What the hell, ladies!?

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TehCookie

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So women aren't allowed to go to clubs to hang out with their friends? Why do guys think everything ladies do is for them? Not all of them dress up for men, some dress up because it makes them feel pretty and more confident, or do it to impress their friends. When girls go to bars/clubs they don't always want to pick up a guy, some want to have a girls night out or just drink. Is it that hard to understand?
 

Akyho

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Put on a giant fake moustache and have a dance off and win.

Did that I had the guys girlfriend shove him out of the way to dance with me I had three other girls then I was surrounded by a gaggle of Grannys.

Thing is......I danced the worse moves you can...the funky chicken was used!!
 

Charli

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No I don't do that. Why? I know 18-2X Ladies are SUPPOSED to do that but I don't know why myself.
To meet other drunk, socially embarrassing numbskulls with nothing better to do that evening? The world will never know. At least...I won't know. I prefer staying in and working to that kind of scene. And who knows, I'll be able to support myself instead of dressing up like a peacock to attract an idiot with some cash to mooch off. Sounds win win to me.
 

LiquidGrape

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Oh, cry me a river. What they choose to do with their free time is their prerogative.
Simply put: it's none of your business.
 

Brutal Peanut

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I've never enjoyed going out to 'clubs'. I'd rather go to a dinner with a few friends and have a nice night without some guy trying to finger-blast me on the dance floor or rub his junk on my ass. I also don't get dressed up, it takes me about five minutes to get ready. Unless it's a formal event (black-tie, wedding, etc) and I have to attempt to curl my massive, stubborn, untameable head of hair - then it takes a bit longer. DAMN YOU HAIR!

Maybe these ladies are just out for a girls night?
 

x EvilErmine x

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Doclector said:
Why do ladies do that?(Because people are fickle.)
Why do guys take beauty as skin deep?(Because we are genetically programed to do it.)
Why do just as many ladies do this, matter of fact, why do humans do it?(Ditto to the last.)
Why do people fight pointless wars? (Because people are stupid, a individuals can be intelligent but put em all together and some kinda magic happens and reduces the group I.Q. to that of pond scum.)
Why do people take dangerous drugs? (Because they can be fun.)
Why does justin beiber have an audience? (I'm thinking it involves some kinda voodoo mind control.)
Why is horror not scary anymore? (Because you are desencitised to it, and have probably seen so much of it that you can pretty much tell what's going to happen next.)
Why do people watch the jeremy kyle show, why why why? (Because it's like a train wreck, you don't want to look but you just can't help the morbid curiosity of it, that and to see the horrendous over acting.)

Many things confuse me and many others about society. Sometimes, there may not be a logical answer. (Don't worry about it. Logic is over rated anyway.)
There ya go mate sorted :D
 

Zantos

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JanatUrlich said:
What makes you think that every girl in a club wants to get with a guy? A lot of the time, a group of girls on a night out together will literally just be having a girls night out. We're socialising with each other, not with guys like you.

We don't have to dance with guys to have fun. I can't believe you're that stupid.
That last sentence shows you have an amazing amount of faith in humanity. I tip my hat to you.

OT: Not everyone is in a club to pick up girls. Hell, I'm a guy and when I go to a club it's so can go out with friends and have a few drinks. If I want to meet new people I do it in less noisy environments. Plenty of guys do it, you're just singling out the girls because they're the ones turning you down.
 

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shitoutonme said:
THE PROBLEM:

Did you seriously take 2 hours to get ready to go out with a couple of your girls just to sit/stand in the corner all night and do nothing? I?ve been visiting a new club every weekend (sometimes 2 clubs if I decide to go out both Friday and Saturday night) for the past several weeks, and practically half, if not more, of the girls in each one of them were just sitting and standing around. See, that wouldn?t even be a problem if they were simply waiting for some guys to ask them for a dance, but that?s the thing: you can barely even get them to talk to you, much less dance. It?s like half of these girls are antisocial or something. But what?s the point of dressing up and going to a club ? maybe even paying to get in - if you?re not going to mingle and participate in the main event, which is usually dancing? I don?t get it.

And don?t think I?m just butthurt because some ladies wouldn?t dance with me; a bunch of other guys were trying to talk to these girls and dance with them but ended up dancing solo or leaning up against the wall somewhere. It almost makes me think these girls go to the club just to reject guys as an ego booster. I really can?t think of another reason for that crap, but hey, if there is another reason, answer this question: The fuck?s wrong with these ladies?
I'm gonna run with they don't want to be bothered while they're out?

I mean come now, not EVERYONE in a club is looking to meet strangers, nor dance. I go out a lot with zero intention of hooking up with some random broad, beautiful or not. I do admittedly dance but little. When I'm in a club it's likely because I'm with friends who want to be there and I'm sating them. I prefer pubs/bars myself, I like being able to talk.

Anyway, leave them to it, if they're shooting you down then that's fine, it's their prerogative to do so. I can't help but feel it's good odds on you just not being anywhere near as smooth as you think you are though, I've never had a problem getting people to talk with me, club or no.
 

CruxisCalling

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I hate to dance and I'm not the social type, so should I just be banned from clubs? Should there be some type of admittance test before females can enter, based on our willingness to dance with random guys that walk up to us?

I go to clubs to get out of my apartment, not specifically because I want to dance. I want the atmosphere, the music, the drinks, and to watch drunks make fools of themselves. Excuse me if I'm breaking some unspoken rule that once I enter a club I instantly have to interact with the first guy that asks.

And honestly, if some random guy comes across as offended that I don't want to dance with him, then I made the right choice in saying no. Don't act like a 5 year old.
 

