What do you find unattractive or turns you off?

[Johny64]

I find it unattractive if they are too muscular. Don't overdue it at the gym. Also, girls with unreasonable mood swings.

 

[Dags90]

- Male cardigans- what's up with that!?

Cardigans are a traditionally male article of clothing. It's like saying "male jeans", so "what's up with calling them 'male cardigans'?" is a more appropriate question. They're named after a man.

Close enough. They must be of a similar strain through. These...things tend to be a bit longer.

Do you mean leggings? They're just called leggings, unless they're jeggings. Then they're called jeggings.

 

[Negatempest]

Princess'. I do not like princesses. I'm not the "Saving princesses makes me feel complete" kind of guy. If she can't be alone for 1 day without having some kind of nervous breakdown, it ain't worth the time. Nor do I like trophy wives, women who's sole purpose is to prove the males status...sorry but no I like a woman who is strong, independent and is right with me defending our home if need be, not hiding in a closet somewhere in the house.

 

[William MacKay]

smoking. and fake tan to the max. there are girls at my school who are literally orange, and one who had nearly passed from white, through tanned and was nearly coming out on the 'middle-eastern' side (not being racist, im using it as an example of skin tone/colour). i really hate is when they act like a bitches.

 

[Chase Yojimbo]

girls who are unfit, smoke (including drugs, can't stand drugs of any sort actually), have body/face piercings (ears is alright so long as its not excessive), and basically finding open faults with me (as in speaking about them and is either trying to change them or is bitching about it). I may be overweight, but I am fit for my weight (not considering the fact that I do try to lose weight). A woman whos wearing to much makeup (excessive) can be a bit of a turn off, a woman who is insecure about their looks often want everything around them to look as perfect as they pretend to be, thus coming back to my 'open faults' turn off. Everything I have said though results to personality just as much looks. The reason why they physically appear as so is because they share a 'certain personality' that share an interest in, for example, piercings.

... I think that about covers it. But it is meaningless since Women keep away from me anyways. The life of a Scholar I suppose : / That and I analyse to much, which I would guess is a turn off to most women anyways, so I'll live with that lol xD

 

[Baneat]

Definitely smoking.

Smoking, and, although this may be a given, lying.

Had to deal with both at the end of the last one...

I think the key factor would be 'excessive or addictive'. So smoking, hard drugs, alcoholism (because very few of us would be against a partner getting a little trashed every now and then, but most of us would be against him/her being a chronic drinker).

So yeah, for me the biggest turn offs are addictions and that thig where people go that bit too far (with anything really, whether it be the gym, pets, talking about games, whatever, there is just that point where it goes from 'interest/hobby/whatever to 'obsession/compulsion'). So really, the things that turn me off are things that are 'too far', it's hard to explain, but if you've seen it happen then you'll know exactly what I'm talking about.

Nope, that's not it for me at all. Smoking literally disgusts me. I have nothing against the people that do smoke- it's just that if someone does smoke, I can't sit next to them until their smell goes away. It's that bad.

I just assumed that the smell was a given to be honest. I mean, I feel the same way about the smell (sometimes it can be a challenge just to not cringe when I walk past smokers, just from the smell alone), but I figured that if your partner had a medical reason for an occasional cigarette (let's say on average, two a month) and only lied to you for a very good reason, and only a couple times at most, you probably wouldn't be so turned off by it.

Before, definitely, but we're talking "I caught her with a pack and she started smoking regularly and lied to me about it to my face".

Which, by the way, was also a broken promise, as she promised she never smoked and never would. We were planning on moving in together at the time that happened, so that's a rather major thing (though, for the record, it was only one of MANY majorly fucked up things that contributed to our break up).

Also, what sort of medical reason would there be to smoke a cigarette?

Irritable Bowel Syndrome

Which, incidentally one would find a turnoff, I'm assuming

 

[damselgaming]

- Babyfaced men, I like a man that looks like a man.
- Male cardigans- what's up with that!?

- How about facial hair? Or metrosexuals? Would it make any difference if the guy spent longer getting ready than you and had as many or more creams, lotions, straighteners, etc?
- Cardigans rock...contemporary kind, not old man kind. Extra layer for the cold, closed to behave like a jumper/sweater, open for comfort, style and to complement whatever's beneath. Can also forgo the need for a jacket.

