They have to not care about things that don't matter. By this I mean not being like my first girlfriend, who would get annoyed and hence act grumpy to me over the smallest things; I would hint (through my physical actions) that kissing should turn into something more when we are in her bed in an empty house.
"Why does it always have to be about sex?" she asks. I tell her that it doesn't, but it is enjoyable and why not - we have done it before and havent done it for almost a week, nothing is stopping us and its been a great night so why not end it with something we both enjoy? I later learned she was the kind of girl that liked to play games, like denying me sex/kisses/whatever she wanted to to try and get the power in the relationship. This later evolved into me not caring, at all, about anything she tried to deny me.
"Oh, that's great I'm pretty tired anyway, I think I might head home" was my eventual usual response, and then I got the power, by simply not caring anymore. But it wasn't enough, the way she tried to manipulate me made me feel sick, and I couldn't see her anymore, so I broke up with her.
Since then I've had great luck with girls that a) Don't try and play games (I will win them mwahah
) b) Don't make mountains out of mole hills c) Aren't too conservative, and will drink every now and then, and have a physical relationship maturely. d) have some sort of intelligence, not perfect, but atleast able to hold a conversation e) are atleast a 6/10 on the average guys scale. How shallow, I know, but I'd rather wait for a pretty girl with the things I'm looking for than try and pass off a female friend as a lover so that I'm not alone.
