I have learned there is an odd mix between elitists, idiots who try to act like aforementioned eltists, people who want to share thier views with one another respectfully, and trolls. The last group to be mentioned is the smallest, but they often get the most attention.
All in all, I'd say that The Escapist is a good place where most of the people will try to help you and often have interesting things to say. A lot of people like to think that this place has gotten gradually worse as time has gone passed, I used to feel like that until I realized that I'd just gotten board. The people on my monitor hadn't gotten worse - weather they are old or new members. It was the face behind it.
To give you an idea of what I mean; my first post here was a fanboy, poorly spelled, and nonsensical post that lacked prooper punctuation and even capital letters - needless to say I've improved a bit. Anyway, these days those posts get on my nerves quite a lot even though I used to do the very same thing, before of course it didn't bother me because I was just like that.
It's really just a case of perspective.