Hrm, now I'm not exactly sure if I should be flattered, or if I should be locking myself in some small room with a lantern, curled in the fetal position and whimpering quietly to myself. I've never had a stalker of sorts, this could actually be interesting. Although, I think my wife may have something to add to that thought process.P1p3s said:*snip*
I think I'll stick with flattered for now. It mainly comes down to a matter of time as well. Often I get so devoted to a single thread and topic, carefully thinking my replies (or attempting to) and spending so much time writing a multiple paragraph post that it ends up being disheartening when it is all brushed aside with a single line post. Now, I will admit that most are not like that and I've had many an informative and entertaining debate, but that doesn't reduce the jaded ideal that can creep up on you if enough uncaring one liners get tossed your way. I know I'm over reacting and that it's happened far fewer times then I seem to remember in my own little version of reality, but it can be quite draining.
Aye cuddly, we've had our own trying times with text only communication. Heh, now wasn't that a thread?cuddly_tomato said:*snip*
I guess the issue concerning the older/younger members could very easily be attributed to human nature as well.
"I see no hope for the future of our people if they are dependent on
the frivolous youth of today, for certainly all youth are reckless
beyond words.
When I was a boy, we were taught to be discrete and respectful of
elders, but the present youth are exceedingly wise and impatient of
restraint."
--- Hesiod, Eighth Century B.C.
and
"The children now love luxury. They have bad manners, contempt for
authority, they show disrespect to their elders.... They no longer
rise when elders enter the room. They contradict their parents,
chatter before company, gobble up dainties at the table, cross their
legs, and are tyrants over their teachers."
--- generally credited to Socrates
The "older generation" will look down upon the "younger generation" no matter if there is truth in their justifications for doing so or not, as is shown by just those couple examples.
That is also exactly why I included the word "supposedly" and put the "golden age" in quotes. I hear so much about it, yet see so little evidence of it. It seems that as The Escapist grows, so does every aspect of it. Unfortunately, the less desireable aspects tend to be more noticeable then the others, thus focus is drawn to them and detracted from those that deserve it.