What makes a REAL man?

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twaddle

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JanatUrlich said:
I judge a guy on his willingness to go down on me.

Unprompted oral is what makes a real man ;D

No really. I do judge guys on that.
....-_-' okay then. I guess i'm a real man to you then.whats so wrong with guys doing oral anyways, i personally have no problems with it, and i consider it good foreplay
 

Blindswordmaster

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There are two types of males in this world: Men and Boys. Boys never grew up, so they do stupid shit, act like jerks, act irresponsibly, and harass women. Men have matured, we know how to be gentlemen, take responsibility for our actions, live with honor, and treat people with respect. A man treats women right and can put the needs of others above their own. Honor, faith, courage, duty, and understanding make a real man.
 

theironbat46

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A y chromosome to be a man, And not being fictional to be real. Then bake at 3rd degree till age thirteen to age eighteen. ZING.
 

TriggerUnhappy

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Nothing. There is no way to be a "real man", other than being who you are. Trying to live up to that twisted ideal is self destructive.

Don't believe me? Watch Fight Club, see where that behavior can lead you.
 
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InnerRebellion said:
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InnerRebellion said:
We're only 14, mate, so that matters to her a lot.
I'd think the opposite.

Most everyone I knew at 14 wanted to have sex with everything.

Not that having a crazy sex drive makes you more of a man, but I don't get how having less of one makes you more manly.

Seriously though, man, you don't have special alone time?

Dude...
I was raised with the moral "Masturbation is wrong" so...yeah. And I'm the sap who does whatever she wants.
Most people who masturbate were raised with that same moral. Look at them now.

If you have the proper genitalia, you are a man. Everything else is subjective and open to opinion.
 

drdamo

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Being a man is about 2 things:
a: Who do you want to be?
b: What does your lover want you to be?

Pour example:
Christian chick wants pure-thoughts man
Bikerchick wants SOB-man
Emo girl wants manwoman-man

So who are you? Good, now match that "you" with the woman that wants that "you" and presto! You are da man!
[Dickism]
Now please don't go sniffling into the corner like a ridiculed chihuahua for being called a barking rat and show your manlyness by not having your girlfriend succeed in changing your "you" like you are a fresh blob of play-doh clay, unless ofcourse you wub her so much that you must, in which case you are THAT guy![/Dickism]
 

Slayer_2

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All guys can only ever think of girls or booze, if they are thinking about something else, they're gay :p

Seriously, could they classify our whole gender in a less... radical way? We should all be either sex addicts or abstinent, according to your GF and her friends, find some middle ground.
 

Eggsnham

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If you treat people and your girlfriend with common decency and respect and don't act like a sex obsessed idiot all the time.

Granted, I do think that society needs to loosen it's stranglehold on all things sexual. It is the core of humankind, after all.

But yes. Respect > Being a dick.
 

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Every male will tell you that the definition of a "real" man is whatever best describes them. It is an incredibly undefined term which makes arguing over whether or not you are one completely null and void. The problem is that it is seen as a complement, which I personally am surprised women use since it basically demeans them.
 

Divine Miss Bee

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well, my personal belief is that the differences between boyhood and manliness don't lie in the arena that your girlfriend and her friend were discussing. a lack of masturbation and tit-ogling is refreshing, but it's not a maturity thing-it's a personality thing. what makes you a man is your choices about *important* things, not whether or not you take "time to yourself."
 

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jamesworkshop said:
InnerRebellion said:
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InnerRebellion said:
Perhaps it's her way of saying she wishes you had sex with her more often or have a more taking charge approach
We're 14...
Oh well then I'm certainly not going to advise you to break the law but maybe she doesn't feel that you are that attracted to her (sounds like she's suggesting you're frigid), reality is if you're 14 then you clearly are not a man yet anyway and porn is for 18 and over.

Just because she's 14 doesn't mean she doesn't want it, try being a bit more cheeky around her.
Lol....
 

Tdc2182

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Well, having a penis only makes you a male, not a man.

Being a man means you do stuff that belongs in mantages, like cutting down trees, building houses out of those trees, growing a beard, and owning some kind of primitive double barrel shotgun. Lots of focus on the beard though. But in order to be a man, you have to either a.) live on a mountain, b.) work on a ranch/ farm, c.)be in the military or, d.) be a cowboy/ where a hat and jeans (basically, you have to dress presentable but tough, not like the douchebags these days with tight pants and mascara. Emo hair is only acceptable if you have a nice beard to go along with it and you look rugged).

Jacking off is more of a "guy" thing.

I sometimes have moments where I qualify as a man, but am still on the way.
 

Tdc2182

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FaceFaceFace said:
Every male will tell you that the definition of a "real" man is whatever best describes them. It is an incredibly undefined term which makes arguing over whether or not you are one completely null and void. The problem is that it is seen as a complement, which I personally am surprised women use since it basically demeans them.
Phht... read my post, I am barely anything of what I described in there