Turning down sex

[TopHatTim]

I just turned down sex.
is that wierd.
the girl is smoking hot and what not great personality.
but theres someone else im aiming for.
and i believe turning down sex is a hard thing to do when the mans in a dry season...
anyone else have problems doing this?


EDIT: This is aimed toward both the female and male community of the escapist, and im hoping everyone can be mature about this

 

[BlackJack47]

It happens man, just think though, the next time will be all the sweeter...God I'm lonely.

 

[Sejs Cube]

Hold on, let me get my crystal ball.

Ah yes. Your future. I can see it now. You're going to end up not getting the person you're aiming for, and you'll wonder why you turned down the loving when it was flinged your way. That's how these things work, Tim.

 

[Biek]

Did you forget to put on clean underwear?

 

[Nargleblarg]

Just go with your instincts if they tell you not to then don't.

 

[BubbleGumSnareDrum]

Turning down sex isn't weird at all. It's called having self-respect and standards. Even if the girl is pretty and nice, it sounds like she doesn't really fit what you want and that makes it okay to turn her down.

Women need to be reminded that they aren't as great as they think they are, anyway.

 

[GodsOneMistake]

Hold on, let me get my crystal ball.

Ah yes. Your future. I can see it now. You're going to end up not getting the person you're aiming for, and you'll wonder why you turned down the loving when it was flinged your way. That's how these things work, Tim.

Sad but true... Sorry bud

 

[tehweave]

It's tough to say... All the times in which I've actually had sex, I wanted it, as did she... I could probably see myself turning it down in a given situation, but right now I can't see myself doing that.

Bravo, to you my man. It takes a big guy to do that. You've got better self-control than most males.

 

[Clemenstation]

I just turned down sex.
is that wierd.
the girl is smoking hot and what not great personality.
but theres someone else im aiming for.

Such as? Goat-love? A fine Chardonnay? You can't ask if something's weird without explaining motivation, otherwise people may jump to unsavory conclusions.

Edit: whoops, 'someone' is a lot more descriptive than 'something'. Still, some folk consider goats to be people... I guess... why I am I even posting in this thread.

 

[Baby Tea]

I don't see this as a big deal. There are times I'm not 'in the mood', so I don't want it then. Sex isn't the end-all be-all of awesome. Sometimes, there are other things I'd rather be doing.
It happens.

 

[chronobreak]

Sorry, dude, but I can't condone turning down sex. At least have a better reason, like being too drunk to "get it up", or somebody just died or something. Other than that, there should be no excuse.

I will say this though: you have the self control of a washing machine. Or dishwasher. Anything that controls itself, really.

 

[IxionIndustries]

I'd be careful. Don't want to catch the dreaded Gonorrhea.

 

[DrunkenKitty]

You should banged her and taken pictures and sent them to me.

Seriously, taking up the offer on that chick probably would have hurt your chances with the girl you like. In fact, they probably would have helped you.

 

[TopHatTim]

Hold on, let me get my crystal ball.

Ah yes. Your future. I can see it now. You're going to end up not getting the person you're aiming for, and you'll wonder why you turned down the loving when it was flinged your way. That's how these things work, Tim.

oddly my names actually mike. lol.
but seriously in the long run im just turning down sex for more sex if you think about it...
but like this girl that i turned down is just a girl i could bang.
but the other girl actually like needs me and shes really trying, shes pretty and smart and everything too but like she been through the same shit as me something that i can bond with...
bonding with the vagina that is....just kidding
but yeah it just didnt sit in my stomach to please one person and let another down.

you know what i mean?

 

[Kayevcee]

I turned down sex once. The one and only time in my life that it has been offered, but there ya go. I laid it out straight- I said that I was very flattered, and that my decision certainly wasn't based on not thinking that they were attractive. I'm just not into dudes.

-Nick

 

[Trivun]

I don't see what the problem is. If you weren't interested then you weren't interested. I have plenty of hot female friends who I don't fancy, and even though I say to myself I'd definitely do them if they were offering it on a plate, in reality I probably wouldn't. Except for the one who I do actually fancy. Turning down sex is perfectly fine and there's no problem with it. Simple, really.

 

[ender003]

Sometimes, there are other things I'd rather be doing.
It happens.

Yeah, like posting in Internet forums! Woman-holes ain't got nothin' on this shit.

 

[Ben Legend]

if this had been me 3 years ago, i would have slapped myself...
but you're going for someone else, so, you did do the right thing.
good to know there are people who can control their cocks.. haha

 

[Tmurda5632]

go with what u feel, but just to clarify......How hot are we talking?