The school bully's little brother problem. I.E The I'm screwed either way problem

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Go for authority. First of all talk to your parents, see if they support you on this. When I was bullied mine said "We can do nothing about that." so figure out if you are on your own. Next step talk to a teacher or a the principle about this, prepare yourself with a speech, not a simple whine, explain that your rights are being violated and you are being threatened. If they ignore you, do the worst - get a legal help, or threaten them with such in a official letter/email. Where I live, that makes any institution scared shitless. When they receive a letter from a lawyer they know things have gone serious and they will be forced to act. We live in the 21st century, seriously today there are far worse things to do to a person then to beat him up. Ruin everyone's future because they dared do bad things to you. And DO NOT FIGHT BACK, if needed run like hell. You speak of reputation, but I'll give you a list of people who don't care about it: The school (institution), the police, the legal system in general.
 

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Nova Helix said:
Holy_Handgrenade said:
...me and my friends are fifteen...
...just ignoring it and hoping it dies down is a option it does very bad things to my reputation...
You're 15 "reputation" is a figment of your imagination. What people think of you in High school doesn't matter.
Debatable. How you are treated in High School can affect the rest of your life in huge ways...
 

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Lem0nade Inlay said:
Nova Helix said:
Holy_Handgrenade said:
...me and my friends are fifteen...
...just ignoring it and hoping it dies down is a option it does very bad things to my reputation...
You're 15 "reputation" is a figment of your imagination. What people think of you in High school doesn't matter.
Debatable. How you are treated in High School can affect the rest of your life in huge ways...
How you are treated yes, how many people respect you no. Real friends would be glad he didn't go to jail for assault or get hurt in a fight.

Getting punched in the face will affect him negatively, and punching someone else will effect them negatively. There is nothing to gain by fighting.
 

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bahumat42 said:
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Disclaimer: This is probably not the smartest nor the safest way of handling your problem, this is just what worked for me.

Go up to the kid's brother and tell him politely that if his brother doesn't knock it off, you're going to utterly wreck his shit.

Seriously. This worked for me. His little brother started that up again, I slapped him around a little bit, older brother did nothing, kid knocked it off.
this is the most reasonable route to take. More often than not "older brothers" have no time for their siblings BS. And this is a way to help them avoid the nonsense.
The most reasonable route is to assault a younger child? That makes no sense, and will probably end badly.
 

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Meh, I had a similar problem except I chose an option before I knew about the kid's connections. All the big scary stories you hear about people at highschool, its mostly all piss and wind. Personally, I'd just carry on like you seem to be, snap his stick, shove the kid away and just treat him with the contempt the little shit deserves. Had enough? Grab him, tell him this in the tone of voice that makes small children whimper in fear and cry, and if his big brother comes after you then you haven't even done anything to merit a beating. Which by the sounds of it, you wouldn't be getting one anyway.
Bullies hate people standing up to them, if you cringe away they go for the weakness more, they mostly back down if you dont.
 

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Ask them to back off, real nicely. If they persist and finally start a fight, appear defenseless at first, then
WACHA!
SHORYUKEN their asses!
But in all honesty, just tell them to stop.
 

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bahumat42 said:
Nova Helix said:
bahumat42 said:
SlainPwner666 said:
Disclaimer: This is probably not the smartest nor the safest way of handling your problem, this is just what worked for me.

Go up to the kid's brother and tell him politely that if his brother doesn't knock it off, you're going to utterly wreck his shit.

Seriously. This worked for me. His little brother started that up again, I slapped him around a little bit, older brother did nothing, kid knocked it off.
this is the most reasonable route to take. More often than not "older brothers" have no time for their siblings BS. And this is a way to help them avoid the nonsense.
The most reasonable route is to assault a younger child? That makes no sense, and will probably end badly.
No im suggesting he talk to his brother, and if he's less than reasonable then yes pull out that card, its dirty and you may never do it but its nonetheless a card in your deck.

And yeah some kids need a slap round the head to knock off what is bad behaviour. Otherwise they feel its ok.
Hitting another person is childish and solves nothing, it should never be "a card in your deck".
 

Jammy2003

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Hitting another person is childish and solves nothing, it should never be "a card in your deck".
Actually, rather sadly it does solve a lot problems most of the time. In my experience, teachers refuse to get involved in these situations other than to break up fights when they do happen. Besides, one day the kid will say something to the wrong person and either get his older brother in trouble he cant handle, or just have someone laugh at the idea and not care about hitting him. Will happen sometime.
 

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I know it's very cliched, but outsmarting someone bigger then you is something you get a lot of rep for. The best part about it is that the meathead usually doesn't hold a grudge with this unless it's a constant assult verbally. Now you don't wanna do the whole "STICKS AND STONES MAY BREAK MY PFFT" because that's just a highway to a load of problems. What you want to do is find your moment, which requires getting him to talk. Seriously, act a little smart, but not nerdy smart and when they come bounding down saying stuff like "Now you're in for a world of pain" turn around and say "Better than the world of neanderthols...oh wait, that's your world isn't it, my mistake!". Ok maybe not that exactly, I never was good at doing this but it really does get you rep if you do it right. This one kid on the bus when I was in secondary school (that's what us brits call it), completely not popular or whatever. The hulking bully came by saying "OI if you don't want a castration you better let me sit where I usually sit!" so he says "Why? Did you leave something from your last castration? Honestly, I'm surprised you could even see your own!" (it was funny because he was fat). The kid got a load of rep and the bully left him alone for the rest of his life. Wit is a powerful weapon and if you can score an innuendo so much the better, especially if they're just sitting there going BWUAH?
 

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I would kick that fucking twat in the balls and would stab his brother until his guts were spilled. I hate situations like these. Fuckheads like these only respond to violence and if you can out-violence them they WILL LEARN their FUCKING place, as the stupid useless white trash they are (I am assuming they are something like chavs? Sky high ego and sense of entitlement and the brains of a gorilla, on steroids!)!

Good thing I always carry a switchblade with me, was thinking of buying a gun, it isn't safe on the streets at night anymore... stupid Greeks and their anti-self-defense laws!

Nova Helix said:
You're 15 "reputation" is a figment of your imagination. What people think of you in High school doesn't matter.
THANK YOU!
 

mrF00bar

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I could only read half of the OP because uncontrollable rage overcame me. I love it when people say they will get their brothers on me, because I know that this old 'hard man' brother is a pissy little fuck with attitude. Kick him as hard as you can in his plumbs and then do it again when he is on the floor, always worked for me.
 

Laurie Barnes

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My suggestion. Defend your Honor. If the wee one tries to fight you, let him have a free hit. After that it is legally self defense, then take it up with his brother.

Let him (ie the enabling goon) make the first move, and play accordingly, if you wind up in bad shape, or if the guy cheaps you out, (ie hits you from behind without warning ect), call the goddamn cops and get him sent to prison where scum like him belongs.
 

StormShaun

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Frankly I wouldnt care, I would just beat his ass with a crowbar, im DEAD serious, beat his ass but im a paragon so it was for good intentions...
 

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Lord Legion said:
I had a situation almost exactly like this once...
my advice: Go for the throat. Go f*ck'n psycho, get mean. I guarantee "Mr. Hardass" will be expecting you to be intimidated, and his lil' bro and whatever else company will just stand there stunned. In which case you start on them.

'Course if personal experience serves again, they'll come back for you with alot of guys...so don't expect to get away really in the long run.
This.
Though it might get you kicked out, hell, someone at my old school got expelled just for swinging a punch, but if you have to fight the bigger guy, do not fucking stop punching until you've taken the starch out of him.

It's the last thing he'll expect.