Well I just broke up my 11 month relationship

[darkfire613]

Born on valentines day 16, yep I got nothing

No shit, I was also born on February 14 and I'm also 16. Anyway.

On topic, I'm not in a relationship right now, and I'm fine with that. There's a girl I like and I think she likes me as well, but her parents won't even let her hang out with males much less date, so I'm waiting for now. We're good friends with similar interests, and we plan on going to the same college.

 

[neonsword13-ops]

Well... uhh.... hmmm. Not sure what to say. I think I'll just leave this space below for interpretation of my feelings.
(This is what I like to do to stupid girls.)

Nah, kidding.

Seriously though, Sorry, bro. I've never been in a, so-say, "Censensual" relationship. So I don't know how the whole "going seperate ways" or "love" thing works. Kind of sad for me, actually... Haha.

 

[onewheeled]

My girlfriend of a year just left for Michigan yesterday for college. Granted, it was already a long-distance relationship (About 300 miles, I'm in California, so it's like 2,000 miles now), but I haven't seen her since July of last year, and knowing I also have to wait until December to see her again (if I'm even able to) is almost unbearable. But for what is possible in a relationship like this, it's been absolutely fantastic. I love my Ashley. <3

Thanks, man. I feel your pain, but it must be so much worse when you haven't seen her in a year. I would basically die without my girlfriend for a year straight...

You have it a lot easier than I do, though. You both live in the US, so plane tickets cost a lot less, or hell, just drive. And if you REALLY wanted to, you could move in with her, considering that you wouldn't need a visa or anything to get a job near her. I would give ANYTHING for my girlfriend to live in the US again...

I hope you get a good Christmas "present" yourself and I hope it works out well between you two! You'll definitely have a much smoother Christmas eve than I will, since thats when my girlfriend and I first got together last year and we will probably be crying our eyes out from joy. XD Take it easy, okay? *Hug of ultimate sympathy*

Yeah... That thing about moving in with her or getting a job near her isn't quite as easy as it sounds. I'm sixteen. She's seventeen, soon to be eighteen.

Still, we're young, we have plenty of time to make plans and figure out how we can finally come together once and for all.

 

[lonely tylenol]

Yeah, I'm happy ^^ This is my special girl girl: [user]no oneder[/user]. I wouldn't be here if it weren't for her.

Sorry to hear about the OP though. Cheer up, love comes when you least expect it.

 

[zehydra]

I had relationship for about a year. It was good, until I had to go to College, and she was still in High School.

It pretty much went downhill from there.

 

[Dogstile]

Oh, I was on and off with a girl for like two or three years. Last week we had a massive argument, I asked her to leave me alone for a couple weeks so I could cool off and then she got pissy at me for needing time to cool off.

Long story short, I told her boyfriend that she was planning on being unfaithful to shut her up and now i'm blocked, hopefully forever. I'm now currently writing one of those songs teens write when they're down after a breakup but like, i'm trying to make it funny.

So yeah, that's where I am. And no, you can't see the song lyrics. I only show my closest friends them if they ask and even then i'm reluctant.

 

[LaughingJester]

Currently in a relationship, though it doesnt feel like it... i much preferred being single and by the time you read this I just might be! haha

 

[BigSarge04]

IN a relationship with my current GF of almost 8 months, things are going awesome, but sometimes I wish I had held off a few more weeks, cuz I've seen some fine dimes that are single!

 

[Ham_authority95]

My girlfriend of a year just left for Michigan yesterday for college. Granted, it was already a long-distance relationship (About 300 miles, I'm in California, so it's like 2,000 miles now), but I haven't seen her since July of last year, and knowing I also have to wait until December to see her again (if I'm even able to) is almost unbearable. But for what is possible in a relationship like this, it's been absolutely fantastic. I love my Ashley. <3

Thanks, man. I feel your pain, but it must be so much worse when you haven't seen her in a year. I would basically die without my girlfriend for a year straight...

You have it a lot easier than I do, though. You both live in the US, so plane tickets cost a lot less, or hell, just drive. And if you REALLY wanted to, you could move in with her, considering that you wouldn't need a visa or anything to get a job near her. I would give ANYTHING for my girlfriend to live in the US again...

I hope you get a good Christmas "present" yourself and I hope it works out well between you two! You'll definitely have a much smoother Christmas eve than I will, since thats when my girlfriend and I first got together last year and we will probably be crying our eyes out from joy. XD Take it easy, okay? *Hug of ultimate sympathy*

Yeah... That thing about moving in with her or getting a job near her isn't quite as easy as it sounds. I'm sixteen. She's seventeen, soon to be eighteen.

Still, we're young, we have plenty of time to make plans and figure out how we can finally come together once and for all.

Yeah, so are my girlfriend and I. With enough time, creativity, and work, I think we will see both of our relationships flourish. If my relationship continuing means moving to Denmark for a whole summer, I'll do it.

