Turning down sex

[TheMatt]

This person is entirely incorrect. Unless you got whisky dick there is no sane reason to turn down sex. Even then you're not turning it down you are just unable to perform. Who cares if she is not the one you want (barf btw, at your age). You'll have time to do that whole thing love thing when you're older, for now, just get some pussy, dumbass.

I wish I didn't have to share a gender with you.
It's goddamn embarrassing.

Woe to me... Some 17yr old child is embarrassed by my outlook. How ever will I survive?

Tell you what, call me in 5 yrs and tell me how you feel then (after actually LIVING a little). If it is still the same, I'll consider caring.

 

[TheMatt]

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I'll admit, I don't care that you don't care.
You're perfectly welcome to be a slut.
And I am perfectly welcome to be digusted by you, as I will continue to do.

I am getting sick of the "You'll change your mind" bit, though.
Pretty sure I'll strangle the next person who suggests such if they are within strangling distance.

Haha, yah I know that feeling. It seemed like a lot of bullshit to me when I was your age too. I'd even go so far as to say it bothers the hell out of all teenagers. You know what the really shitty part about the whole thing is?

It's true.

 

[TheMatt]

Haha, yah I know that feeling. It seemed like a lot of bullshit to me when I was your age too. I'd even go so far as to say it bothers the hell out of all teenagers. You know what the really shitty part about the whole thing is?

It's true.

Oh, but it isn't, Matty. Unlike you and every other high school jock in the entire world, I don't actually pride myself on how many drunken whores I can sleep with.
And even if you're right and I do change my mind, I'll refrain from doing so purely out of spite.

Listen Maxxy (are we really doing this?) don;t be silly. Refusing to change your life based on your current feelings due to the actions of some guy you don;t know from years ago is just retarded.

Me a jock? rofl... dude, I know more about Star Wars then Timothy Zahn.

p.s. pussy is important for nerds too, believe you me.

 

[FleaJr]

Haha, yah I know that feeling. It seemed like a lot of bullshit to me when I was your age too. I'd even go so far as to say it bothers the hell out of all teenagers. You know what the really shitty part about the whole thing is?

It's true.

Oh, but it isn't, Matty. Unlike you and every other high school jock in the entire world, I don't actually pride myself on how many drunken whores I can sleep with.
And even if you're right and I do change my mind, I'll refrain from doing so purely out of spite.

Wow, way to make unsupported sweeping statements there buddy. Don't be afraid to let all your insecurities and trauma induced biases shine out, whatever you do.

 

[Bigsmith]

This has probably been said already but WTH.

Not every man is a sex driven loonitic. Although you may think its weird to turn down sex when for example, you friends are boasting that they screwed 5 women during the week and 8 over the weekend. The truth is they are probably lying and infact probably haven't had any and are lonley and want attention from everyone. In my eyes having self control and respect for your self is what makes you a man, not screwing every girl you meet like some animal in mating season.

 

[The Infamous Scamola]

Haha, yah I know that feeling. It seemed like a lot of bullshit to me when I was your age too. I'd even go so far as to say it bothers the hell out of all teenagers. You know what the really shitty part about the whole thing is?

It's true.

Oh, but it isn't, Matty. Unlike you and every other high school jock in the entire world, I don't actually pride myself on how many drunken whores I can sleep with.
And even if you're right and I do change my mind, I'll refrain from doing so purely out of spite.

Woa, this is getting heated up! *takes out binoculars, popcorn and waves "I love Max" sign*

 

[Scarecrow38]

I don't think it's wierd at all. If anything it's kinda respectable that you don't just throw down anyone who comes your way without thinking. It isn't a light decision.

 

[ChaoticLegion]

I don't think you're weird for turning down sex, I think you're weird for talking about it on a message board for video game enthusiasts who are complete strangers.

Originaly i was gonna make a post about how it's not realy a bad thing..... but i think this guy has summed it up perfectly.

 

[The Infamous Scamola]

Woa, this is getting heated up! *takes out binoculars, popcorn and waves "I love Max" sign*

I thought you were on the other side of the fence?

Yeah, but come on, it's you! I can't stay mad at you!
I'm getting pretty bored with the whole sexual debate anyway so I ain't gonna take a side, too many copycats stealing my thunder, trying to get badges by jumping on the hot topic bandwagon.

 

[Kinguendo]

Dude you should totally edit out that last sentence, it makes you seem like a sexist because well you know... its a sexist remark to make.

No, it's really not. Women make equally sexist remarks about men in every Lifetime movie, every women's talk show, and every formulaic sitcom where the man says something stupid and the woman says something predictably witty. Women make sexist remarks about men in daily conversation.

In fact, it is my opinion that women are generally more disrespectful and immature towards men today than the opposite. I treat everyone I meet exactly the same way and give the exact same reactions to other people's actions regardless of which type of genitalia they possess. That is true equality. Feminists want women to be "more equal," if you catch my drift, and that's a steaming load of horseshit that easily matches any injustice brought about by chauvinism.

I agree that there are some extreme views made by women out thre but sexism shouldnt beget more sexism, that just fuels the fire. Just take a neutral stance, its easy. =D

Oh and whats Lifetime?

 

[The Infamous Scamola]

Yeah, but come on, it's you! I can't stay mad at you!
I'm getting pretty bored with the whole sexual debate anyway so I ain't gonna take a side, too many copycats stealing my thunder, trying to get badges by jumping on the hot topic bandwagon.

This is the climactic episode where I reveal my disgust at sex is due to being raped as a child, causing you to commit suicide out of guilt.

Then we find out that I am actually Labby's child and SecretTacoNinja is my distaff twin.

Then we're cancelled by FOX before the plot threads are all wrapped up.

*cocks gun, puts barrel in mouth, sprays walls with new colour called "hint of brain"*

 

[FleaJr]

Wow, way to make unsupported sweeping statements there buddy. Don't be afraid to let all your insecurities and trauma induced biases shine out, whatever you do.

Thanks, random dude who has no place in this conversation.
Without your sarcastic comments I may have never been comfortable enough to do so!

Last time I checked, friend, you were posting in a public forum, can't stand the heat, get out of the flame

 

[PedroSteckecilo]

Personally I don't think there's anything wrong with "just sleeping with her" or something like that, I'm in favor of all forms of consensual sex.

But if you don't want to, you don't want to, that's your call.

Personally I think sex should be something people in a meaningful relationship should engage in, so if that weren't the case I probably would have turned her down as well. Though this is only something I hold myself to, and I wouldn't hold it against anyone if they did just "sleep around"... so long as they weren't cheating on anyone or using anybody, that just ain't right.

 

[Archindar]

Well in the long run you probably made the right call.

I just hope it works out for you.

 

[Fox1789]

i think its sweet that you respect someone enough to not sleep with them.. sex isnt the only way to show someone you really care for them.. i say kudos for you!