Turning down sex

[Snugglebunny]

BREAKING OUT THE FINGER PUPPETS, so here we go with demonstration number one:

IDEAL SETUP:
Jack: oh, how I love you Jenny
Jenny: I love you too Jack!
Jack: Lets get married!
Jenny: Okay!
*gets married*
Jack: now lets sleep together, as I have not slept with anyone in the past
Jenny: good idea, as I have also not slept with anyone in the past!
*mashes puppets together*
Jack: Good news, since I have not been exposed to any prior pathogens carried by previous partners and neither have you, we have no STDs
TA DUR.

OTHER SETUP:
Jack: How I love you Jenny!
Jenny: I love you too Jack!
Jack: Lets get married!
Jenny: Okay!
Jack: By the way I may have slept around a bit, so I might have a couple transmittable diseases...
Jenny: ...
Jack: Don't worry, it could only cause you infertility, scarring, painful lesions and/or open wounds, and a slight risk of death. How I love you!
TA DUR.

 

[ThrobbingEgo]

What about other setup part deux:

"Jenny, I was born with a horrible, life threatening STI."
"Jack, go fuck yourself."

What's your point? You hate people with diseases?

 

[ThrobbingEgo]

I have no friggin' clue how this post has so many replies. I.. well I don't know what to do.

Join a monastery?

 

[incubus42]

BREAKING OUT THE FINGER PUPPETS, so here we go with demonstration number one:

IDEAL SETUP:
Jack: oh, how I love you Jenny
Jenny: I love you too Jack!
Jack: Lets get married!
Jenny: Okay!
*gets married*
Jack: now lets sleep together, as I have not slept with anyone in the past
Jenny: good idea, as I have also not slept with anyone in the past!
*mashes puppets together*
Jack: Good news, since I have not been exposed to any prior pathogens carried by previous partners and neither have you, we have no STDs
TA DUR.

OTHER SETUP:
Jack: How I love you Jenny!
Jenny: I love you too Jack!
Jack: Lets get married!
Jenny: Okay!
Jack: By the way I may have slept around a bit, so I might have a couple transmittable diseases...
Jenny: ...
Jack: Don't worry, it could only cause you infertility, scarring, painful lesions and/or open wounds, and a slight risk of death. How I love you!
TA DUR.

I don't know, but many people here think that you are automatically are going to carry around STDs after you had sex with several women.
There exists something called A CONDOM, that makes the transfer of these diseases pretty much impossible. And yes, you should use one if you are not absolutely sure that the woman is clean (even though it doesn't feel as good as without)

The only time when I don't use a condom is when I am in a long term relationship and trust the woman that she is clean and taking the pill.

 

[Snugglebunny]

BREAKING OUT THE FINGER PUPPETS, so here we go with demonstration number one:

IDEAL SETUP:
Jack: oh, how I love you Jenny
Jenny: I love you too Jack!
Jack: Lets get married!
Jenny: Okay!
*gets married*
Jack: now lets sleep together, as I have not slept with anyone in the past
Jenny: good idea, as I have also not slept with anyone in the past!
*mashes puppets together*
Jack: Good news, since I have not been exposed to any prior pathogens carried by previous partners and neither have you, we have no STDs
TA DUR.

OTHER SETUP:
Jack: How I love you Jenny!
Jenny: I love you too Jack!
Jack: Lets get married!
Jenny: Okay!
Jack: By the way I may have slept around a bit, so I might have a couple transmittable diseases...
Jenny: ...
Jack: Don't worry, it could only cause you infertility, scarring, painful lesions and/or open wounds, and a slight risk of death. How I love you!
TA DUR.

I don't know, but many people here think that you are automatically are going to carry around STDs after you had sex with several women.
There exists something called A CONDOM, that makes the transfer of these diseases pretty much impossible. And yes, you should use one if you are not absolutely sure that the woman is clean (even though it doesn't feel as good as without)

The only time when I don't use a condom is when I am in a long term relationship and trust the woman that she is clean and taking the pill.

1. I don't hate people with diseases, I hate what diseases do to people, in other words, pain and death, bluntly put. Its not to say any of these diseases are a death sentance, but they aren't exactly a walk in the roses
2. Condoms are not an absolute, 100% protection. Anything from a tear to an improper placement time could lead to the spread of STDs, and even if a woman is on a pill, that only protects against pregnancy, which compared to some of the stuff out there pales in comparision.

 

[incubus42]

@Snugglebunny:

2. Condoms are not an absolute, 100% protection. Anything from a tear to an improper placement time could lead to the spread of STDs, and even if a woman is on a pill, that only protects against pregnancy, which compared to some of the stuff out there pales in comparision.

I know that the pill only works against pregnancy. That's why I wrote that I only have sex without a condom WHEN I trust her that she is clean.

 

[Snugglebunny]

1. I don't hate people with diseases, I hate what diseases do to people, in other words, pain and death, bluntly put. Its not to say any of these diseases are a death sentance, but they aren't exactly a walk in the roses
2. Condoms are not an absolute, 100% protection. Anything from a tear to an improper placement time could lead to the spread of STDs, and even if a woman is on a pill, that only protects against pregnancy, which compared to some of the stuff out there pales in comparision.

You DO realize that even if you ARE married, there are these things called AFFAIRS that women and men have that can still bring an STD into an otherwise clean relationship.

Yes but the point of marriage is to stay with one person sexually for the rest of your life. Thats the idea with the whole loyalty and d love and trust and blah blah blah. Its not like people say 'until death do us part, unless that blonde girl with the incredible ass comes around' its commitment to one person.

 

[dietpeachsnapple]

*tries to remember if this ever happened to him.*

Yeah, I turned down sex once... no, wait... three times.

Some people I simply feel nothing for. It doesn't matter how desperate I am, if the only reason I am in bed with someone is so I can get my rock off, I can do that at home by myself with a million times less drama.

I don't differentiate on the "waiting for the right person," thing. I differentiate on the "Who am I doing this for and why?" The best test of this, for me, is if I am not willing to kiss the person, or the person is not willing to kiss me... then someone is whoring themselves out.