BreakfastMan said:
I am thinking of the leaders of A Voice For Men and The Spearhead, two of the most prominent sites. Both have said absolutely awful things and both of which are generally held up as leaders in the MRA community. Warren Farrel talked about how date rape is sexy in his book, so I don't have any direct links to that, but I do have links to images of the passage where he discusses that, if you like.
As for links to horrible stuff from them... Well, those are more easy to find!
Horrible shit from The Spearhead:
http://www.the-spearhead.com/2013/10/14/why-you-might-want-to-think-twice-about-sending-your-daughter-to-college/
http://www.the-spearhead.com/2012/05/30/after-25-women-are-just-wasting-time/
http://www.the-spearhead.com/2010/09/15/how-female-suffrage-destroyed-western-civilization/
Horrible shit from A Voice For Men:
http://www.avoiceformen.com/feminism/women-dont-own-sex/
http://www.avoiceformen.com/feminism/chanty-no-not-that-one/
http://www.avoiceformen-uk.com/2013/07/are-women-homophobic.html
http://www.the-spearhead.com/2013/10/14/why-you-might-want-to-think-twice-about-sending-your-daughter-to-college/
that indeed is quite dumb "article", mainly because it is about mostly patriotismVScriticism, but for some reason it is presented as gender issue.
http://www.the-spearhead.com/2012/05/30/after-25-women-are-just-wasting-time/
Title aside this is quite valid point for everyone. Since most of us age like white wine or even milk, while only exceptional ones age like red wine. I don't know about your age, but as someone at age of 25 who used to believe that it is never too late, I can say that there is such thing as "too late"
http://www.the-spearhead.com/2010/09/15/how-female-suffrage-destroyed-western-civilization/
Despite tone, this article kinda have a point. So what is your exact issue with it?
http://www.avoiceformen.com/feminism/women-dont-own-sex/
Wait, this article is actually quite true. You know, you're trying to prove me that MHRA are bunch of backward fucktards, right?
http://www.avoiceformen.com/feminism/chanty-no-not-that-one/

Oh, man, that's 100% Paul Elam, pissed, snarky and cynical.
If you have problem with his tone, then no one can help you.
I'm not even sure at what level of sarcasm he is operating

But I'm quite sure his reporting on event was precise
MHRAs can't exactly make up stuff, othervise feminists will pick flesh of their bones for lying
http://www.avoiceformen-uk.com/2013/07/are-women-homophobic.html
Wait a minute, have you even read these articles? This article again brings on quite good point (hint: it isn't about women being 100% homophobes). Yes they do have controversial titles, but that is good way to bring attention. And most of them have good things to think about (couple were even spot on).
Once again I'll repeat myself
There is no official "leaders" in MHRM
And this organization is quite diverse, so there are enough of angry people
But most of them are angry not because they are batshit crazy
No, majority of those angry people either have been burned few times too much, or something precious (usually kids) has been taken from them (usually by bull-shit-law backed wife).
And I can tell you one thing- every decent man will go berserk when someone even dares to propose harm to their children
(I personally will rearrange limbs of anyone who will even think about harming kids of my siblings)
So being "a bit angry" is quite understandable.
(granted we can't know every single detail on every such case that was ever presented in public, but I prefer to believe people until proven wrong)
And from what I have heard and read about MHRM, physical violence is discouraged, while critical thinking is encouraged
So painting them with broad strokes just proves ignorance of anyone doing so