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Akyho said:
Thing is......I danced the worse moves you can...the funky chicken was used!!
Because I know I'm an awful dancer, my standard tactic is to copy the worst dancer I can see, that, or lately its gettin my mates to do the inbetweeners dance with me.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1ntVyNrxLTo&feature=related oh yes!!
 

JasonKaotic

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thaluikhain said:
"Wrong with them"? Um, people are allowed to go to clubs and not have to dance with guys, you know.
He means there's no need for girls to spend hours trying to look good when they're not trying to impress anyone.
 

Mallefunction

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As a woman, I can say it's partially a "look, but don't touch" tease for men, but moreso out of a desire to impress their friends. Women dress up for other women. We compare each other and judge. I'm sure men do the same, but instead of make-up and heels, it's muscles and hair or some other shit.
 

Harla

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As an early twenties female who regularly goes out to clubs:

I can't talk. I'm virtually a mute, but I can whisper a little, barely. You'd be surprised what passes in a club scene though... you take the effort to whisper close in a guy's ear, and he thinks you're doing it to flirt, not that you actually -have- to, generally speaking. Most of the rest you can do with the right smile, eyes and body language.

However, I a lot of the time go to enjoy the atmosphere and vibe a little... this means that sometimes, I'm not interested in being appraoched by anyone, and if someone does, I'll brush them off wihtout saying anything (because, as I mentioned above... if I took the effort to say something, it would seem like I was flirting, or being coy, no matter what I actually said). It makes some people think I'm horribly rude, but that's the alternative.

Sometimes, when I am interested in other people, I'm not looking for a guy. I might be in the market for a nice looking convincable girl that night, so again, a boy would receive an immediate brush off.

When I am after a guy, it's only ever for one reason, and dancing is not it. We might dance, but that's just foreplay. I'll pick the guy I want, and ignore guys I'm not interested in... if I don't look at you, and I don't feel like you're what I need that night, then there's pretty much nothing you're going to be able to do to change my mind. It's that simple, unfortunately.

So, despite my disadvantage, I don't actually have any confidence issues: I know that I'm very easy on the eyes for most people who are interested in females, and I know I'm a good mover... and I know that if I get to the point with somenoe where I'm undressed enough that they're going to be able to see the scarring on my neck, then I'll already have made sure they're not going to be put off by it, or else they won't see it.

So, all told, chances of me being intersted in what you have to say if you, as guy interested in dancing, appraoch me in a club? Very slim. I'm there for my own reasons, and I'll work out long before you talk to me, whether you feature in them.

I am just one person though, and the point of the mini-rant is that everyone else is just one person as well... Ech different and each with their own resons, wants or needs. There is no "girls are" "women want" or "all guys think", and anyone who pretends there is, or thinks there is, is deluding themselves.

-Harla
 

belleofthelibrary

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As a woman who goes to clubs, I have occasionally committed these sins. I pretty up because pictures of a night out live on facebook, and my friends do the same. I personally wouldn't like to go out anywhere deliberately looking bad - it's fairly conventional even if you're not intending to use your appearance to lure a mate. It'd be unusual not to, and it's nice to look good especially if you don't go out much.

As for sitting alone, sometimes you get seperated from the people you're with. Sometimes you get tired from dancing and need a rest. Sometimes the atmosphere isn't right for dancing (not busy enough yet for example). Sometimes you're not drunk enough to dance yet. Sometimes you're too drunk to dance anymore. Sometimes you're waiting to get over inhibitions or whatnot.

I don't look to be picked up at clubs, as with all the noise I'm not going to meet anyone I like because I won't be able to talk to to determine whether I like them. So that only leaves physical connections, and I only needed to one instance of being asked to dance and subsequently felt up to know to never do it again. With the lack of conversation, how am I to know that isn't your intention?

Not all club nights are good, if it's a bad one the mood just might not be there for "the main event". I think your probably reading a little too much into some girls who probably didn't notice you and don't get why you're interrupting their rest break/trying to locate their mates/trying not to puke.
 

CruxisCalling

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JasonKaotic said:
thaluikhain said:
"Wrong with them"? Um, people are allowed to go to clubs and not have to dance with guys, you know.
He means there's no need for girls to spend hours trying to look good when they're not trying to impress anyone.
How do you know they took hours to get ready? Unless he was standing outside their window watching them get dressed and do their hair before following them to the club and asking them to dance, he really doesn't have any right to say that they did anything beyond run a brush through their hair and put on some lipstick. 5 minutes, done. The idea that every female has to start getting ready 3 hours in advance is insane.
 

TheSmokingFox

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JanatUrlich said:
What makes you think that every girl in a club wants to get with a guy? A lot of the time, a group of girls on a night out together will literally just be having a girls night out. We're socialising with each other, not with guys like you.

We don't have to dance with guys to have fun. I can't believe you're that stupid.
I'm sorry, this wasn't an attempt to be sexist, I (and i believe generally people) go to clubs to do something other than what they would do anyway, like dance, meet people and have a good time. These VERY SPECIFIC individuals (which are women) are not doing that. we hit on girls because thats what we are there to do and we assume that if you are at a club to then you are at least semi-interesting in talking to people you don't know and enjoying that. Assuming we believe that girls can only have fun by dancing makes you stupid, we are simply saying that at a club is it not fun/apropriate to try and dance with someone you don't know to have a good time.

We also go on guys nights out, we call them nights out. in which standing in a corner doing nothing is not a part of. please stop being so self-righteous and rude about things you clearly misunderstand.

Meeting new people and enjoying something done with them is good right? and is kind of the point in being in a public place designed for socializing I.E clubs, pubs, bars etc etc. Just because you are out with your friends doesn't mean you should avoid other people, if this is what you are going to do, don't go to a f*cking NIGHT CLUB!