To: Anybody. I'm looking for honest advice..please.

[Cyberjester]

I think there is already a "Broeken Haert coarner" somewhere.

Or get a blog. What made you think Escapist is seriously the best forum to post this thing?

everybody is entitled to their opinions, but that's not being very helpful, considering i've been everywhere else, and that's all i get. blogs dont do anything, and The Escapist is a good place for advice, if you post in the Off-topic Discussion section. many a people have come through with similar needs of advice, i have helped as i could, so have others. that's all there is to it. again, i fyou read it at all..past experiences got me to post it here.

I skipped through most of it, because I'm not interested in your life story.

You have obviously never tried looking in real world places to deal with things. Internet doesn't have all the answers, seriously.

then fuck off you prick, this guy needs help and you just dont give a shit. i feel like this myself and its dickheads like you that make me lose faith in humanity and contemplate suicide.

You really get mad over what's happening in the Internet? A 20-year old guy crying over his life. I sure hope I won't be like him in the future.

Also, reported for trolling.

how the hell is that trolling? I was just revealing what I felt and scolding you for being such an asshole

Polite people don't swear, you troll.

He did swear, but he didn't come across as insensitive as you and he wasn't trolling. Think I prefer his response tbh.. You really just look like a.. Well, you make a pointless post then report someone when they take you up for it. Have a cookie. Hope it has maggots. =P

 

[Abedeus]

I think there is already a "Broeken Haert coarner" somewhere.

Or get a blog. What made you think Escapist is seriously the best forum to post this thing?

everybody is entitled to their opinions, but that's not being very helpful, considering i've been everywhere else, and that's all i get. blogs dont do anything, and The Escapist is a good place for advice, if you post in the Off-topic Discussion section. many a people have come through with similar needs of advice, i have helped as i could, so have others. that's all there is to it. again, i fyou read it at all..past experiences got me to post it here.

I skipped through most of it, because I'm not interested in your life story.

You have obviously never tried looking in real world places to deal with things. Internet doesn't have all the answers, seriously.

then fuck off you prick, this guy needs help and you just dont give a shit. i feel like this myself and its dickheads like you that make me lose faith in humanity and contemplate suicide.

You really get mad over what's happening in the Internet? A 20-year old guy crying over his life. I sure hope I won't be like him in the future.

Also, reported for trolling.

how the hell is that trolling? I was just revealing what I felt and scolding you for being such an asshole

Polite people don't swear, you troll.

He did swear, but he didn't come across as insensitive as you and he wasn't trolling. Think I prefer his response tbh.. You really just look like a.. Well, you make a pointless post then report someone when they take you up for it. Have a cookie. Hope it has maggots. =P

There is nothing about being sensitive in the rules. However, there is something about being polite and not swearing.

 

[Bagaloo]

join the club. I fell in love once and she Once told me she can't love me then Married a dick that won't let us be friends. To be alone like this and still carry the world on your shoulders is hard but will make you chiseled and strong. So i say stay the course and get a hobby that you love. Mines guitars.

I don't think "Carry the world on your shoulders" is the right expression here. I mean, he's not bearing any of my problems, nor anyone elses, just his own.

Anyway, moving on from that digression.

For the OP: whilst I wont put it quite as badly as others, I do think that you should take this problem to people more qualified to help you. Like a proper relationship or depression forum, or even going out to see a therapist. It couldn't hurt. Alternatively, I find it hard to believe that there is absolutely nobody that you can talk to about this in real life. A parent? A friend? A teacher?

I know that telling you to go somewhere else isn't what you want to hear, but its probably what you need to do. Sorry.

 

[blankedboy]

Obvious spam is obvious.

Here's an email I got:

Dear beloved friend,

I know that this letter may be a very big surprise to you, I am giving you my trust and wish you will give me back the trust i have given you . I believe that you will be honest to fulfill my final wish before I will die.
I am Mr. Gabril Matias James , I am 71 years old, I am suffering from a long time cancer of the brain .From all indication my condition is really deteriorating, and my doctors have courageously advised me that I may not live beyond the next two months, this is because the cancer stage has reached a critical stage. I was brought up in a motherless babys home, and was married to my late wife for twenty years without a child . My wife and I are true Christians, but quite unfortunately, she was killed during the (ABIDJAN- BOUAKE) Crisis some years back.

Since her death I decided not to re-marry, I sold all my belongings and deposited all the sum of $10.2million dollars with a security company In Ivory Coast where i lived with my late wife all our lives, as it was pakaged and registered as a personal Valuable.
Presently, this money is still in their custody, and the management just wrote me as the Legitimate beneficiary to come forward to receive the Deposit after keeping it for so long or rather issue a letter of authorization to somebody to receive it on my behalf since I can not come over as a result of my illness, Presently,I'm with my laptop in a hospital where I have been undergoing treatment. I have since lost my ability to walk about or do anything by myself and my doctors have told me that I have only a few months to live.
It is my last wish to see that this money is invested in any business of your choice and the gain made every year or 6 months as the case may be, distributed each year among the charity organization, the poor and the motherless babys home where I come from. I want your good humanitarian, to also use this money to fund churches, orphanages and widows around, 20% for you , I must let you know that this was a very hard decision, but I had to take a bold step towards this issue because I have no further option. I hope you will help see my last wishes come true.


