GeneralFungi said:
I say old chap said:
I would actually like characters, male and female to stop being so damn sexualised with their wants pushed out there and on to us.
The angry homosexual spectre of Dragon age is hovering about, but what I am getting at is as nice as it is to push boundaries and make a character gay or what not, wait, no it isn't nice, it is just getting old. This pandering, this desperation to appeal to a certain demographic (we can get gays and women in with Raiden) is tiresome.
Make the damn games, stop pushing gaming characters as the reps of the sub-cultures upon us. Trying to make a lesbian gaming messiah is caring too much about politics and ticking p.c boxes, and not enough focus on the game and what the character is doing (it is focusing on who they are doing or want to be doing).
End rant.
Normally I'm not bothered by people's comments. But this post reeeeeaaaaally scraped by me the wrong way. You are a demographic yourself, presumably a straight male (I apologize if I'm incorrect in that assumption).
When designers are creating characters for their games, you are the very first demographic they try to appeal to. Whether or not you are receptive of it or even care about their attempts is irrelevant; they are going out of their way to create a game that appeals to your interests whether or not it is successful. They are pandering to YOU. You are the person they are going out of their way to appeal to, a single demographic who plays games out of many different demographics of people who also play games.
You comment that all of this pandering developers are doing is tiring when they're trying to appeal to other groups, but well... how are Women, LGTB among other groups supposed to feel about that? Wouldn't they find it tiring that they aren't getting as much representation? You've explicitly said yourself that it bothers you when a character that appeals to women / gay men is in the games you play. Does it bother you when a character meant to appeal to you is in the game?
You've said that who they fuck is irrelevant, but how many protagonists have a love interest that are involved in the plot in some way? Would you say that is sexualized? Because remember, there were never plans for Lara to bang anyone. If she did have a love interest involved in the plot she wasn't going to tear her clothes off and have a 20 minute sex scene with them.
It isn't called over-sexualized until people start what gender the character in question wants to be with. That somehow homosexual relations are inherently more sexual then hetrosexual ones. That is the vibe I always get when these sorts of topics arrive and... it bothers me. It bothers me a lot. Is there some sort of difference I don't understand? When discussing a character it is assumed they are hetrosexual and if anyone suggests that they might not be, people start going on about how their video games are being oversexualized and that all of these other demographics are invading and ruining the video games.
I'm sorry if homosexual men/women in your videogames somehow make you feel more exposed and vulnerable to the ugly world of sex and humping.
God... I apologize if I offended you. It wasn't aimed at your specifically, just the general attitude I'm feeling in this thread. I need a glass of water or something..
It is all good, no offence taken!
What I am arguing against is a trend, the trend of pushing the sexuality of characters on to the audience. Arguing against a current trend will always find opposition, it will scrape people the wrong way. That is all good, no one dies from being offended and we get to talk to eachother about this.
Now some will say that making characters gay, lesbian, bi or whatever adds depth to a character and a game. I don?t think it does at all; but this is arguing against a new goalpost as to what depth is and involves. I say It is about trying to appeal to another segment market (gay shep! Raiden, gay hawke), and the realisation of this is so often cheap, poorly done, out of place (my character is gay now because I jokingly took the flirt option, my female character is a lesbian now because she comforted a female colleague and now we have unlocked the gay side-story?) This whole thing is not depth, tell a story, push characters through an ac, pursuing sexual dialogue options and banging aliens is not depth.
So that is what I wanted to say, I?m reading over what you have said now...
On demographics and boxes, I will say people rarely fit neatly inside them. It can be a branch to boost your argument up on, but they are very crude.
Pandering. Okay the problem here is that it is a trick. The pandering is just trying to sell them something, by giving them a shout out or a bit of dlc/side content to get them on board. The identity politics cards are played thick and fast, and what most gets my goat (baaa!) is that we are supposedly meant to jump for joy at this shallow new content, a same-sex sex scene, a gay planet to explore with our rocket, because it supports PC attitudes, it is all inclusive (well as much as they bothered to include, someone always gets left out, oh no!) and that is meant to be a good thing we don?t question.
No, focus on the damn game developers, and stop trying to bribe us with this trash. That is at least what I would say to such developers that push this upon and want to keep doing it in the future.
The gay Lara rumour. What if I don?t want a gay Lara? She has never been gay before (although she may have a fetish for torturing her butler), I don?t want her to suddenly latch on to another woman like a facehugger of the groin and raid those sort of tunnels and tombs. Stick to the adventure game, give us an adventure. Stop altering established characters with new gay/lesbian options, this is not depth.
Now, if they got to the lesbian sex scene after a lot of character development, or to close the game with it, I?d have less of a problem with it, but, to do this means they have spent a lot of time on this, and a lot of the game?s focus. I don?t want a friendship simulator in my action/adventure game, I?ve got friendships, I?m playing the game for a fun time, not a slow romance or same-sex scenes paraded about.
?If she did have a love interest involved in the plot she wasn't going to tear her clothes off and have a 20 minute sex scene with them.?
Speculation about something that hasn?t happened, it never went down this course, so we don?t know yet.
?That somehow homosexual relations are inherently more sexual then hetrosexual ones. That is the vibe I always get when these sorts of topics arrive and... it bothers me.?
I am against both being pushed too hard, forced into games where they stand out as glaring sign-posts of we put it in, aren?t we great! No, no you are not. Especially if the sex scene ends up being crap, lol.
I think I want my porn, and the identity politics baloney ?look we have a token black/lesbian/gay person? strongly kept out of games. You want to represent certain people? Throw lots of them and not make it a big deal.
A friend said he hates it when a black character has a gangster past. Well, I agree, and I hate it when the token gay/lesbian character just has to be banged, and hype has built up around this. It is especially annoying if they go crazy or betray you if you don?t bang them (dragon age 1 & 2). The sexualisation of the minorities here is too damn high.