Turning down sex
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I turned it down this weekend. I was drunk with another girl and she asked if I wanted to have sex with her, I said I preferred we didn't and that she keep her clothes on. Not that I don't fancy her, I just didn't want to under the circumstances.
NOTE:I am actually the exact same drunk as sober, the only difference is my finger coordination is off so no guitar hero :/
NOTE:I am actually the exact same drunk as sober, the only difference is my finger coordination is off so no guitar hero :/
Thats either really goood control you have or a bad decision that you made haha (im guessing the latter)TopHatTim said:
Yes, you have a point BUTxmetatr0nx said:
SHE's a PORN STAR NOW!!1!!!!
but self control is a part of the game, if people start knowing you as the person who sleeps with everyone your going to get some at first but people will start avoiding you, except for guys because they want to know the "secret"
I have never turned down sex, but then again I usually only have sex with girls Im going out with // But been single means that you have the choice to sleep with how you want to, just cos the person is smokin hot doesnt mean you will want to sleep with them
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Well earlier we had tried playing guitar hero and I couldn't do much on expert so I had to play on hard (*insert shame)Eykal said:fingers...female...and you thought guitar hero?megapenguinx said:
sorry im messin w/ you
Nice self control there, I don't know how I'd react, because I never have, and I probably never will. I happen to have the charisma of a polystyrene block.
But thanks, it was a random moment.
I have self image issues and I've turned it down once or twice due to the fact that I knew(thought) I wouldn't perform well.
There are only really two reasons to turn down sex. Aside from if you find them attractive. (you already said shes smoking so...)
1. She/He is a dirt-bag and may have every STI under the sun, and/or most of your friends have been with them already.
2. Sleeping with her/him could ruin the relationship you already want to maintain with them or someone else close to you. e.g don't sleep with your smoking hot secretary as itcould will ruin your marriage.
I don't know but I'm guessing your situation doesn't fit into the above, so yea, I guess I think you're crazy.
Oh man, I thought of a third reason, obvious really... you don't enjoy sex. I have heard its true of 30% of the population, they're all female of course, married mostly. :S
1. She/He is a dirt-bag and may have every STI under the sun, and/or most of your friends have been with them already.
2. Sleeping with her/him could ruin the relationship you already want to maintain with them or someone else close to you. e.g don't sleep with your smoking hot secretary as it
I don't know but I'm guessing your situation doesn't fit into the above, so yea, I guess I think you're crazy.
Oh man, I thought of a third reason, obvious really... you don't enjoy sex. I have heard its true of 30% of the population, they're all female of course, married mostly. :S
Nice to see someone who actually does! I'm totally the same. I have friends who rib me all the time for not sleeping with people just because I can. A lot of the time they're like, 'oh go on she's well fit' etc, when really they aren't that great looking. I dunno, maybe I'm just picky xD
