So there's this girl...

[narwhalman218]

So there's this girl and she is super hot, and I like her. Now, I am not what you would call appealing to the opposite sex; I am pretty short and kind of weird. But this girl is hot, smart, and is about my height! The one problem is that I don't know how to talk to her. Escapists, please help me figure out how to get this girl to like me.

 

[The Afrodactyl]

Just start up a conversation about something that's a given, something like music, and just get talking.

If it turns out that you both have a lot in common, after a while, make your move.
If not, just stay friends.

 

[L3m0n_L1m3]

Well, are you friends with her, or does she barely know you?

 

[Gigaguy64]

*Turns on a search light, it casts a image of a Bonsai Tree in the shape of a heart in the sky*
BonsaiK!
We Need you!
Seriously, look up the Relationship Help Thread, the guy who started it BonsaiK will be able to help you.
The only Advice i can give is to be yourself when you talk to her.

 

[Irridium]

Um... I hear talking to her works quite well. Just talk to her like you would anyone else, and ask her to go out.

Failing that, I suggest killing the family and moving to Mexico.

 

[gonzo20]

dont try ANY cheesy lines what so ever. never do it. the best thing to do (and yes im a shy person my self tbh) is go up to her and just say "hi, would you like to go out some time?", girls love confidence

 

[Phoenix09215]

Is there anything you can link yourself with to her? By this I mean is she in to anything you are or is she in the same classes? (thats if your still in school)

 

[RhombusHatesYou]

just say "hi, would you like to go out some time?"

And she'll say "No."

And you'll go home and cry while you masturbate.

... or maybe that's just me.

 

[Lt. Dragunov]

first does she know your alive and breathing? If so thats half the battle. If not try to get her attention, don't be too flashy or too boaring. Even if your a little wierd all guys have something about us that can get any girl we want, you just have to know what is it she's intrested in. Finding that out might be kindda hard depending on if she's friendly or a snob.

 

[Vanguard_Ex]

Pace yourself. Don't make it look like you're trying to just cover all the basics of conversation. What I mean is, instead of being like 'Hi what do you like oh me too let's date', genuinely show her you have an interest in her as a person, not just an interest in her, period. Build it up slowly. Do you two talk at all at school, on MSN, facebook, anything at all?

 

[Monkfish Acc.]

Are you good at manipulating people?
I would assume not. Otherwise this wouldn't be a problem.

I am afraid you cannot make anyone like you. Either she does, or she doesn't.
Just take a stab and hope for the best. It's all you can really do.

 

[Arawn.Chernobog]

Try saying Hi...

or killing her parents.

The first option USUALLY works better... usually

 

[Vanguard_Ex]

*Turns on a search light, it casts ta image of a Bonsai Tree in the shape of a hear in the sky*
BonsaiK!
We Need you!
Seriously, look up the Relationship Help Thread, the guy who started it BonsaiK will be able to help you.
The only Advice i can give is to be yourself when you talk to her.

All hail BonsaiK, our benevolent spirit guide!

 

[T-Bone24]

Always remember: the hardest part of a conversation is "hello". Strike up a conversation, any topic really, and get to know her.

 

[gonzo20]

just say "hi, would you like to go out some time?"

And she'll say "No."

And you'll go home and cry while you masturbate.

... or maybe that's just me.

lol maybe you, ive never had a girlfriend my self tbh but the thing is to always keep your head high and not give a dam if she says no

 

[Woodsey]

Tell her you measure 7 soft. She'll love it, trust me.

 

[TerribleAssassin]

Just talk to her when you can.


Start it about food or some shit like that and see what follows.