 

[johnboy424]

Never had a girlfriend, and never wanted one until this summer. I met a girl in June that made me change my mind, and I told her how I felt, but she doesn't feel the same way. Also, I recently found out that one of my best friends has wanted to date me for a while, and I haven't really figured out how to deal with both situations while avoiding unnecessary heartbreak. However, I'm only in high school, and I know that any relationship I start now is unlikely to lead anywhere. I try not to get too worked up about it.

 

[Xeraxis]

I have never had a relationship, as much like some people of this thread. Hopefully, that will change with college coming up.

Also, if you never cared, why didn't you end it earlier?

 

[Hollock]

I have never had a relationship (I only tried with one person). And I have only hung out with friends out of work and school 7 times since last July. I'm hoping my life changes drastically with college in a few weeks.

 

[me.vicky]

My 11-month boyfriend and I are doing very well, thanks for asking OT.

 

[Lyiat]

Been with the same girl for over seven years now, and we're very damn happy.

 

[artanis_neravar]

So yeah, she just broke up with me. It doesn't matter though, she's homophobic, I'm bisexual, I'm falling for another girl. Don't worry about me. So the discussion value: How are you doing in your current relationship? Are you happy?

Edit: Yeah, when she found out she tried to talk me out of being bisexual. Also she didn't like the "kinks" I had. All my friends say I looked gloomy with her anyway.

Been single for a little over a year now, don't miss her, like at all...in fact what's the opposite of missing someone? Either looking back on it, it wouldn't have worked we were to different. I have my eye on a girl now, not sure how she feels about me, I also suspect that other people know I like her and may or may not be pushing me one way or another.

 

[The Virgo]

I don't believe in astrology, though I do seem to be witty, nice, and intelligent (all IMO)...strange...

But yeah, not much of a demand for nerds in the relationship market. It's a shame, too, 'cause I think I'm a damned good guy! I'll happily listen to you talk about your day, or rant about how that ***** over there is a total slut...anything! And sex is not a priority. I've gone 16 years without it, and I've a hand and a computer, so I can go without for a little while longer XD Certainly not opposed to it, though.

Heh, "I have a hand, so I can go without for a little while longer." I laughed at that part! XD And yeah, I can do my fair share of ranting too!

However, sex, while not the "#1" thing to me in a relationship, is pretty high on the ladder of importance in a relationship!

Also, sorry to hear that you may have SPD. That sucks =( Worse than SAD (what a terrible acronym!). *Also reads through symptoms* Yeah, looks like I have mild SAD.

Thanks for the good wishes, and I hope you have good luck, too =)

I've never been officially diagnosed (hell, can't remember the last time I saw a doctor), since I don't believe in doctors as they are nothing more than legalized drug dealers with a diploma on the wall, giving you a "miracle cure" to solve your problems (thereby getting a kickback from the drug companies) that then causes something else in your body or some other "wonder pill" you're taking to fuck up so they have to prescribe something else. -_-' But I digress. Anyway, for all I know I'm perfectly fine and don't actually have SPD, but I still appreciate your concern. Yeah, SAD is a bad acronym, but it's not as bad as "Forever Alone Guy", whose acronym is FAG. XD

Adds a whole new level to that meme!

Anyway, take care and have a good one!

 

[Slayer_2]

My relationships are like car crashes, except more brutal and drawn out. First I've been interested in one girl for almost 4 years now. About a year ago, I got the great idea of asking her out, but I clearly stated that if she wasn't down, I'd still want to be her friend (we were really tight). Since then, the friendship disintegrated for a while, and is only now slowly rebuilding itself.

Now, this sounds almost like karma, I know, because 2 years ago, when I was dreaming about that one girl (but lacking the balls to say anything), I had a fling ended with me telling the other girl I was involved that I wasn't interested in her that way, and she hated me for a few months, same thing as the first girl, only now is our friendship patching itself back together.

Then, about a year ago, a third girl I met at a concert fell in love with me (she was only 15, and me 18, at the time), and I - like a retard - agreed to go out on a date with her. Soon I discovered I didn't want a relationship with her, and also that she was annoying, self-centred, and needy as hell, which I certainly couldn't deal with, I'd just picked up a night-shift job, and it was hard enough surviving, never-mind making sure I spent hours of every day with her. So, even though it was hard, I broke her heart too... Fuck I felt like a dick at that point... Until she started stalking me AND my friends via text and FB, then my goodwill towards her dried up.

Then I did the stupid thing and asked my friend I was attracted to out. I already told you how that went, and maybe it was karma paying me back for being a douche.

Finally, the conclusion to this epic rant/list of failures, 6 months ago, I tried hooking up with a "friend" who I barely knew, for casual sex. Partly to try to get the girl I wanted out of my mind, partly because I'm a 19 year old male, we don't say no. I couldn't get it up, and after about 15 minutes of embarrassment, I gave up and made up a pathetic excuse to leave.

Okay, I'm done, if you read that all, you're a champ.

 

[Azaez]

Im in a 2 1/2 relationship with no break up, never have been happier in my life but cheer up she wasnt good for you anyways, next time will be better