So you like a girl...

[Stormz]

Say nothing. I've never told any girl I liked how I feel. I just wait for it to go away. It's not that I don't want to say something, but my self esteem is bad enough as is.

 

[Slayer_2]

Not quite awe, per say, just interest. A fascination of sorts. Quick question: do you enjoy humor, or find it to be a waste of time?

I see. In the case of humor, it's a bit of both. Certainly I enjoy humor, but I find works devoted entirely to comedy (comedic movies, sitcoms, etc.) are generally so rote and intellectually unengaging that I can view them only with a mild disgust. I will, however, say that I enjoy stand-up comedy, as it consists of jokes to the exclusion of everything else. It does not have a sickeningly overwrought narrative as a vehicle to deliver jokes, and with that gone, I enjoy it just as anyone else would.

Hmmm, interesting. Thank you for your reply. One last question, if you don't mind. Are you attracted to females that are generally considered attractive (assuming you're a heterosexual male)? Or are you completely asexual?

 

[KingGolem]

Hmmm, interesting. Thank you for your reply. One last question, if you don't mind. Are you attracted to females that are generally considered attractive (assuming you're a heterosexual male)? Or are you completely asexual?

Yes, I have a fully functional heterosexual male libido.

 

[MetaMuffin]

Welp. Alot of finding a girl depends on how old you are. Assuming we are out of the dizzying hormone-filled hallways of highschool, just start talking to a girl you're interested in. If you find some sort of chemistry between the two of you, make a move. Doesn't really matter when, just don't wait too long...unless the girl is madly in love with you (which would be creepy anyway) you'll probably be friend zoned. Just ask them out to dinner or some place where you can have face to face contact and interact. It's scary as hell and you'll have a lot of awkward first dates. Worst thing you can do after those initial dates is be clingy or desperate (sadly, i speak from experience). Don't rush into anything, just keep taking them on dates and talking if it seems to be going well. It may lead to something, but there's no damage done if it doesn't. Being single is fun anyway, just enjoy knowing there are a lot of women out there and there isn't a terrible rush. Plus, me being in college, girls are horny and sleeping around is pretty common; a one night stand can be just the confidence booster you need. Seriously, if there's one thing girls are attracted to, it's confidence. Oh, if I haven't made it clear...don't ask them out over facebook or a text...that's lame and a sign of insecurity. Again, confidence. Just act like you have a big dick, it ain't that hard.

 

[mediarulestheworld]

All the girls I've told I've told over Facebook (I'm a total wuss). It's never worked out well. So, I'd suggest face-to-face.

As for guys, I live in conservative Utah. So that's out the window. >_<

 

[spartan231490]

In the past I ask them out, face-to-face if possible, sometimes I haven't had a choice and I've done it over text

 

[Sacman]

Not much... probably stop talking to her if I had before... other than that wait for it to go away most likely go into a slight depression in the mean time...<.<

 

[Ulquiorra4sama]

face to face, eh? My current relationship is an online one and it's worked out fine for almost 2 years now. The first confession wasn't face to face, but i've told her later on video chat that i love her.

I guess it's not so much about the method of delivery, but rather about whether or not you manage to make the message feel genuine. It's harder without face to face contact, but it can be done.

 

[MegaManOfNumbers]

Most of my crushes or girls I liked were ones I liked out of simple lust. I am the kind who curses god for not making me asexual. Really, I find love a hassle, because most women I meet or know are more self-centered than I am (and trust me, that's quite the feat to achieve) or not normal. You'd think you'd be able to find a lady that is logical enough to know there is more to life than just herself and has some goddamn common sense, but nope.

But, theoretically, if I did find a girl worth caring for I'd try to talk to her in private and ask her out then, or try to know her first; though that second option never goes well. "Friend Zone" my fucking ass.

But, generally, I avoid relationships or love in general, it can lead to drama, which leads to wangst on the girl's part. And I am very indifferent to people overall.

 

[Andy Beaumont]

to be honest... i can't get the courage up really to ask out a girl outright... every girl in the past i have played the LOOOOONG game and just spoken to them, flirted (so i'm not friend-zoned!) and then waited for them to either drop a major hint or the girl to hang about with me at parties a lot... it took me about a year to finally go out with my current girlfriend, but she just kissed me one day and actually she thinks i am obviously committed if i can hold out for a year like i did she trusts me and the year of getting to know each other means we are like best friends anyway... pays off in the long run

 

[psijac]

I invent a new form of screwdriver

 

[Blue Musician]

I tried to do it face to f ace about two years ago.

As you can tell I failed. Damn you alexithymia.

 

[Cridhe]

You act like you're older than a 14 year old boy first of all. Come on dude seriously.

 

[tobi the good boy]

Sacrifice an innocent puppy to the old ones and raise the city of R'lyeh so that the Dark Lord of madness will bring the silly peasant girls to me for Super evil demon orgies.

 

[Gaiseric]

Me? I'll keep it to myself, feel awkward around them, and bury the emotion deep down until it becomes a viscous black goo which I'll then use to fuel myself.

 

[TehCookie]

First things first I would tell them I'm gay and flirt and judge their reaction...

I prefer to say it face to face. If I like him and I think he likes me I'm not going to beat around the bush. If I'm unsure if he feels the same way then I try to hint at it and/or flirt, but I suck at flirting. Though I still liked the way my ex confessed. We were getting ready to fight a bunch of strong monsters in Guild Wars and he said "In case we don't make it I just have to say I love you." I still find that sweet (and since it was long distance he couldn't tell me face to face).

 

[z121231211]

I slowly go insane with "There's no way she's into me" and "Actually I think she might want to go out with me" and then it reaches a point where I just go up to her and say "I think you're pretty awesome, want to go to with me?"

So far it worked 1 out of 1 time. And it's starting to happen again...

 

[Legendairy314]

I get to know the girl for a bit before I do anything. It allows me to find out her relationship status, interests, personality, and if she is attracted to me. Unfortunately I've yet to find a girl I like that is actually single or wants a relationship. If that were to happen I'd just get into a more talkative state with her and ask her face to face.