Rough manly stubble is good and a large preference of mine, loads of hair is awful. Like an actual beard or whatever the ones are where the guy just has a beard on his chin. Really makes people look old, and sort of rapist like.
Unless the getting ready was excessive who am I to tell someone not to look after themselves. It would be more the impatience of wanting to get somewhere. I'll admit that guys spending hours getting ready is a weird thought though.

 

[Of-the-Lion]

obesity+bookishness

I don't mind a little weight, and i don't mind bookishness, but these to together make me want to hurl.

also arrogance and brainlessness.
these are bad enough by themselves, let alone combined.

 

[Kevlar Eater]

Arrogance
Obesity
Stupidity
Make-up slathered on as if they were Mad Moxxi
Women with children (doesn't matter how attractive the lady actually is, I'm not putting up with another person's child(ren)
Unkempt feet (the kind that resemble talons, or toenails that look like corn chips)
Overly large boobs
Heavy drinking
Women who can't think for themselves

lol, rope a tit.

 

[TitanAtlas]

Smugness, arrogance and stupid racism..... huge turnoffs....

 

[sinterklaas]

High heels and nail paint. Or whatever it's called in English. Those are truly DISGUSTING and a huge turnoff.

 

[Of-the-Lion]

smoking. and fake tan to the max. there are girls at my school who are literally orange, and one who had nearly passed from white, through tanned and was nearly coming out on the 'middle-eastern' side (not being racist, im using it as an example of skin tone/colour). i really hate is when they act like a bitches.

My friend and I were watching the school news show and one of the anchors is solid orange. My friend shouts: Shanon! Mr. Wonka wants you back at the factory NOW!

 

[Mcmuffin]

Stupidity, i once met a girl that was absolutely adorable and attractive in every way and she was wicked nice but then the conversation turned to school and she was like grade A stupid. She didnt know who Hitler was, she couldn't tell you what 12 times 12 was and it turned me away immediately. I like girls to be at least somewhat intelligent as well as attractive.

 

[Wadders]

Smoking's not a big issue for me really, unlike loads of people here...

Use of drugs other than weed is pretty unattractive, but booze is fine too, as long as she's not necking pints like a lad.

Being too skinny is gross too. Might seem odd as I'm a pretty skinny guy, but I dont mind it if a girl is well built. Not huge like, but a bit of meat is all good

I also hate hippy type girls. But that's just an extension of me hating hippies in general.

Also, really hairy arms.

 

[damselgaming]

- Male cardigans- what's up with that!?
Cardigans are a traditionally male article of clothing. It's like saying "male jeans", so "what's up with calling them 'male cardigans'?" is a more appropriate question. They're named after a man.

Oh they were named after a Mr Cardigan? Cardigans are not in my opinion a mans piece of clothing. Much like low V-Neck tops. Yick.

 

[Simalacrum]

Pretty much what most people have already pointed out here really, smoking, arrogance, morbid obesity, etc

 

[espressojet]

I get turned off whenever I'm eating or immediately after I've eaten.... it's weird

 

[Harry Mason]

Shaved body hair.
I like natural women, not naked cactus people who look like 10-year-olds.

 

[Joshimodo]

Smoking is a big one. Total turn off in every way possible. As is drinking to get drunk.

Makeup, too. Taking pride in yourself is one thing, but hiding under lots of makeup all of the time? Insecurities that I don't want to have to put up with. Plus, it's ugly. Tanning sucks, too.

Piercings - Ears are fine, apart from the retarded ear tunnels. Noses are usually fine (rings/hoops less so, though), but anything else usually looks ridiculously tacky and ugly. Moreover, what's the point?

Obviously, weight etc. accounts to it, but I'd be more willing to date someone slightly overweight than someone who is stick-thin. Obesity and anorexia are huge no-nos.


Personality-wise, I find arrogance annoying, but not anywhere near as bad as stupidity/ignorance. If there's no depth behind the eyes, I have zero interest from the start. No ideas for the future, or hopes/dreams, or passions, or the ability to hold an interesting conversation or simply talk about something and have an actual informed opinion? No chance.