So...what do you find attractive in a man/woman?

[JLML]

Honesty and confidence. Looks are cool, and to a degree I would like someone who is attractive physically (and it's not hard to do that for me, because I can find beauty in almost anyone) but not necessary. If you act yourself, honestly and with confidence, you are easily ahead of everyone else. This applies to both guys and girls for me.

Stop reading my mind!!! And why are you in 50% of all threads I check??? <.<

OT: Pretty much the same, can't think of a better way to say it. (I also find beauty in everything/everyone, and all that) OR I'll just say "that person" (not to be confused with that person I just quoted, "that person" is someone else. Feel free to guess what person it is )

I'm just that good. :3

Also, IIRC, aren't you completely devoted to a person who lives far away? We talked a long time ago, and I believe you are that person. Am I right?

1. you're scary... <.<
2. Well, you're pretty right about the fact that I'm more or less completely devoted to a person far away. (damn you earth, you're always in my way!)

Now, would you please stop reading my mind? Or else I'll blame you if I lose any more on LoL xD

 

[superbatranger]

Well, I'm a sucker for brunettes and redheads, so there's that. It would be nice if she was as interested in me as I in her. Yea, if she's attractive, that would be a plus, but what matters most is not her looks, but her personality, interests, hobbies, and whatnot. If she has a good sense of humor on par with mine, awesome. What else what else...Good taste in music and movies. Able to appreciate sarcasm. She doesn't have to play video games, as long as she's OK with them. It would be better if she was a gamer, but we can't have it all, right? Concerning looks, I was never a fan of shorter hair, so shoulder length hair will do. If she's around my height, that would be nice. As long as she's not extremely skinny or fat, it's fine by me. In other words, normal.

Other than that, I don't know what else to say.

 

[oranger]

In a woman, fitness: magic abs hypnotize me.
Red hair. Tall. MUST AT LEAST LIKE VIDEO GAMES.

-sigh- I'm aware of the issues here. Fit people tend to feel hypoactive when playing video games.
But I just can't get past the tubby tummy. sorry.

 

[Harkonnen64]

Mostly someone with the same interests as me, my interests usually being pretty nerdy. Unfortunately, I find most nerd chicks I've met to be reprehensible, though if I could meet one who at least didn't look like she was beaten mercilessly with a fugly stick, I'd probably try to date her.

Though if I got to be shallow and picky:

Burnette, petite, ample breasts; waist-length hair, or short hair if she can pull it off right; and a nice ass.

We won't discuss sexual habits, as I don't think there's a girl like that out there...

But I jest.

 

[Section Crow]

i'm a straight male

i dont really have any specific's but a woman with a Australian accent is a good way to start me off and i'm a sucker for black hair

and has anyone noticed something odd about this thread?
i can feel the essence of something odd but can't put my finger on it

 

[Cozmo1]

I have high fuckin standards, since I class myself as pretty good looking... I pretty much want a female me, no fat, defined/toned body... any belly fat is a total no-no, if I can get rock abs... so can a girl (obviosuly they don't need to be quite as defined as mine... that is kinda odd.

But then again I don't want a totaly slim athetic girl with no chest or ass, I like curves, but ones with no excess body fat, the curves can be made out of muscle too...

 

[Continuity]

What do I find attractive in a woman...

damned if I know, I've given up looking for a woman who suits me. I'll take a guess however:

She should be:

Complex
Eccentric
Deep
Geek
Introvert
Philosophical
abstract
faithful
impassive
monolithic

And importantly she should not mind that I will never love her as much as my computer.. or as much as the tick of my watch.

Yeah I know, good luck with that right :|

Oh right, what should she look like? Who cares? don't you think the above is hard enough already xD

 

[_Cake_]

LOL 4 inches? I know it's the width that matters but penises aren't circular, he can't be that wide.

I like tall guys, kind heart, not bald. Anything other then that isn't set in stone. Oh more then 4 inches ;p

 

[fuhier]

To repeat a drawn together sketch.

