Some people don't even get into the party and dating scene you know.

If I understand creager correctly, and also being older than 25. It is because you don't really know who you are till at least 25.

Some people don't even know who they are when they're 40. Arbitrary numbers.

Now you are just being difficult.

I'm sorry. But this is a thread about relationships, which are never easy to understand.

But hey I'm not 25 yet, so what do I know

Well it isn't that you just wake up on your 25th birthday and are changed. But one day you do just start getting tired of only living for you and wondering if their is more.

This is what I meant actually, and seeing as how im 19 Im going to live it up while I can. That is while I have my health, charm, good looks and a desire to party

Good attitude. Enjoy it while you can, because sooner or later you just get tired of it, and all you want to do is come home at relax and not worry about making it to the party. Also one day you realize you only have space in your wallet for a condom or an antacid and you know the antacid is going to be more useful.

Lol never thought about the antacid with my metabolism but ill keep that in mind, and also Do women really care if a guy has a condom or not? cuz my usual excuse is...would you rather I dont have one when things get to that point?

i don't know if metobolism has anything to do with heartburn. I nevered carried a condom because of the girls wishes. I carried one so if it was a one night stand, I wouldn't have to see her again, if you get my meaning.

 

[creager91]

Just a personal number I guess. It just seems that to me that people tend to get tired of the party and dating scene around this age + or - 2 yers I guess

Some people don't even get into the party and dating scene you know.

If I understand creager correctly, and also being older than 25. It is because you don't really know who you are till at least 25.

Some people don't even know who they are when they're 40. Arbitrary numbers.

Now you are just being difficult.

I'm sorry. But this is a thread about relationships, which are never easy to understand.

But hey I'm not 25 yet, so what do I know

Valid point lol, Ima be honest, even though I am a player I'm also a virgin which according to my best friend makes me the worst kind of player (my best friend is a girl and the one who told me I was a player haha) Im the guy that just messes with a girls mind then im done with them, according to her
Well it isn't that you just wake up on your 25th birthday and are changed. But one day you do just start getting tired of only living for you and wondering if their is more.

This is what I meant actually, and seeing as how im 19 Im going to live it up while I can. That is while I have my health, charm, good looks and a desire to party

Good attitude. Enjoy it while you can, because sooner or later you just get tired of it, and all you want to do is come home at relax and not worry about making it to the party. Also one day you realize you only have space in your wallet for a condom or an antacid and you know the antacid is going to be more useful.

Lol never thought about the antacid with my metabolism but ill keep that in mind, and also Do women really care if a guy has a condom or not? cuz my usual excuse is...would you rather I dont have one when things get to that point?

i don't know if metobolism has anything to do with heartburn. I nevered carried a condom because of the girls wishes. I carried one so if it was a one night stand, I wouldn't have to see her again, if you get my meaning.

 

[Nimcha]

Just a personal number I guess. It just seems that to me that people tend to get tired of the party and dating scene around this age + or - 2 yers I guess

Some people don't even get into the party and dating scene you know.

If I understand creager correctly, and also being older than 25. It is because you don't really know who you are till at least 25.

Some people don't even know who they are when they're 40. Arbitrary numbers.

Now you are just being difficult.

I'm sorry. But this is a thread about relationships, which are never easy to understand.

But hey I'm not 25 yet, so what do I know

Well it isn't that you just wake up on your 25th birthday and are changed. But one day you do just start getting tired of only living for you and wondering if their is more.

I've already realized what 'more' there is, and I prefer living for myself.

My girlfriend agrees with me on that!

 

[bdcjacko]

Just a personal number I guess. It just seems that to me that people tend to get tired of the party and dating scene around this age + or - 2 yers I guess

Some people don't even get into the party and dating scene you know.

If I understand creager correctly, and also being older than 25. It is because you don't really know who you are till at least 25.

Some people don't even know who they are when they're 40. Arbitrary numbers.

Now you are just being difficult.

I'm sorry. But this is a thread about relationships, which are never easy to understand.

But hey I'm not 25 yet, so what do I know

Well it isn't that you just wake up on your 25th birthday and are changed. But one day you do just start getting tired of only living for you and wondering if their is more.

I've already realized what 'more' there is, and I prefer living for myself.

My girlfriend agrees with me on that!

k, just to be clear, I was using you in the broader sense, not a personal sense. I'm not saying anything about you personally.

