Wanting another guy's girl
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Nope. Don't do it. Not only is it a jerky thing to do, but more importantly relationships that are built on shaky foundations never last. And you breaking them up to swoop in? Shaky.
And since we are sharing apropos music videos:
Jessie's Girl by Rick Springfield
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qYkbTyHXwbs
And since we are sharing apropos music videos:
Jessie's Girl by Rick Springfield
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qYkbTyHXwbs
It is when you're with someone already, it ain't when you're awfully lonely and want someone to love and love you back.Nimcha said:
Anyway, I luckily haven't been in this situation. There is this one girl I know that I could technically feel something for, but she's indeed taken and lives in Britain as well, so I luckily ain't feeling anything for her. I wish I could help, but my love-senses seem to deactivate automatically when the girl's taken.
Keep the fuck away. Dunno how deep you are in with this guy but it happened to me. He was one of my best buds back in the day. i knew his family, he knew mine, they knew each other. He had this girl, Jemma, and I liked her, not to the extent you're talking about. One night, the magic happened and the fallout was nigh unbearable. Family arguments, my other mates were mis-trustful of me, other girls wouldn't even talk to me. All for one night of sex and shit sex at that.
Do yourself a favour and back off.
Do yourself a favour and back off.
Yeah, happened to me. Fancied my best mates girlfriend, then I was at a party with her just after they broke up. We both drunk a lil bit so were "in the mood" Ended up kissing, a lot then she pulled me down onto a bed, at which point, unbelievably, I came to my senses and realised how stupid I was for doing what I was about to let myself do. We are now just really close friends, although annoying starting to get feelings for her, plus I think her new boyfriend is a drug addicted twat.
oh ho ho ho. I know what you mean, there are 2 gals I'd give my left nut to date. Boyfriends are tools and dicks in general.joshthor said:
Just the way of life mate, hold on to the actual relationships in you have.
"friends come and go, but enemies accumulate" -Murphy's Law(i think)
I've been the girl, the one in the relationship whilst an outsider has had "feelings" for me. From this point of view I say: Stop it, stop it now, do whatever you can to quash these emotions and move on. Absolutely do not tell her, under any circumstances. Relationships require effort on both sides, and if your girl is happy with her significant other there is very, very little chance she will be flattered to know about your infatuation.
Well look at what could happen potentially, if you try going for her anyway (which would mean trying to break them up) then for the possible chance of getting with her (which may not even succeed) you risk losing good friends and making things bitter between you.
You chose to 'swallow your pride', so to speak, and it'll continue to bother you for a while and you'll be suffering from the phrase 'nothing ventured, nothing gained'.
Which one seems more worth it?
You chose to 'swallow your pride', so to speak, and it'll continue to bother you for a while and you'll be suffering from the phrase 'nothing ventured, nothing gained'.
Which one seems more worth it?
Hey man, I know exactly what you mean. Their this girl who I would give my left nut to date and her boyfriend is a frat boy, dick. But I can't cause that ain't right. If she's happy then let it be. If you are the better man she'll come to you.joshthor said:
Besides that the way of the world. And keep hold of your friends.
"friends come and go, but enemies accumulate"-Murphy's Law(I think)
Yer this is pretty much exactly the same situation I am in with one of my house mates. Also it turned out that she actually knew how I felt for a while, I didn't tell her but I must have been less subtle than I thought, massively embarrassing. FML
If she has feelings for you she'll come to you naturally. It complicates things that you're friends with her boyfriend, because if you steal her, he'll hate you, and if she breaks up with him for you, he'll still hate you. Regardless, don't try to break them up. That's just scummy.
I'm on that boat now but this is how I see it.
The other guy won or got their first, so its time for me to move on.
I have a responsibility to myself and their are plenty of women out in the sea, its just up to you to stop fishing for the one an go out exploring.
The other guy won or got their first, so its time for me to move on.
I have a responsibility to myself and their are plenty of women out in the sea, its just up to you to stop fishing for the one an go out exploring.