What do you look for in a girlfriend/boyfriend?
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Sex is good and all, but I wouldn't want a slut.
I would love someone who can debate and make me laugh, with red hair and possibly green eyes.
Bi-eyes are an instant hit, though rare.
Nerdy is good, and considering some people don't have an option, taller. (I say through gritted teeth).
So in all, a very, very hard to come by combination... XD
I would love someone who can debate and make me laugh, with red hair and possibly green eyes.
Bi-eyes are an instant hit, though rare.
Nerdy is good, and considering some people don't have an option, taller. (I say through gritted teeth).
So in all, a very, very hard to come by combination... XD
a woman who doesn't mess around, is faithfull, honest and upfront, in other words someone who takes a chance on an avg joe isn't suckered by the guy with good lucks, lots of confidence, big shlong, loads a money and a low iq.
tho imo finding one lass that works out for you is a lottery, why some mess guys around like going off with someone else or going quiet, or even not giving the guy a chance to shine ?!
an example your intouch with someone for 3 weeks and lots of texts are being sent suddenly she stops, ignores the guy and the excuse is she's busy got a lot on her mind.. meaning she's gone off you and is with someone one else who she's known for 5 mins give or take.
so either the guy fked up or she's a stupid beyatch??
tho imo finding one lass that works out for you is a lottery, why some mess guys around like going off with someone else or going quiet, or even not giving the guy a chance to shine ?!
an example your intouch with someone for 3 weeks and lots of texts are being sent suddenly she stops, ignores the guy and the excuse is she's busy got a lot on her mind.. meaning she's gone off you and is with someone one else who she's known for 5 mins give or take.
so either the guy fked up or she's a stupid beyatch??
Someone who can be around me for long periods of time under their own free will.
Also a fan of tomboyishness. Extra points for tomboyishness.
Also a fan of tomboyishness. Extra points for tomboyishness.
I don't look for anything.
Sure there are things i consider but thats merely, will this work and how well do i know this person?
Generally if i am attracted to someone then i go for them.
Sure there are things i consider but thats merely, will this work and how well do i know this person?
Generally if i am attracted to someone then i go for them.
Someone who is intelligent, well read, kind, rational, humorous, and at least mildly attractive. She must be able to debate an idea impartially, and recognize that criticizing something is not always a bad thing. She must be honest, willing to speak her mind, and loyal.
Physically, I am not really picky, just as long as I am attracted to her in some way.
Traits I dislike would be promiscuity, and ignorance.
Physically, I am not really picky, just as long as I am attracted to her in some way.
Traits I dislike would be promiscuity, and ignorance.
I'm picky for a reason. If I intend to devote myself to another person then I want to be happy with my choice. I didn't say the criteria are written in stone however, they're more like a guide that I prefer to follow. Small things here and there can vary and I won't mind. Race, hair color, and eye color are merely preferences. Besides I'm not actively looking for any sort of relationship and I don't intend to devote a ton of effort to doing so. I find it all very... unnecessary.Gladion said:Mh. I once had a dumb girlfriend. The relationship was unbelievable. Never want to experience something like that ever again.
Also very important: Smell. I can imagine a relationship with any woman, regardless what she looks like, if she just smells nice. Okay, there is one exception: I don't like obese women. That doesn't mean I care about every single extra kilogram, but when it's clearly noticeable, I just can't.
She also has to be a nice person. I don't mind if she's quiet or loud, as long as she is friendly, I'm fine with that.
I'm extremely sarcastic, so she needs to understand this kind of humour, and find it funny, too, otherwise she will probably leave me very quickly.
Final point: Kinkiness. Yeah, now we're talking about the juicy stuff. I don't want her to be into S/M. :S I like my share of pain far away from anything that has to do with sex. Even though a nice bite in the neck or shoulder...Whatever.
I'll give you my number via PM.Xanadeas said:
NONONO, I don't meet your conditions anyway. Brown eyes
In all seriousness now, don't you think you are a little too picky? Not saying you should content yourself with anything that crosses by, but it might be very hard to find somebody if you define your partner up to the hair colour.