Now from what I understand you are a girl and have a girlfriend. I'm from missouri, the show me state. So I need to see pictures or else it didn't happen.

 

[Fetzenfisch]

Jealousy isnt the biproduct of relationships, but of weak insecure individuals that dont honestly trust their partners, or the fact that one of you cant keep the fidelity, both tells me there is no reason to have a relationship at all.

Either you can happily trust each other, or leave it be.

 

[P0RTAL]

I'm also usually pretty cynical about relationships and true love and all that. I've only ever had one crush before I dragged myself down to a realistic view. Watch out because I'm about to delve into the "crazy cat lady" state. I beleive that you should at least always have one person in your life that you can truly care for and take care of. I think it's healthy to have at least one person or thing you would be willing to risk your health or comfort to protect. Maybe that thing isn't a person. Maybe it's a cat and you can be called a crazy cat man or maybe it's a dog (in which case you would just be regarded as a loyal dog owner) Although I don't imagine you as much of a cat or dog person so I hope that you do find someone to care for.

 

[creager91]

Just a personal number I guess. It just seems that to me that people tend to get tired of the party and dating scene around this age + or - 2 yers I guess

Some people don't even get into the party and dating scene you know.

If I understand creager correctly, and also being older than 25. It is because you don't really know who you are till at least 25.

Some people don't even know who they are when they're 40. Arbitrary numbers.

Now you are just being difficult.

I'm sorry. But this is a thread about relationships, which are never easy to understand.

But hey I'm not 25 yet, so what do I know

Well it isn't that you just wake up on your 25th birthday and are changed. But one day you do just start getting tired of only living for you and wondering if their is more.

I've already realized what 'more' there is, and I prefer living for myself.

My girlfriend agrees with me on that!

k, just to be clear, I was using you in the broader sense, not a personal sense. I'm not saying anything about you personally.

Now from what I understand you are a girl and have a girlfriend. I'm from missouri, the show me state. So I need to see pictures or else it didn't happen.

Dude trust me from most lesbians I know if she is a she then you likely dont want to see it lol

 

[bdcjacko]

Dude trust me from most lesbians I know if she is a she then you likely dont want to see it lol

Look bro, I'm like any dude. You know, once you see one chick, you want to see them all.

 

[Nimcha]

Just a personal number I guess. It just seems that to me that people tend to get tired of the party and dating scene around this age + or - 2 yers I guess

Some people don't even get into the party and dating scene you know.

If I understand creager correctly, and also being older than 25. It is because you don't really know who you are till at least 25.

Some people don't even know who they are when they're 40. Arbitrary numbers.

Now you are just being difficult.

I'm sorry. But this is a thread about relationships, which are never easy to understand.

But hey I'm not 25 yet, so what do I know

Well it isn't that you just wake up on your 25th birthday and are changed. But one day you do just start getting tired of only living for you and wondering if their is more.

I've already realized what 'more' there is, and I prefer living for myself.

My girlfriend agrees with me on that!

k, just to be clear, I was using you in the broader sense, not a personal sense. I'm not saying anything about you personally.

Now from what I understand you are a girl and have a girlfriend. I'm from missouri, the show me state. So I need to see pictures or else it didn't happen.

I know, I know. My point is just that I think it's impossible to define an age after which relationships are actually meaningful, or something like that. I think whether a relationship is worthy or not is only subjective.

And shame on you for asking for pictures, shaaame!

 

[bdcjacko]

I know, I know. My point is just that I think it's impossible to define an age after which relationships are actually meaningful, or something like that. I think whether a relationship is worthy or not is only subjective.

And shame on you for asking for pictures, shaaame!

Well if you want a dead certain age, then yes, it is impossible. But if you just want to give and average of when most people pull their heads out of their asses, then now.

And I was just kidding with pictures.

 

[VanQ]

Eventually, you'll meet a person who makes you truly happy. Someone who makes you feel like a part of you is missing when they're not around. Someone who makes you want to try things you've never considered before. That's why. When it's good, a relationship is like a puzzle. The pieces fit together, and the picture isn't whole otherwise.

