questions asked throughout the ages. right up there with "Whats the meaning of life?", and "What does this button do?" in my opinion, being a man literally means having the y chromosome, but it also means reaching a stage of maturity where you can take pride in your doings, respect others' dignity, and always choosing the right decision. A real man never stops maturing, he only matures to a point where he becomes an old man, and an old man provides for his family, raises his kids to be the men like he is, and retain all of his man-nerisms until death.