The Girl Next Row.

[Hashime]

I am in all math and science courses this semester, so their are a grand total of 5 girls out on my 5 classes, some repeated. It is needless to say nerd girls are not always distracting.

 

[Sjakie]

They're breasts.
Get over it. -_-

In time (as in many, many years) when the hormone levels in your brain start dropping you will see that this is good advice.
For now....well all hetrosexual males can agree and understand that you would rather 'get on them' then 'get over it', it's nature: fight it and you will lose!

Just be nice, be yourself and flirt a little to see if you have a shot.

 

[Ossian]

Class is later today, I should encounter said fair creature and see how things go with simple conversation. Maybe a joke about class.

 

[Slayer_2]

No, demisexuality is as much a valid sexuality as heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual and asexual.

That was a joke, sorry. I guess internet humor is hard to pick up on

I don't like porn anyway.

Fair enough, but I'm sure some demisexuals do enjoy it.

However yes it does BUT not because of the people in it, it's because of the act itself.

Ok, I get it.

 

[Dyp100]

I'm not sure whether to say you are lucky or not.

Where I live, there is NO nice girls, seriously, I've never seen a girl that would be worth starring at. -Tuts and shakes head- Then again, I do find the human body mostly disgusting. (Though, like all male teenagers, that doesn't get in the way of dirty thoughts.)

You want help? Ask her out, simple as. If you like her, and she seems to be nice to you, ask her out, beating around the bush is bad.

 

[not_the_dm]

Basically mate, just be yourself. One tip though, if there is a school based social event coming up soon, eg a ball, ask her early on. DO NOT HESITATE.

That was my mistake...

She went with someone else.

 

[Palademon]

As to dealing with getting with girls I completely suck. After becoming good friends with a girl that has tons of things in common with me, falling in love and asking her out only to find out no one could ever feel the same way and instead of giving me a legitimate reason, tells me I'm "Unique, thoughtful and actually kinda cute" (those words will haunt me), she says we live too far apart and if we lived closer she would go out with me, only to have that betrayed the next day when she goes out with a guy I hate that lives near me, that's only good quality is insulting everyone else to suck up to her. Three days later they stop because she apparently "missed being single" (yay for me). And after ages of continued friendship, she finally says she just didnt and doesnt want a boyfriend, decided the guy's a bastard, but went out with him because she wanted to do something "unexpected". FML

 

[CakeDragon]

Even I get distracted by boobs sometimes.

With stuff like this, be cool, act natural, and don't let your eyes stray below her face...

 

[Dyp100]

As to dealing with getting with girls I completely suck. After becoming good friends with a girl that has tons of things in common with me, falling in love and asking her out only to find out no one could ever feel the same way and instead of giving me a legitimate reason, tells me I'm "Unique, thoughtful and actually kinda cute" (those words will haunt me), she says we live too far apart and if we lived closer she would go out with me, only to have that betrayed the next day when she goes out with a guy I hate that lives near me, that's only good quality is insulting everyone else to suck up to her. Three days later they stop because she apparently "missed being single" (yay for me). And after ages of continued friendship, she finally says she just didnt and doesnt want a boyfriend, decided the guy's a bastard, but went out with him because she wanted to do something "unexpected". FML

Called the friend zone, mate.

It's a boon to all of us nice guys. -Sigh-

 

[Ossian]

Update:

I sat in class today and waited, she was going to show soon so I ran all the tips I decided I was going to go by from this topic.
She opened the door and I smiled at her, she didn't look at me so I was sort of bummed for half a second until she sat down and turned to me. She asked me a question about class and when a project was due so we talked about that for a moment. Simple convo, getting into the door so I was happy. Besides that didn't really interact (besides asking for some paper) until after class, I held the door open for her and said "I'm so-and-so" and she smiled and said "I'm so-and-so."

I haven't stopped smiling. Today her name, next class.. who knows?

 

[Dyp100]

Update:

I sat in class today and waited, she was going to show soon so I ran all the tips I decided I was going to go by from this topic.
She opened the door and I smiled at her, she didn't look at me so I was sort of bummed for half a second until she sat down and turned to me. She asked me a question about class and when a project was due so we talked about that for a moment. Simple convo, getting into the door so I was happy. Besides that didn't really interact (besides asking for some paper) until after class, I held the door open for her and said "I'm so-and-so" and she smiled and said "I'm so-and-so."

I haven't stopped smiling. Today her name, next class.. who knows?

-Claps- Well done, mate. Now a couple more steps to go. xD

You got a name, a good start. Maybe if you see her in a more free time try strike up a conversation, and befriend her.

 

[not_the_dm]

As I said, tall, skinny, pale guy with no mode of transportation.

Could be worse. You could be a short, skinny, pale guy with no mode of transportation.

 

[brodie21]

so you saw the outline of a boob, big deal.

 

[not_the_dm]

Yeah...do not compare me to non-human life please.

Asari are awesome, it was a complement.

Read my bio and motto on my profile.

Ooh ... bit harsh. I'll contradict you on your views of humanity in the universe, but the sexuality bit I don't mind

Edit: Woah woah wait, you don't know what a Klingon is?

No I do not

... Chay' lah soh ghobe' Sov nuq tlhIngan 'oh?
Seriously... Have you never watched Star Trek?

 

[Mr.logic]

Try just talking to the girl. Act normal, don't stare, but the occasional glance is fine. If you two have that connection, you'll probably end up together soon. Congrats on not staring at her chest, by the way

Actually.
Demisexuals can be attracted to both sexes.
As I stated it's not about the body, it's about our emotional bond.

You're just mentally evolved that way. Us straight teenage males are usually quite hypnotized by boobs.

No, demisexuality is as much a valid sexuality as heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual and asexual.

And because I have to ask, I suppose porn does nothing for you, then?

I don't like porn anyway.
However yes it does BUT not because of the people in it, it's because of the act itself.

Cough... 0_o

Um yes as hypnotic as they are some have the will power to not fall prey to thier jubbly powers(but never 100 percent of the time).

 

[PixieFace]

The rest of the class I had complete mush brains, [http://www.thelondonpaper.com/thelondonpaper/news/london/news/researchers-talking-to-women-makes-men-thick] I was just utterly freaked out by the experience because I hadn't really had this happen before (Homeschooled) Now I have to sit next to her in class for the rest of the term (NOT COMPLAINING) but I find myself severely distracted in class at times.

asasgfwlkrjSASD AWWWWW! You are so cute, I love you already. You should definitely go for her, even if it's just to be friends. It's good to see the world and all the people it has to offer when you're just out of homeschooling. Be calm, don't get sweaty, and be yourself. If she's not a psychobitch, your shyness will be very endearing to her.

I hope it works out! Let us know how it goes.

 

[Ossian]

so you saw the outline of a boob, big deal.

I never used the word Boobs Breasts Titties or anything, I said she stretched and people naturally come to that thought. As I said, it was her whole appearance, face body, legs whatever. Brain = Boom.

 

[Dyp100]

so you saw the outline of a boob, big deal.

I never used the word Boobs Breasts Titties or anything, I said she stretched and people naturally come to that thought. As I said, it was her whole appearance, face body, legs whatever. Brain = Boom.

Your mind was blown? Is this your first female crush? XD

 

[2fish]

Stop typing, Start calling her! Move! Take your shot, if you miss learn from it, if you score congratulations. Remember eyes are never to go below her neck when you are talking to her. Trust me it will be horrible if you wait and some other guy makes a move, especially if you know he is an asshat that will hurt her. If you read this far and have yet to call her I am disappointed with you.

-2fish