If the right person were to come along and they matched most of my preferences but not all of them I would still go for it. Nothing too serious. :3
MATURITY. I cannot stress that enough! And no, I don't mean the silver haired kind of maturity, just what I would consider normal adult intellectual/emotional developmental maturity. This is something which, it seems, doesn't crop up in many men until later than you'd like.
Aside from that, I prefer gentleness, a wicked sense of humour, faithfulness and affection. I also have a weakness for tall men with cute accents...
Luckily for me, after several years of searching, I found myself a 6 ft 5 German guy who meets all of the above criteria - and I love him to bits =)
Aside from that, I prefer gentleness, a wicked sense of humour, faithfulness and affection. I also have a weakness for tall men with cute accents...
Luckily for me, after several years of searching, I found myself a 6 ft 5 German guy who meets all of the above criteria - and I love him to bits =)
Intellectual - I once went out with a really stupid girl once and i couldn't have an intelligent conversation with her.
Shorter than me - I don't think i could go out with a girl that was taller than me. It would be really emasculating.
Faithful - The less said about my past experiences with unfaithful girls the better.
BONUS POINTS - Red hair - I love a girl with red/ginger hair. They drive me wild.
Shorter than me - I don't think i could go out with a girl that was taller than me. It would be really emasculating.
Faithful - The less said about my past experiences with unfaithful girls the better.
BONUS POINTS - Red hair - I love a girl with red/ginger hair. They drive me wild.
Someone intelligent. Can't stress that enough. And funny and nice. I'm not hugely bothered by the rest.
Looks are important. If you say otherwise you are lying, blind or need to work on your self esteem. If I get on great with a girl who isn't hot then we remain friends. There's nothing wrong with that. For a partner it has to be someone who you want to rip her clothes off everytime you see her.
I don't have a "type" I like all hair colours and skin tones. She has to have a pretty face and be slim. I understand that big girls need love too... just not from me. I train regularly, am attractive and am in good shape. I expect similar from my partner. She also has to be well groomed and take some pride in her appearance. I was never a big boobs sort of person, normally slim girls don't have them, until I met my partner whos slim with huge breasts. I can now say that everything is better with huge breasts. Its more important to be slim though.
Having said all this someone you find attractive but don't click with is someone you date/sleep with for a while until the novelty wears off/ennui sets in.
Personality wise I like confidence, intelligence, wisdom, humour(laughing is important) and someone who is caring and tactile. I must trust her completely and she must have some life experience, which is different from being old. Im a sucker for women who are well spoken, think Liz Hurleys voice, Id be happy just listening to her read a shopping list. I think thats why I've had so many rich girlfriends in the past, its the voice. I filled their Heathcliffe fantasy as a bit of rough who miss-treated them. I've reformed/grown up since then.
My standards are high and thats a good thing. I deserve to have the complete package for my partner. Anything less is a friend or a shag. My current partner ticks all the right boxes and Im not going anywhere else.
I don't have a "type" I like all hair colours and skin tones. She has to have a pretty face and be slim. I understand that big girls need love too... just not from me. I train regularly, am attractive and am in good shape. I expect similar from my partner. She also has to be well groomed and take some pride in her appearance. I was never a big boobs sort of person, normally slim girls don't have them, until I met my partner whos slim with huge breasts. I can now say that everything is better with huge breasts. Its more important to be slim though.
Having said all this someone you find attractive but don't click with is someone you date/sleep with for a while until the novelty wears off/ennui sets in.
Personality wise I like confidence, intelligence, wisdom, humour(laughing is important) and someone who is caring and tactile. I must trust her completely and she must have some life experience, which is different from being old. Im a sucker for women who are well spoken, think Liz Hurleys voice, Id be happy just listening to her read a shopping list. I think thats why I've had so many rich girlfriends in the past, its the voice. I filled their Heathcliffe fantasy as a bit of rough who miss-treated them. I've reformed/grown up since then.
My standards are high and thats a good thing. I deserve to have the complete package for my partner. Anything less is a friend or a shag. My current partner ticks all the right boxes and Im not going anywhere else.
what do I look for in a girlfriend? my penis, mainly..!
