Silvanus said:
Happyninja42 said:
I think what he's trying to say is "If I'm going around in public wearing a giant purple top hat, and wearing a leopard print pant suit, I shouldn't be 1: suprised, or 2: upset, that people in the media suddenly report "Happyninja42 sighted wearing a giant purple top hat and leopard print pant suit!" I'm going out in the public, where it's perfectly legal for people to photograph me when I'm out in public, so I can't really get onto them for accurately reporting something I'm putting out there in the public circle.
Now if it's a case of "We broke into his house, and secretly filmed him wearing his purple hat and pant suit around his house, and we're going to publish this without his consent/permission", then yeah, that's a dick move. The first example is simply reporting on public events, the second is deuchebaggery of the utmost degree.
I can appreciate that, but there's a gulf between your neighbours and workmates knowing and the country knowing. The latter invites a
lot of attention, which isn't necessarily welcome (and isn't necessarily constructive). I would call it unethical nonetheless.
But, I mean if you are going out in public, and you are celebrity, someone who is always being followed by the media, how would you even expect it to not be picked up and reported? I mean, like I said, it's perfectly legal for people to publish information in the public circle, about thigns that are happening publicly. If I don't want anyone to know about my Purple Hat deal, I shouldn't be going out wearing a giant purple hat. Whether my neighbors know isn't really relevant, I'm making the conscious choice to go out, presenting myself in a way that is going to attract attention, and will be published. I can't really then cry foul for them doing exactly that.
I'm a firm believer in celebrities being able to have a private life, and it being private, and that it's not my fucking business
if they don't want to share it with me. But that stance kind of goes out the window in my opinion, when they are no longer keeping it private, and are instead making it publicly known.
You say it's unethical for the media to publish in the above Purple Hat example, but what about the random person who decides to take a photo of me, and put it on their facebook page "Hey check it out! Saw this guy wearing a crazy hat, walking down the street!" Are they being unethical? If they knew who I was, would it be unethical, compared to them simply posting a picture of a guy in a funny hat? What if that innocent post, then someone goes "Hey! That's Happyninja42! I never knew he identified as a Purple Hat guy! Holy shit! I have to tweet about this!" How could I not expect that to happen, if I am going out in public, openly presenting myself as a Purple Hatter? To expect the entire world to not react, or comment, or share this information
that I have presented to them publicly at this point seems irrational.
Again, that's only if the person is out of the closet about their Hatness. If they are wanting ot keep it private, have only told a few trusted people, and make every effort to keep that part of their life private. That's fine, they are 100% free to do so, even if they are celebrities. And I defend their right to keep parts of who they are, out of the public eye. But it's unfair to call people unethical for simply reporting on what is public fact at this point. I wear Purple Hats, it's out there, I wear it walking down the street, for all the world to see. To say the world has no right to then comment on my Hatness is unfair.
But again, that's just 1 scenario, I don't know what the case is with the Wachowski woman. If she's been open about it, well then,yeah, it's going to get comment, sorry but it just is. Being open and public invites comment and criticism. If she was keeping it private, and the information somehow got out without her knowledge/consent, then yeah, they are being dicks to basically blackmail her into coming out or they would leak it. That is totally uncalled for.