Captian Hero travels back in time and jerks off thinking of tits into the primortal ozze and then went forward back to his normal time but then remembered he was an ass man *dramatic music*

 

[Necator15]

That is a damned good question. I've spent the last few years trying to figure out what I'm attracted to. Largely it's intelligence. The smarter I perceive them to be, the more attractive they get.

Outside that... I guess I find redheads more attractive than most other hair types, and thinner girls more attractive than their larger counterparts, and those are really my biggest physical indicators. Even then, they're relatively unimportant compared to the whole intelligence thing.

 

[geldonyetich]

My ideal mate need only be healthy, of relative age, relatively intelligent, and reasonably emotional stable. I'm not picky. I can't afford to be.

 

[LemonMelon]

I sort of like the other side. What I mean by that is someone opposite of myself in appearance. I have dark hair, dark eyes, and dark-ish skin, so I'm automatically attracted to men who have pale skin, light eyes/hair.

I also could never date a man who took himself seriously. Humor is the sexiest thing..



..next to accents. that takes the cake for me.

 

[Cheery Lunatic]

Straight Female.

I really dig stubble for some odd reason. Most of my friends think it's gross though.
I hate guys who're too serious, or angsty. I want a guy who jokes around and laughs.
It'd also be nice if he knew how to dress.
I guess the physical attribute I value the most is their eyes.
I don't like long hair on guys unless they can pull it off. Otherwise you just look like a bum.

 

[SoxFan96]

A straight male here.

I really only have two standards, intelligence and sense of humor.
Well attractiveness too, but I think that is sorta given, it is also not all that important, as long as they weigh less then me I think I am good.

I consider myself pretty intelligent (on course for taking AP calc) so they have to be intelligent. My current girlfriend is in the same classes as me (one above actually) so I am good there.

A sense of humor is related to intelligence. They have to be smart enough to understand a joke.

Attractiveness, as I said earlier isn't very important. I weigh 165 so as long as they weigh less then that I doubt I would reject them. I also don't really care about hair color.

 

[meticadpa]

I'm not gong to make a list, but Scottish accents are a huge turn-on.

O hai, I'm Scottish.



Anyway, for me, first and foremost would be intelligence. I couldn't handle going out with someone with a less than desirable IQ (I know IQ doesn't necessarily mean you're intelligent, but you get what I mean).

They do have to look good, though I'm not amazingly picky. It's amazing how much a good personality can augment someone's attractiveness. I don't have any preference for hair colour (I've been out with girls with blonde, brown, black and red/ginger hair) but eyes, I really love hazel/blue/green eyes. Though again, not hugely picky. I do prefer girls to be a little shorter. Say 5'6" and below is ideal, though I've been out with a girl who was 5'10" at the time, and it was totally cool because I'm 6'3".

They don't necessarily have to have common interests with me. One of my girlfriends didn't agree with me on practically everything, hated most of the music I listened to, hated my taste in clothes, films, my political stance, my view on education... but we clicked. Perhaps the disparity was what made us good together; to use a cliché, "opposites attract".

Someone being very talented (especially musically) is a huge turn on for me. A girl with an awesome singing voice, or an amazing gift with the piano is a huge turn on, and that'd definitely be a plus for them.

Being funny is a must, too. I don't care how interesting you are, if you can't make me laugh at least once in a while, you don't have a chance with me.

Well... I think that's about everything.

 

[jdmusic738]

Straight female here
In a guy, I like someone who:
plays older video games
is into music (I'm a musician myself)
I'm a little chubby, and I tend to like guys that are a little bigger.
Is really goofy
Laughs and smiles a lot
Is shy and maybe a little awkward

i fit 90% of that criteria (hate the music now), as well as the rest of the escapist. go ahead, pick one. XD

New music isn't too great. It's all the same. I like a lot of 70's-90's rock.
And I can't help being totally into happy nerdy guys haha XD