(someone had to say it)
serious answer? kinky is good, and an open mind is essential (since I'm polyamorous) ^_^
(someone had to say it)
The term is 'ditzy'. Dipsy is a teletubbyZiadaine said:
serious answer? kinky is good, and an open mind is essential (since I'm polyamorous) ^_^
I'll get the book....
Can't be obese (I can handle overweight, but as a rule of thumb I don't like the idea of being with a girl heavier than me, which isn't hard as I weigh ~100kgs. Basicially unless a girl is freakishly tall, she won't healthily outweigh me). That said, I won't touch a girl who I think looks too skinny, there's a window of acceptable and it's not very big on the underweight side, I don't want her to snap when I'm holding her nor do I like girls with low self esteem (underweight and low self esteem go hand in hand). That might make it sound like I judge girls harshly by their weight, I don't. Basicially any sporty girl, or girl who is generally active will easily fit the description, she just has to look healthy.
They can't be stupid. I don't know when or why, but at some point it became cool for girls to be ditzy. If I think someone is beneath me I will ignore them, even if they are a hot girl. I don't demand that they are my intellectual equal (I wouldn't even know how to measure such a thing), but if I'm to have a serious relationship with someone they're going to need to be at least ambitious and able to hold a conversation.
She has to be agressive with a solid backbone. I am often a very agressive person, I thrive on conflict and need someone to occasionally stare me down and tell me I'm wrong. I have no interest in a girl who is completely submissive, I've tried it before and I get bored very, very quickly.
Here's the one where most girls fall over, she can't be batshit insane. I don't know why it's so hard to find a girl who doesn't get insanely attached insanely quickly or who doesn't explode randomly at people for minor things when ignoring major things but I really struggle. I demand a measure of consistancy, I'm not a mind reader nor am I likely to deal well with being yelled at over trivial things.
She has to be somewhat open to my generic nerdy male passtimes. I don't expect to find a confident, healthy girl that likes to get drunk and play DotA, what I do expect is that when I decide to have a game or two with my mates, she doesn't try and lecture me about how bad/nerdy/antisocial it is.
There's more but I think that's a good basic outline for now.
Can't be obese (I can handle overweight, but as a rule of thumb I don't like the idea of being with a girl heavier than me, which isn't hard as I weigh ~100kgs. Basicially unless a girl is freakishly tall, she won't healthily outweigh me). That said, I won't touch a girl who I think looks too skinny, there's a window of acceptable and it's not very big on the underweight side, I don't want her to snap when I'm holding her nor do I like girls with low self esteem (underweight and low self esteem go hand in hand). That might make it sound like I judge girls harshly by their weight, I don't. Basicially any sporty girl, or girl who is generally active will easily fit the description, she just has to look healthy.
They can't be stupid. I don't know when or why, but at some point it became cool for girls to be ditzy. If I think someone is beneath me I will ignore them, even if they are a hot girl. I don't demand that they are my intellectual equal (I wouldn't even know how to measure such a thing), but if I'm to have a serious relationship with someone they're going to need to be at least ambitious and able to hold a conversation.
She has to be agressive with a solid backbone. I am often a very agressive person, I thrive on conflict and need someone to occasionally stare me down and tell me I'm wrong. I have no interest in a girl who is completely submissive, I've tried it before and I get bored very, very quickly.
Here's the one where most girls fall over, she can't be batshit insane. I don't know why it's so hard to find a girl who doesn't get insanely attached insanely quickly or who doesn't explode randomly at people for minor things when ignoring major things but I really struggle. I demand a measure of consistancy, I'm not a mind reader nor am I likely to deal well with being yelled at over trivial things.
She has to be somewhat open to my generic nerdy male passtimes. I don't expect to find a confident, healthy girl that likes to get drunk and play DotA, what I do expect is that when I decide to have a game or two with my mates, she doesn't try and lecture me about how bad/nerdy/antisocial it is.
There's more but I think that's a good basic outline for now.