The school bully's little brother problem. I.E The I'm screwed either way problem

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Xyphon

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If I was in your shoes, I wouldn't be afraid to confront the bully. If you face him, the worst you'll have to worry about is a nice little beat down. Have one of your friends record your confrontation with a camera. Calmly talk to him about the situation and if he so much as touches you, you'll have a nice little video to bring him up on assault charges.

If you don't want to take that route, confront him anyway. If he "beats you to a pulp", you'll at least gain more respect for standing up for yourself instead of just letting him and his brother fuck with you.

When you do nothing, you become a carpet for them to wipe their shoes on.

Also going to note that this guy sounds like your generic pussy-bully. Too afraid to take anyone on without his friends there to help him for when he fucks with the wrong person. Even more reason to stand up to him.
 

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mysterioso2006 said:
Then your teachers are just awful. All of my teachers are very involved with the inter-personal problems with students.
I won't argue that. It's been over about a decade since it was ever an issue, but my teachers in elementary school were god-awful in looking after their students.

I can only really speak from my own experience, and it has always been thus.
 

Worgen

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Whatever, just wash your hands.
I was never fucked with in highschool since I had a rep from middle school.... hmm, maybe that is why I kinda liked highschool, or its probably because middle school sucked so much that anything after that would have to be better

short story: people will leave you alone if they think you are capable of murder
 

Chairman Miaow

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People give less of a shit than you think. Rep is bullshit. It will be forgotten. Ignore it. /thread.
 

Squirrelygod

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Nah, take a picture of the little kid. Put it on a bunch of posters with some bullet points labeling how he's a little shit and also put in "Starts shit so he can make his brother do his dirty work" and hang them around school.
 

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I was the big guy throughout high school and college. That view still goes on today amongst my mates. They know I'm peaceful and such but some of the more violent guys I know seem to be itching for a chance to measure up against me. A mate of mine has even tried challenging me to a sparring match in his front room on wednesday...people are placing fucking bets :p
 

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Worgen said:
I was never fucked with in highschool since I had a rep from middle school.... hmm, maybe that is why I kinda liked highschool, or its probably because middle school sucked so much that anything after that would have to be better
I was the big guy throughout high school and college. That view still goes on today amongst my mates. They know I'm peaceful and such but some of the more violent guys I know seem to be itching for a chance to measure up against me. A mate of mine has even tried challenging me to a sparring match in his front room on wednesday...people are placing fucking bets :
 

ctaylor35

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Just wreck the older brother's shit. Worst case scenario? You wreck his shit. everyone knows it. If he jumps you from behind he looks like a massive pussy. and everyone knows that alot quicker. and a black eye for a couple weeks builds character anyway.
 

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Holy_Handgrenade said:
Zakarath said:
What worked for me was sitting around laughing as the school bully got hauled away for selling pot.
So... you think I should frame him for selling pot?
Well, I wouldn't really advise you to do anything illegal ;)
 

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Just_A_Glitch said:
SlainPwner666 said:
Disclaimer: This is probably not the smartest nor the safest way of handling your problem, this is just what worked for me.

Go up to the kid's brother and tell him politely that if his brother doesn't knock it off, you're going to utterly wreck his shit.

Seriously. This worked for me. His little brother started that up again, I slapped him around a little bit, older brother did nothing, kid knocked it off.
First off, I've just got to say, I love what you've done with the Chimaira symbol. I got a great laugh out of that.

Anyway, on topic... I never really dealt with bullies, so I don't know how to really handle it. My advice is talk to the older brother and just see if he can talk to his younger brother. I know "talk it out" seems like teacher advice, but that is my major...
Great band, right? I originally just used the logo but then when christmas rolled around I did a shitty photoshop. Too lazy to change it back, I guess I won't.
 

Lurchibald

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alert your parents and alert the school that you have been threatened and that you don't want anyone to know that you are talking to them in which case if you do get attacked by this kid you will end up being able to sue the school for all their worth.
 

striderdaze

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Dude, hitting a younger kid is never all right. He talked some smack about you, so what?

Take the moral high ground and ignore him. Beating up a smaller kid isn't going to win you any points.
 

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...Don't beat up the little kid? Shrug him off, tell his teacher (Yes, seriously.) that her/his student has been harassing you lately and you're afraid that you might lose your temper unless he can stop.

Secondly, his big brother won't do squat. Take a look at a police interrogation, they can shake you around morally but the moment they touch you, you can apprehend and take it up legally.
 

icame

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Make a replica of the BFG and take it to school. All your problems will disappear

On a slightly more serious note, I've dealt with this stuff before and I know it sounds like a stupid idea, but I'd talk to the older brother.,
 

theloneassassin

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You know honestly, just go straight out apeshit... prove to them you are insane, its what i do and i never have had a problem with anyone :D they think i may eat there eyeballs if the chance arises.
 

Merkavar

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pick up the younger brother and use him like a baseball bat to beat up the older brother.
 

SkullCap

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Holy_Handgrenade said:
Listen, be the smart one and stop this before you make it worse. The kid is 12 years old, he's at the age where in his mind he has to act as manly as he can. Manly in the sense that he won't tolerate any small offense. Listen, be the bigger person and make peace with this.

I never started a fight, but I ended them. I was in three fights in high school and I ended each one regrettably with physical violence. When you come across several comments in this discussion you might see some saying they take some form of Martial Arts and recommend you fighting the 12 year old. I'm telling you right now they are WRONG and it's a failure on behalf of their sensei for not stressing how martial arts is for defense and a last resort. I'm an advanced Black Belt in Muy Thai Kickboxing and Karate, I only used martial arts in my fights because I was attacked first and Lord knows I couldn't reason with someone while they were in mid-swing with a sloppy, uncontrolled right cross. I had to fight to end the conflict. You, however, can end it before the conflict even starts. If your called pussy, says who? The 12 year old?

You wanna be the bigger man? Don't waste high school picking fights over small crap like this. End the conflict and enjoy your High School years.

Think about it.