See the resemblance? The Escapist doesn't welcome trolls, NoriYuki Sato.

 

[Darth Pope]

Already barked up that tree OP. I really sympathize with that man, but The Escapist is not the place to ask for advice.

 

[nono195]

It will end. Life will stop hurting and you will care there are ups and there are downs and those the hard ones are the times when we find out if we are made of harder stuff. Your fortune will swing back around if you want it to.

 

[Cyberjester]

I think there is already a "Broeken Haert coarner" somewhere.

Or get a blog. What made you think Escapist is seriously the best forum to post this thing?

everybody is entitled to their opinions, but that's not being very helpful, considering i've been everywhere else, and that's all i get. blogs dont do anything, and The Escapist is a good place for advice, if you post in the Off-topic Discussion section. many a people have come through with similar needs of advice, i have helped as i could, so have others. that's all there is to it. again, i fyou read it at all..past experiences got me to post it here.

I skipped through most of it, because I'm not interested in your life story.

You have obviously never tried looking in real world places to deal with things. Internet doesn't have all the answers, seriously.

then fuck off you prick, this guy needs help and you just dont give a shit. i feel like this myself and its dickheads like you that make me lose faith in humanity and contemplate suicide.

You really get mad over what's happening in the Internet? A 20-year old guy crying over his life. I sure hope I won't be like him in the future.

Also, reported for trolling.

how the hell is that trolling? I was just revealing what I felt and scolding you for being such an asshole

Polite people don't swear, you troll.

He did swear, but he didn't come across as insensitive as you and he wasn't trolling. Think I prefer his response tbh.. You really just look like a.. Well, you make a pointless post then report someone when they take you up for it. Have a cookie. Hope it has maggots. =P

There is nothing about being sensitive in the rules. However, there is something about being polite and not swearing.

Ah, so you're one of _those_ people. I was wondering how you managed to end up on this forum. You follow the rules to the letter whilst being a complete jerk and alert the mods to the smallest infraction to prove your point by getting your opponent banned. Great if you're a politician, just makes you look bad otherwise.

You were trolling more than he was btw, you made a pointless and aggressive post having a go at the poster. Then when someone called you up on it, you make more pointless posts and start having a go at them. Fits all definitions of troll I've come across so far. Question, are you friends with some of the mods? Or are you one yourself? You have that self righteous feel to you.

I'll sound like a real asshole here, but your solution is to follow RAK's Rules of Romantic Interaction, thus ensuring that you will never get into relationship troubles ever again:

Rule 1: Unless explicitly stated otherwise, she/he has a romantic partner.
Rule 1(a): On the internet, unless explicitly proven otherwise, she's a man.

Rule 2: Mixed messages aren't worth chasing. The likelihood is that she/he isn't interested.

Rule 3: Accentuate the negatives. Consider every single negative characteristic that you can, and give it a good think about whether it's a relationship-breaker. Chances are that you'll find something detestable about the person.

Rule 4: If she/he's explicitly interested, she/he is a stalker. Ensure that they recognise any (tasteful) detestable characteristics of your own. They'll soon stop with the stalking once they realise that you stink like a sewer and swear like a sailor on shore leave.

Rule 5: If she/he is not explicitly interested, she/he will end up accentuating the natural negatives and realise that you're not worth the effort. Crisis averted.

Rofl. I love it.

 

[Abedeus]

I think there is already a "Broeken Haert coarner" somewhere.

Or get a blog. What made you think Escapist is seriously the best forum to post this thing?

everybody is entitled to their opinions, but that's not being very helpful, considering i've been everywhere else, and that's all i get. blogs dont do anything, and The Escapist is a good place for advice, if you post in the Off-topic Discussion section. many a people have come through with similar needs of advice, i have helped as i could, so have others. that's all there is to it. again, i fyou read it at all..past experiences got me to post it here.

I skipped through most of it, because I'm not interested in your life story.

You have obviously never tried looking in real world places to deal with things. Internet doesn't have all the answers, seriously.

then fuck off you prick, this guy needs help and you just dont give a shit. i feel like this myself and its dickheads like you that make me lose faith in humanity and contemplate suicide.

You really get mad over what's happening in the Internet? A 20-year old guy crying over his life. I sure hope I won't be like him in the future.

Also, reported for trolling.

how the hell is that trolling? I was just revealing what I felt and scolding you for being such an asshole

Polite people don't swear, you troll.

He did swear, but he didn't come across as insensitive as you and he wasn't trolling. Think I prefer his response tbh.. You really just look like a.. Well, you make a pointless post then report someone when they take you up for it. Have a cookie. Hope it has maggots. =P

There is nothing about being sensitive in the rules. However, there is something about being polite and not swearing.

Ah, so you're one of _those_ people. I was wondering how you managed to end up on this forum. You follow the rules to the letter whilst being a complete jerk and alert the mods to the smallest infraction to prove your point by getting your opponent banned. Great if you're a politician, just makes you look bad otherwise.

You were trolling more than he was btw, you made a pointless and aggressive post having a go at the poster. Then when someone called you up on it, you make more pointless posts and start having a go at them. Fits all definitions of troll I've come across so far. Question, are you friends with some of the mods? Or are you one yourself? You have that self righteous feel to you.

Why are you still talking to me? I stopped caring like, what, a week ago? If I had cared at all...