You miss understand (and I probably worded it badly).ReinWeisserRitter said:Offer him your support. Tell him if he needs to talk to someone, he has you, even if nothing else. Make it one hundred percent clear that he isn't alone. That's the most you can do, but it could make all the difference in the world.
As for "no one wants to be homosexual", speak for yourself; it's as natural and unremarkable as breathing to some people.
His familly is okay with it. He lives 500 clicks north and has a boyfriend (last time I checked) and his boyfriend is a nice guy. His sisters also support him although they have both finished school (same with his boyfriend). Whenever I see him he doesn't have any signs of depression. Also he ran away from home because he wanted to see his boyfriend more (this might have reversed since I last saw him as I haven't seen him since about the 2nd of January).
In short as far as I can tell he is happy. And if he is not he doesn't have the personality that would commit suicide. And the most conservative familly member up there (our Grandmother) said that:
"As long as its genuine she would rather see him out of the closet than in. And she would support him" (also she is very Catholic).
I personally think it will be fine. And In Australia there isn't the same anti-gay sentiment here. It's all pointed at "boat-people" at present. And don't get me started on why I hate to see poor helpless refugees as the current political scape-goat.