The most Crushing things people have said to you.

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Eddy-16

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As I am going back to college tomorrow, I thought I'd make a thread were people will (hopefully) share their crushing and miserable moments. Big two for me are:
1)A girl who I absolutely loved saying "Ted, I love you to pieces and we'd be perfect together you make me laugh, you're the nicest guy I know and I would go out with you, but we're too close to each other so it would ruin things.
2) Said by some teachers and my parents once or twice "I'm not mad and I'm not going to shout, I'm just disappointed in you." Fucking ouch

And because some joker will proabably say it "Is it in yet?" doesn't count unless its true.
 
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When my fiancée told me that she didn't like Firefly.

Worst day of my life.

Thankfully, I'm making her watch more of it, and it's actually growing on her.



Crisis averted :D
 

Random Argument Man

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Montreal Canadians or NHL fans will understand this*

So I've met a friend of a friend of mine. She was pretty and I decided to talk to her just to know her. However, she was in after-break-up mode and every guy that she didn't trusted was the enemy. Now, I didn't shave that night and I wore an old t-shirt.

She called me Scott Gomez. When I asked her why, she replied "because you look like someone who haven't score in more than a year".


confidence, for the night, was shattered...



That, and my first crush basicly took my heart and ripped to pieces when she said that she already had a boyfriend.
 

DugMachine

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Girl I was crushing on first year of uni real hard and when I finally asked her out, "You're like a little brother to me!"

My heart. It is borke
 

Ljs1121

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When somebody I only just met told me to shut the rude-word-for-sexual-intercourse up because I sounded like a homosexual-slur-that-originally-referred-to-a-pile-of-sticks.

I normally wouldn't have minded but I had just met the guy within an hour before then. Kinda stung a little.
 

Random Argument Man

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Wolverine18 said:
Random Argument Man said:
She called me Scott Gomez. When I asked her why, she replied "because you look like someone who haven't score in more than a year".
OUCH...I would think that took you out for more than a night lol
My friends, who make it their mission to tease me at every turn, gave me some slack for a week. A few gin-tonics gave me some sort of comfort for the night...The hangover made it something else to think about.
 
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DugMachine said:
Girl I was crushing on first year of uni real hard and when I finally asked her out, "You're like a little brother to me!"

My heart. It is borke
to me, that's worse than saying "i just don't think it would ever work" or something along those lines, being called a "little brother" just seems like they are insulting your intelligence.


OT: Hm..said to me? I can't exactly recall certain phrases..i've never had someone make me feel so small and insignificant as my ex-gf did, but it was more the way her words were phrased than the actual words herself, she didn't curse once and she never said "i hate you" or anything of the sort..but "dat feels", twas harsh.

I do remember in 3rd grade, my teacher gave me a full week of detention when I was talking with a friend after a bathroom break, I asked him why he was pitching last night (we played on the same baseball team, and usually he played 2nd base), and the teacher misheard the conversation and he thought I said "why were you bitching last night" and he proceeded to grab my arm and yank me down to the principles office and I got scolded for ever using such language, when I pleaded that that was the wrong word and he misheard me, but at that point he was too damn stubborn to give it up.

Also, just remembered, in 7th grade I was walking down the hall during passing period, and one of the administrators grabbed me and yanked me into their office (I was walking by it to my next class so I was right there) and he proceeded to ***** me out like I was an army recruit and he was my drill seargant, I had never been so scared and confused in my life as to what the problem was, he kept accusing me of skipping class and smoking a joint out back of the school, and I've always been pretty much a goody goody, but in 7th grade I had little to no spine, so I nearly broke into tears in confusion and trying to talk over him to tell him it wasn't me and I didn't do anything.

Low and behold, 10 minutes later after all that, the other administrator walked in with the real perpetrator behind it all...the kid has the EXACT same first name as me, and we looked pretty damn similar (same height/hair length/both are white kids)..and the administrator who just walked in looked at me with an "oh shit.." face, and the administrator who had just bitched me out for the past 10-15 minutes didn't even give me a single "sorry" or anything, he just said "well, I better never catch you doing that ever, get to class before I give you a tardy detention"

and at that point, I was just thinking about getting away from him as far as possible, so I hauled ass out of there and avoided him for the rest of my time there.
 

Phasmal

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Sadly, I've had to do more `crushing`, though I don't think of it that way.
Had to tell a dude that I didn't share his feelings, I wouldn't think that was that harsh, but according to this thread it's pretty crushing.
And I had to break up with my ex, but I'm sure wherever he is he'd agree we were better off. Or maybe he still hates me, I wouldn't know. I'm sure he's moved on though.

Though, if you mean, proper life altering horrible crushing, it would be when my nan told me she has cancer. It was like all the air deflated out of the room. Honestly, I still don't know how to deal with it. Nothing like that had happened in my family since I was born, I don't know what to do. Especially because of how my grandparents have always been the only solid parental figures in my life, I never want anything bad to happen to them.
 

lacktheknack

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"Well, Grandma's been told to leave the old-folks' home... we'll have to put her in a dementia ward."

Things got much, much worse.
 

DoomyMcDoom

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"I'M GOING TO CRUSH YOU WITH A PIANO, AND A SAFE, AND A FRIDGE!!!

Actually, I've been called ugly, stupid, fat, a loser, and many other things, but it really never "crushed" me, I think the culmination of that being how everyone talked to me for years, and the lack of any friends in school were what crushed me most, I did however recover and am now a confident and competent human.
 

Kopikatsu

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"GET OUT. I DON'T WANT TO SEE YOU AGAIN. YOU MADE ME REGRET NOT CHOOSING TO HAVE AN ABORTION WHEN I HAD THE CHANCE."
- Mother

The funny thing is that I don't even remember what I did to piss her off, although that was the third time she kicked me out of the house. As chance would have it, it was also the final time because I just called a cab and went to go live with my grandparents. Then she called the police and tried to have my grandparents (her parents) arrested for kidnapping. Woo.
 

Vault101

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hmm I few times I guess

one incident involved pancakes...Usually I can just do it from scratch with no recipe, however I was at home at the time and mum gave me this cookbook

one of the ingredients was butter/margerine which I added to the mix when I wasnt suposed too

mum then somhow related my inhability to read the insctructions properly as to why I wouldnt be able to get a job in the future or some shit

and in my defence the cook book was old, so I think the butter was there to [i/]grease the pan[/i] and I didnt even need the fucking recipe....damn I was so mad

another was when I got a hair cut...and I had a notable fringe which I wore out, now this may not seem like a big deal but me being as neurotic as I was at the time doing somthing different to my hair/apearance was a big deal..I had wanted to change it (and by extension change myself). But then my older sister who I'm usre was well meaning had me pin it back

this felt like a step backward since I looked like I did before, anyway mum read the annoyance on my face and commented on it to whcih my sister said "well do you want her to look like a freak!?"

it was probably one of the most crushing things ever...I tried somthing different and aparently I looked like a freak...I never wore my fringe out after that, I never changed my hair after that, I did not try anything different for the crippling fear I would look bad..I was just stuck with my same old self that I was unhappy with

again...not really a big deal on the surface but I think from a psychological standpoint it kind of was

of coarse now I'm over it and I dont care what she thinks