TheKruzdawg said:
trooper6 said:
Really this girlfriend seems annoying.
Rather than try to convince her to like video game music, I think she has much larger problems that she needs to address. Were she in one of my classes, then we could discuss in great length her attitudes. But since I don't know her in person, that isn't going to happen.
So, rather than offering video game soundtracks I offer instead three academic articles she might want to read:
Janet Levy, "Covert and Casual Values in Recent Writings about Music" Journal of Musicology, Vol 1 No 1, Winter 1987
Robert Fink, "Elvis Everywhere: Musicology and Popular Music Studies at the Twilight of the Canon" American Music Vol 16 No 2, Summer 1998
Bethany Bryson, "'Anything but Heavy Metal: Symbolic Exclusion and Musical Dislikes" American Sociological Review, Vol 61 No 5, Oct 1996
All three articles are available through JSTOR if your friend's girlfriend has access to it.
But if she is determined to fixate on the music of German nationalism, there isn't much you can do about it.
Note: I say this as a Professor of Musicology
With all due respect, I don't think there is anything inherently wrong with not liking a particular style of music, nor is there is problem with listening almost solely to music you find enjoyable. I rarely, if ever, listen to rap music and country music, but I will give it a chance now and then if a friend recommends it. It seems that she has given music featured in video games a listen on a few different occasions and has decided she hasn't liked anything she has heard yet. We can't and shouldn't fault her for the things she finds appealing. It's a very subjective subject and no amount of force will cause her to change her mind and suddenly like it.
If she's willing to give anything listed in this thread a listen, good for her. She's showing a willingness to be open minded and at least give it a try. If it just turns out that she doesn't find any of it appealing, then there isn't anything we can do about it. If she takes to bashing it, then I could see there being a problem with her reaction or attitude.
There issue is not that she doesn't like it (though I'll come back to that in a second). Everyone has different tastes. But that she says, to quote the OP: "She thought videogame music isn't sophisticated enough to match old classical music, and I'm sure most people would say not much of any other music is."
The issue is "sophisticated enough." This is where Janet Levy's "Covert and Casual Values" is useful. When people say "sophisticated" or "complicated" they mean sophisticated or complicated harmonically. They are using as a universal value to judge all music one criteria--developmental harmonic complexity--which was primarily the concern of a group German composers from 1750-1900. The judgement then says, French classical music isn't as good because its harmony isn't sophisticated enough. And of course popular music or film music can't be as good because its harmony isn't sophisticated enough.
But there are musical values other than complicated harmony. The blues, as a genre, uses only 3 chords. That's it. By the values that says Beethoven is the best composer ever, that this girlfriend seems to hold, no blues ever can be good music. The Blues isn't interested in complex harmony. It is interested in complex timbre. Jazz is interested in complex improvisation. There are genres interested in complex rhythm. And others interested in complex melody or complex ornamentation. Still others value simplicity rather than complexity.
I like art music, but I don't dismiss other music from being good because it doesn't match the values of art music.
This is like listening to a folk singer and saying that folk singer sucks because they don't sing like an opera singer. No duh, the folk singer isn't trying to sing like an opera singer.
Now on to the second issue. Sure, listen to the music you like. But (and this is were "Anything but Heavy Metal" is useful) genres often carry meaning beyond their sounds.
On the first day of my classes, as a way to illustrate this, I often ask my students "What kind of music do you like?" I often hear, "I like all music, but not country." Of course, when I press them, it turns out that a) they don't actually like all music and b) they don't really know anything about country music--they wouldn't know Patsy Cline from Taylor Swift. With further questioning, these kids often like folk music...or they say they do. They often say they like the blues as well, maybe even bluegrass. I then play some songs in these different genres...that are the exact same song, often sounding the same as well (Maybe "John Henry"). What's the difference if it isn't the sound? When we talk about it, it turns out, most of the time, its because they associate country with conservatism and a part of the country they don't like and they don't want anyone to think they are conservative. In short, they want people to think of them a certain way, so they say, "I don't like country."
Similarly, I point out that never, in all my years of teaching, has any student ever said to me, "I like all music, but not classical."--even though I'm pretty sure there are many students in class who don't like classical music. But there is anxiety that if you *say* you don't like classical music, people will think you are uncultured. On the flipside, people who say things like "I like classical music and don't like any popular music," tend to be broadcasting a lot more than just their musical taste.