The Girl Next Row.

[DSK-]

Be yourself. Trying to be someone you aren't didn't do me any favours nor get me anywhere in life.

Be honest, friendly and if you talk about something together that you aren't too sure of or just don't know about, then question her on it. That would help give you yet even more material for you to talk about and get to know each others thoughts and opines.

My friends get quite surprised when I strike up conversations and do this. It also helps if you are actually interested in what the other party is talking about

 

[Ossian]

I'll move quicker next week, I don't have class again until Monday, then I have 4 days in a row.
It isn't my first crush, first crush was on one of my friends, she has a BF of 4 years though /facepalm.
Second wasn't really a crush, just my thinking wasn't clear after the first situation.

This is the first mind = blown Attraction right off.

 

[Ossian]

Sorry double post, what are the rules of asking for her facebook? Does that come off bad or like a very weak "Can I have your number?"

 

[Dyp100]

Sorry double post, what are the rules of asking for her facebook? Does that come off bad or like a very weak "Can I have your number?"

After you befriend her, ask her if she has a facebook you can add.

Great thing about facebook is it's one of the easiest ways to start to get to know someone.

Also. -Thumbs up- Good boy, having ya mind blown, if I could get you a beer, I would.

 

[DarkPanda XIII]

Doesn't happen to me in school all that much, though I will admit that it happens everywhere else. even my female roommate often wears very low tops and bends over, my brain starts to short circuit. Sad part is she was always pissed whenever I couldn't remember the conversation, that was until about...two monthes ago when she finally noticed why I short-circuited. Her only reply was "They're nice, aren't they?"

To quote Yami from the 'Abridged Series'. "Yes it is!"

But yeah, sadly any girls that have a decent rack can control me, I'm going to be whipped for life but I don't mind :3

 

[ValiantJustice]

Update:

I sat in class today and waited, she was going to show soon so I ran all the tips I decided I was going to go by from this topic.
She opened the door and I smiled at her, she didn't look at me so I was sort of bummed for half a second until she sat down and turned to me. She asked me a question about class and when a project was due so we talked about that for a moment. Simple convo, getting into the door so I was happy. Besides that didn't really interact (besides asking for some paper) until after class, I held the door open for her and said "I'm so-and-so" and she smiled and said "I'm so-and-so."

I haven't stopped smiling. Today her name, next class.. who knows?

Very nice Ossian, the name is half the battle. Whenever you see her, use her name, it instils confidence in you, and shows that you remember her. Way to go!

 

[hyperhammy]

Tell her she arroused you so she owes you one. Just kidding... stay normal...

 

[Outright Villainy]

I don't like porn anyway.
However yes it does BUT not because of the people in it, it's because of the act itself.

A friend of mine said almost those exact same words. I'd say he's one of you folk. *squints*
Though not when he's drunk. When he's drunk he's as horny as the rest of us. ^^

 

[hyperhammy]

Hi all, still sort of new here I know but I had something happen too me the other day and I was wondering if anyone else shared my experience... well I already know everyone probably has, but I wanted people to share their thoughts.

So I was in summer A humanities and was having a good time (I actually like school..) and I that the girl next to me was also in my psych class, so I asked her and we laughed about the other teacher, anyways I hadn't really looked at her too much except her face and maybe a casual glance. So she was sitting next to me and the teacher is going on about mythology when suddenly she stretched her arms above her head, arms back, chest forward... I thought my eyes were going to pop out of my head, I felt like the guy from raiders of the lost ark that face melted... I kept my cool and looked away (I'm christian and don't really think it is right to stare)

The rest of the class I had complete mush brains, [http://www.thelondonpaper.com/thelondonpaper/news/london/news/researchers-talking-to-women-makes-men-thick] I was just utterly freaked out by the experience because I hadn't really had this happen before (Homeschooled) Now I have to sit next to her in class for the rest of the term (NOT COMPLAINING) but I find myself severely distracted in class at times.

Who else has this happened to? Discuss.

(PS if anyone has tips on how a tall, skinny, shy guy could go about befriending this lady, would be nice... =D)

I've had a similar experience when I was young and noticed my classmates were getting boobs... that made the schoolday so much better xD
Lot of my male classmates had the habbit of looking at the "fruits" when talking to a girl... xD

 

[Marik2]

Here's the article on demisexuality [http://www.asexuality.org/wiki/index.php?title=Demisexual] if you are interested.

Wow didn't know there was a fancy word for someone like me. Yeah I don't lust for womens bodies I only feel sexually attracted to them if we are really close to each other. I could be in a girls changing room and not feel anything.

 

[Ossian]

Sorry for sort of bumping this thread I felt it warranted a proper closing.
For all who helped me with advice: Thanks.

I ended up talking to the girl a little bit more, and yesterday I asked her if she wanted to go to the class museum project with me (it's a class thing I know but it's still hanging out) Today we talked for over two hours with almost no awkward silence or anything. I'm reasonably certain I could get a date with this lady if I asked.

So this is for you other shy escapists eying that girl.
Talk to her, make yourself known to her, she almost certainly won't notice you on her own. Don't worry about what to talk about (just don't tell her how star wars is the best film of all time) talk about what you feel about class, tell her how eccentric you think the teacher is. Just Talk. Don't be annoying, if she isn't digging the convo withdraw and try again later. If you don't the worst thing that can happen already is happening: SHE ISN'T TALKING TO YOU.

Again sorry for bump.

 

[goatzilla8463]

LOL... Boobies.

Meh, I just sit there and perv

 

[goatzilla8463]

so you saw the outline of a boob, big deal.

Your avatar is so apropriate for your post.