The Girl Next Row.

[Ossian]

Hi all, still sort of new here I know but I had something happen too me the other day and I was wondering if anyone else shared my experience... well I already know everyone probably has, but I wanted people to share their thoughts.

So I was in summer A humanities and was having a good time (I actually like school..) and I that the girl next to me was also in my psych class, so I asked her and we laughed about the other teacher, anyways I hadn't really looked at her too much except her face and maybe a casual glance. So she was sitting next to me and the teacher is going on about mythology when suddenly she stretched her arms above her head, arms back, chest forward... I thought my eyes were going to pop out of my head, I felt like the guy from raiders of the lost ark that face melted... I kept my cool and looked away (I'm christian and don't really think it is right to stare)

The rest of the class I had complete mush brains, [http://www.thelondonpaper.com/thelondonpaper/news/london/news/researchers-talking-to-women-makes-men-thick] I was just utterly freaked out by the experience because I hadn't really had this happen before (Homeschooled) Now I have to sit next to her in class for the rest of the term (NOT COMPLAINING) but I find myself severely distracted in class at times.

Who else has this happened to? Discuss.

(PS if anyone has tips on how a tall, skinny, shy guy could go about befriending this lady, would be nice... =D)

 

[Timotei]

Welcome to wonders of the female figure. It can be a tricky little bugger. >.>

And don't be afraid to strike up conversation, but make sure it seems natural and not forced. Be available for ANY conversation topics. Openness is something we find appealing and when coupled with honesty is a bit flattering. And finally, (I wish not to pigeon hole you, but I do not know how devout you are, so I'll say this anyway) DO NOT begin talking about your personal values unless asked specifically about them. Talking about your religious or personal values right off is a sign of pretentiousness.

I sadly never really had much of an experience like that. Being girl in a school full of rather unattractive boys does have its upsides.

 

[Luke5515]

I would say just let your personality do the talking, but I wouldn't know to much. Just act like a normal person and maybe she won't notice that your weird. That's how it works for me.

 

[Ossian]

Well if you read the article they said the mush brains I'm talking about is almost non existent in women. While I am a christian I'm not going to preach a sermon to her Haha. People are quick to think we are like that.

And don't be afraid to strike up conversation, but make sure it seems natural and not forced.

Well that is the problem though, can't talk in class, I'm really awkward in trying to find out how to really start something that makes a friendship, I never have found out what "Natural" means since it is entirely unnatural for me to form relationships easy.

Anyone else have experiences?

 

[Sir Kemper]

I've had the same type of experiance.

I mean, Almost the exact same.


I love the female body...


Hurr Hurr... *Drools*

 

[Ossian]

I've had the same type of experiance.

I mean, Almost the exact same.


I love the female body...


Hurr Hurr...

Talking about in class, not . . . that...

 

[EnzoHonda]

The successful relationship I'm in now started because I assumed she was seeing someone or not interested in me. Thus, I acted like a normal human being/myself. It turns out that I am a fantastic individual when I act normally. In the past when I've tried to "turn on the charm" it has... not gone well. Be yourself. Seriously. Act like you want nothing more than to be nice to a nice person. If something is there it will happen on its own.

 

[Sir Kemper]

I've had the same type of experiance.

I mean, Almost the exact same.


I love the female body...


Hurr Hurr...

Talking about in class, not . . . that...

Ha Ha.

Naaah, I'm not talking about that.

Although now that you mention it...

Hurrr....

 

[Worgen]

next time she does it, suddenly stand up point at her and yell as loud as you can "I wanna be inside you!!!!!!!" if she doesnt run away screaming then it was meant to be

 

[SwimmingRock]

Not really had it happen, but I'd like to respond to your post-script. If you want to enjoy this well-shaped ladys figure in a more direct manner (attempting subtlety, which is not my forte), I would advice against 'befriending' her. That's one of those tactics guys think will work, but doesn't.

 

[Souplex]

They're breasts.
Get over it. -_-

Clearly you don't understand how the male mind works. You see... *Drifts off thinking about breasts*

 

[Ossian]

They're breasts.
Get over it. -_-

Female I take it? if that is the case you just possibly cannot understand. And It isn't JUST her chest that fried my optics.

If your a dude... You should be ashamed of yourself, or I should admire your gift.

 

[TheJulz]

They're breasts.
Get over it. -_-

I'm not sure that it's the kind of thing you can get over.

 

[Free Thinker]

next time she does it, suddenly stand up point at her and yell as loud as you can "I wanna be inside you!!!!!!!" if she doesnt run away screaming then it was meant to be

You, my good sir, are a Modern Socrates.
Teach us your ways.

 

[Samuel Cook]

Ah girls, I blame you all for me not getting an education since year 8.

 

[Ossian]

They're breasts.
Get over it. -_-

Clearly you don't understand how the male mind works. You see... *Drifts off thinking about breasts*

They're breasts.
Get over it. -_-

Female I take it? if that is the case you just possibly cannot understand. And It isn't JUST her chest that fried my optics.

If your a dude... You should be ashamed of yourself, or I should admire your gift.

Even if I was male I would say the same.
I'm demisexual you see, which means that I only feel attraction to people I feel emotionally close to, so, I do not think that "the guy over there" is hot even though popular opinion says otherwise.

Exactly my point, you don't get that males are completely wired different. We can't help these things that pop into our minds. I already said I was christian and don't think it's right to stare or anything, but it just happens because I'm a man, we aren't perverts.

 

[ThreeWords]

I must say, I agree with Demented teddy to a certain extent; while in class, get over it.

I will now point out that I am male, and therefore fully understand your position, but there is a certain skill in being able to forget the attraction of the flesh while trying to exercise your mind, and it's one worth learning. As the link aid earlier, men think less clearly when talking to women, due to trying t impress them. if you can drop that at will, you stand improved

That said, don't be afraid to talk to her. I'm not saying shun, just don't do as Souplex did while you're in class (or in her presence at all)

 

[Sky Captanio]

Don't stare at her. Just glance.

And to befriend her I'd suggest just be yourself. You don't want her to know you like her so don't act differently.