I read that in Fluttershy's voice because of you avatar, and that made it so much more believable.
OT: I can't really comment OP, I've never been in a relationship and ever since I resigned myself to a life of loneliness, it seems I've started to draw attention. I think I'll stick with being single for now though as I really don't have any time between full time work and full time studying (and part time Pokemon).

 

[Kaytastrophe]

Dude, a healthy relationship is the best thing in the world. It is awesome to know there is someone out there who cares about you, likes you for who you are, and is willing to do anything to help you. They are a constant support, they make you happy. They usually aren't meant to be stressful or anything... yes they can be at times but name me one thing worthwhile that isn't. Honestly, when your with the right person and have a healthy relationship its the best, its like living with your best friend only better.

 

[creager91]

Just a personal number I guess. It just seems that to me that people tend to get tired of the party and dating scene around this age + or - 2 yers I guess

Some people don't even get into the party and dating scene you know.

If I understand creager correctly, and also being older than 25. It is because you don't really know who you are till at least 25.

Some people don't even know who they are when they're 40. Arbitrary numbers.

Now you are just being difficult.

I'm sorry. But this is a thread about relationships, which are never easy to understand.

But hey I'm not 25 yet, so what do I know

Well it isn't that you just wake up on your 25th birthday and are changed. But one day you do just start getting tired of only living for you and wondering if their is more.

I've already realized what 'more' there is, and I prefer living for myself.

My girlfriend agrees with me on that!

k, just to be clear, I was using you in the broader sense, not a personal sense. I'm not saying anything about you personally.

Now from what I understand you are a girl and have a girlfriend. I'm from missouri, the show me state. So I need to see pictures or else it didn't happen.

I know, I know. My point is just that I think it's impossible to define an age after which relationships are actually meaningful, or something like that. I think whether a relationship is worthy or not is only subjective.

And shame on you for asking for pictures, shaaame!

Lol at least your a good sport about it a lot of people would easily take offense

Dude trust me from most lesbians I know if she is a she then you likely dont want to see it lol

Look bro, I'm like any dude. You know, once you see one chick, you want to see them all.

Haha I feel ya man but damn from the lesbians I know (I frequent gay clubs cuz the girls there are dimes and its the best club in my area) Id rather not have seen their partner lol

 

[LHZA]

What kind of woman are you the men of the escapist dating? I always read this complaint of woman costing money. I pay for things for my boyfriend just as much as he pays for me, so we both end up breaking even, also when we go out to dinner, movie or just out and such, we usually pay for ourselves, or he'll buy one pitcher and I'll buy the next. He buys me gifts for my birthday and christmas and I do the same for him. This is how it's pretty much always been between us. What's it been like for you? I really want to know.

 

[Sangreal Gothcraft]

One will eventually that one special person, until then, Screw that and I'll just continue to hop from one bed to another..

 

[creager91]

Dude, a healthy relationship is the best thing in the world. It is awesome to know there is someone out there who cares about you, likes you for who you are, and is willing to do anything to help you. They are a constant support, they make you happy. They usually aren't meant to be stressful or anything... yes they can be at times but name me one thing worthwhile that isn't. Honestly, when your with the right person and have a healthy relationship its the best, its like living with your best friend only better.

You literally described my relationship with my best friend who happens to be a girl. And before I was her best friend I thought she was really attractive and other guys do too. But we dont share Core values and ideals. We talk a shit tom about how pissed we would be if we were to ever actually date and I dont see her the same way I did before we were friends. Back then I thought she was really attractive and I wanted to get to know her. She was hooking up with my roommate/friend so I spent a shit ton of time with her and now I see her as more of a sister than anything. so how can you not have that happen? like how can people not have that loss of attraction to someone they claim is "their best friend"

The way I see it is people in relationship shut their friends out and their partner becomes their only and therefore best friend because they unknowingly shut everyone else out, sure they might stil have friends but they arent on the same level anymore

 

[creager91]

What kind of woman are you the men of the escapist dating? I always read this complaint of woman costing money. I pay for things for my boyfriend just as much as he pays for me, so we both end up breaking even, also when we go out to dinner, movie or just out and such, we usually pay for ourselves, or he'll buy one pitcher and I'll buy the next. He buys me gifts for my birthday and christmas and I do the same for him. This is how it's pretty much always been between us. What's it been like for you? I really want to know.

As I said earlier for me its more of a dating thing. Like the girls now expect the guy to pay for everything and its just not fair