Turning down sex

[The Infamous Scamola]

I just turned down sex.
is that wierd.
the girl is smoking hot and what not great personality.
but theres someone else im aiming for.
and i believe turning down sex is a hard thing to do when the mans in a dry season...
anyone else have problems doing this?

Are you crazy? You could be having sex right now but guess what, you're posting on an internet forum.

Congratulations you loose.

 

[DYin01]

Makes you feel mature when you turn it down, doesn't it? It's especially fun for males, to break the stereotype of 'men always want sex'.

 

[incubus42]

Yes, I do have a chip on my shoulder about this, for good reason.
I'm in the minority in this - it's only natural I get sick of it.

Wich reason would that be? What have they done to you? It's not like people are humping your legs....right....right?

Stereotyping, mostly.
"Oh, all men love sex."
"No man would willingly remain a virgin!"

It just frays my only remaining nerve.

I am sure even you have a libido. Are you trying to prove to yourself that you are above your instincts by denying sex as a part of every human beings desire?

 

[Ghostkai]

I did that once.... Never again!

 

[Cowabungaa]

Yes, I do have a chip on my shoulder about this, for good reason.
I'm in the minority in this - it's only natural I get sick of it.

Wich reason would that be? What have they done to you? It's not like people are humping your legs....right....right?

Stereotyping, mostly.
"Oh, all men love sex."
"No man would willingly remain a virgin!"

It just frays my only remaining nerve.

Fair enough. Isn't it lovely being branded by people who don't even know you. That girl I talked about in that other thread said the same thing, when I said that sex is a very intimate and personal thing for he, she said that that's nonsense and that that only counts for girls, and that all men just want to have sex. I've proven her otherwise already. Breaking that stereotyping is pretty rewarding.

 

[megalomania]

I am sure even you have a libido. Are you trying to prove to yourself that you are above your instincts by denying sex as a part of every human beings desire?

I'm glad you know me so well!
It's always heartwarming when a complete stranger knows you better than you do.

I am above my baser instincts, when I have them. That is why I haven't strangled anyone to death recently.

Fair enough. Isn't it lovely being branded by people who don't even know you. That girl I talked about in that other thread said the same thing, when I said that sex is a very intimate and personal thing for he, she said that that's nonsense and that that only counts for girls, and that all men just want to have sex. I've proven her otherwise already. Breaking that stereotyping is pretty rewarding.

See, I'd have just smacked her one.

How are you still a virgin? You must be such a hit with the ladies with talk like that

I heard its mentally healthy to want to smack a girl who has just offered you sex, not like those low lifers who would sleep with her instead. Just wrong

 

[Xpwn3ntial]

That isn't weird. I've turned down sex, too.

 

[Flushfacker]

Hang on, hold up. This is weird. Turning down sex with a hot girl is weird if no-one can get hurt by it. (I have made assumptions that no-one can get hurt by it and that you enjoy sex) On this basis it would be like me turning down flying in a Harrier Jet because 'someone might get hurt and I'm totally above my instincts to want to fly.' I know wanting to fly isn't in my base instincts, shut-up.

 

[TheMatt]

No youre not weird, its called self control. So good for not whoring yourself. I once dated a future pornstar and all my friends still get on me for not sleeping with her, just because you can have sex with someone doesnt mean you should.

This person is entirely incorrect. Unless you got whisky dick there is no sane reason to turn down sex. Even then you're not turning it down you are just unable to perform. Who cares if she is not the one you want (barf btw, at your age). You'll have time to do that whole thing love thing when you're older, for now, just get some pussy, dumbass.

 

[ExaltedK9]

So you're saying I think like a gay dude, because apparently every heterosexual person ever thinks sex is the most awesome thing ever.
Clearly, I need more gay friends.

No, you just think like a straight dude with an iota of self-control, like I do.

More gay friends wouldn't hurt, though, depending on what kind they are.

Again, agreed, seconded, and what not.

Not every straight guy needs to be sex crazed...like so many others. You don't need to surround yourself with gay people just to get some intellegent conversation though.

Just level-headed people in general.

 

[TehJammers]

Depends how sure you can be that you can get teh secks next time.

 

[sms_117b]

No youre not weird, its called self control. So good for not whoring yourself. I once dated a future pornstar and all my friends still get on me for not sleeping with her, just because you can have sex with someone doesnt mean you should.

self what now?

If you're not seeing someone a fling never hurts

 

[ExaltedK9]

This person is entirely incorrect. Unless you got whisky dick there is no sane reason to turn down sex. Even then you're not turning it down you are just unable to perform. Who cares if she is not the one you want (barf btw, at your age). You'll have time to do that whole thing love thing when you're older, for now, just get some pussy, dumbass.

I wish I didn't have to share a gender with you.
It's goddamn embarrassing.

Yep, Yep...

You sir are a statistic!

 

[Vrex360]

Dude trust me, not a big deal. Believe it or not just because they happen to be attractive does not mean you have to sleep with them. There's a lot of pressure and if you just weren't up to it that's fine. It's better than sleeping with a beautiful woman in a hotel room, then waking up the next morning to find your wallet is gone. Your car has been stolen, your phone has been smashed and you have a somewhat nasty rash.
That was my worst holiday ever.

 

[Hamster at Dawn]

Wait she was hot and had a great personality and you turned her down? Surely you jest?
I should really congratulate you, I could never turn an opportunity like that down.