Turning down sex
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My advice to all ya'll out there: do or do not have sex. Whatever you want to do, think about it deeply, then make a decision and then abide by it. I rarely hear people say "you know, I sat down and thought about it for a long time, considered my options, made a decision, and now I totally regret it."
No, the regrets usually seem to be a result of hasty or ill-informed decisions-- maybe not always, but almost always.
As to the OP: you made a decision and it sounds like you gave it some thought. Good for you: you probably did the right thing.
Plus, you gotta figure that if something should happen to change your circumstances, the opportunity may still be around. (After all, it's not like she is going to stop being attracted to you because you turned her down once, particularly if you gave her the old 'I find you super attractive, but right now the timing sucks...' routine. And if she does stop finding you attractive, odds are, her reasons for wanting to get into your pants weren't really about you in the first place.)
No, the regrets usually seem to be a result of hasty or ill-informed decisions-- maybe not always, but almost always.
As to the OP: you made a decision and it sounds like you gave it some thought. Good for you: you probably did the right thing.
Plus, you gotta figure that if something should happen to change your circumstances, the opportunity may still be around. (After all, it's not like she is going to stop being attracted to you because you turned her down once, particularly if you gave her the old 'I find you super attractive, but right now the timing sucks...' routine. And if she does stop finding you attractive, odds are, her reasons for wanting to get into your pants weren't really about you in the first place.)
I just read the first few replies and I have to say, You must be an idiot if you turn down sex. I NEVER turn down sex. Sex is sex. If it is offered to you, you take it with a smile on your face. Now, don't get me wrong here if you have a specific reason like "She's fuckin me raw and I need some down time" or "Maybe I/she might have an STD." then, yeah, that's alright. But if you are turning down sex just "because", then you're an idiot.
Do I need to care about what the hell you do? Because I don't.
Personally, unless I was with a different partner I would have said yes, but that's me.
Personally, unless I was with a different partner I would have said yes, but that's me.
You dont deserve a penis lolTopHatTim said:
Just joking good self control man, stronger man then me!
You know how they say cowards die a thousands times before their deaths? Same thing happens with paranoia and betrayal.gof22 said:
Ladies and gentlemen, I present to you: a man with very low standards.Curbsidewhiskey said:
So what, dude do what you will with your life, you don't need to reafirmations or second opinions from no one. Specially from strangers.
But if you insist: One time i turned down my ex. Cold medicine had me all drowsy and tired. You see my point ;D
But if you insist: One time i turned down my ex. Cold medicine had me all drowsy and tired. You see my point ;D
It's called willpower. Not all men are hormone-fueled sex machines who've got obsessive compulsive disorder when it comes to penetrating women. I wouldn't say you're weird, but just disciplined.
I was in Time Square in NYC yesterday, and a prostitute came up to me and my friends and asked, "Do you want this?"(No kidding), I told her to fuck off. Man, I love this city so much.
