The Girl Next Row.
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Just act like you would around anyone else. Don't try to charm her, don't come right out with a compliment, some would find it kinda creepy. If she sits next to you it makes it way easier to strike up a conversation casually. If you don't know her interests making an observation to her can help, here's to hoping she has something on her person that poses a point of interest, such as references to movies or books, mutual interest in a fandom can make things much easier.
Other ways to start conversations can be asking about maybe something about her. Maybe she wears this same bracelet every day or the same necklace, ask her about it, maybe it has sentimental value, or a story. But most of all, don't force it.
Other ways to start conversations can be asking about maybe something about her. Maybe she wears this same bracelet every day or the same necklace, ask her about it, maybe it has sentimental value, or a story. But most of all, don't force it.
Because breasts are sexualized, it's not something that one can normally 'get over' in a western society. Maybe if people weren't so scared of the human body and saw it as a natural thing, rather than a sexual thing, it wouldn't be a problem.Demented Teddy said:
I'm the same way and I am a guy. I see breasts but I'm not to bothered. However there is this girl who I have know for about 5-6 years now. Didn't even take a second glance at her when I first met her but now she's one of my best friends and I can't stop thinking about her.Demented Teddy said:
However I have had an experiance with said girl a few times. Mainly because we play badminton together and she wears quite a short skort. I've got to admit that I was a little embarrased to talk to her for a while.
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emotional bonds between women are hotDemented Teddy said:
I have much to teach you young one but fear not, that is why I am hear, to teach and expectorate knowledge to allFree Thinker said:
Im sure it would be much more beneficial for him to get under it....Demented Teddy said:
(Sexist Joke Over)
OT: start with a compliment maybe, then just be yourself i suppose.
First of all, allow me to congratulate you on your self-control. Believe me, getting caught staring at the headlights is a good way to find yourself in a lot of pain.Ossian said:
Secondly, (and this will sound trite but..) act casually. Be calm and be friendly. Don't let her know how much she makes you sweat. She may be trying to prod you to see how you react.
Thirdly, listen to her. Throughout any given conversation she may drop clues as to who she is, where she is coming from, her likes, her dislikes, etc. This also might clue you in to whether or not she digs you.
Got all that, Captain?
Me? Well, there was this girl in highschool. Real sweetheart. Cute face. Shy as can be. I thought me and her had good chemistry. Complication: she was also be pursued by our school's star runningback. Big, handsome, built like a battle tank. He began flirting with her too. So it was that one day she invited me to come with her a local anime convention...and *shiver* cosplay.
That's right. I was so head over heels for this girl that I was willing to look like a total goon. So me and some friends drive over to Orlando and meet up at the Convention Center in full costume. We were not alone. Apparently, she also invited the football ogre as well. The tension was thick. I seriously thought me and him were gonna slug it out. But then, he did the strangest thing. He pulled me aside and we had a chat. He explained that he wanted to take a swing at this girl, and he realized I wanted my shot too. We both agreed to respect her wishes and not to interfere with each other's attempts at hooking up with her. If she chose one of us, the other would back down like a gentleman. We shook hands and all was well.
...until the girl in question walked in the door. Boys and girls, that was the most stunning and erotic thing I had seen in my life up to that point.
She always wore sweaters that seemed to hide her figure. So when she comes in dressed in a skin tight latex body suit (she was dressed like Rei from NGE), revealing a body that made me grateful for the loose robes I had on....all bets were off. I don't know how long the two of us stood there staring like dorks but I remember her walking past and telling us to follow her...I remember making eye contact with the runningback. The message was clear: one of us was going down.
Well, it didn't quite work out that way. Seems the convention was her excuse to meet up with this older guy she had been chatting with online (the guy was in his 30s). So neither of us got the girl.
So yeah, the rest of the convention saw a dour looking generic ronin moping around with a sour looking Kenshiro.
Moral of the story: learn the facts before you dive in.
I have read it quite a while ago. Thanks anyway. I'm glad your the same. My mates (guys) think I'm a little weird because of it, because I am not attracted to the boobies but I'm just happy to be who I am. It's also quite nice for me because I can talk to girls when I meet them even if they are drop dead gourgeous and have Mt Everbreasts on their chest without drooling.Demented Teddy said:
BEHOLD MORTALS!Demented Teddy said:
We have come down from the land of Escapia for you to bask in our heavenly aura of specialness. Enjoy while it lasts. ^^ I like feeling specially loved.
I so read that in his voice and it was awesome! Anyways, I guess it already has begun, I got class with her 5 days a week, so I will have opportunity, I just need to get over this vexing shyness and awkwardness.Sky Captanio said:
Oh and did I mention how awesome this community is?
We are pretty cool.Ossian said:
I've found that no matter what you ask (most) people will take it seriously.