What was your reaction when...

[Bobipine]

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Fuck it; yay.
How old are you, by the way?

Now 21.
For those stories, 17 (and a half) the first one and 18 (and three quarters) for the second one.

So I'm still fairly young in a way, I guess nothing really is set in stone on the subject.
Oh, and you made me realize I made a typo, I'll fix that (well, the one I saw).

 

[Bruin]

Well, there you bloody go then.
Asexual. No fucking to be done by me. So no dang babies.

You said a lot and you made a lot of sense and so on so forth. But this is all I really have anything to say about.
So, my bad for not giving your full post the proper respect it deserves, I guess.

Not like it's a huge loss, though. I'd probably end up repeating myself a lot.
Same to you, curty. I've kind of hit that "time to pass out" stage of drunkenness so I am having a little difficulty with the information passing with the letters.

I'm delirious with exhaustion so I'm pretty much spent on literary competency here.

 

[curty129]

It seems he was just stating that people don't tend to like 'parasites', and that they'd probably flame you for it. He wasn't attacking you; look how fucking cheery he is.

Yep, that's me, super cheery all the time. XD

Actually, it takes a lot to make me feel much of anything emotionally, but I try to be positive, even if it doesn't always work.

Sorry for posting so much in your thread. I'm procrastinating and having fun. And I can't be arsed to edit my posts anymore. And I'm not sure if it notifies you if I just slide it in there. But I bet you wouldn't need to be notified if I did such a thing ;D

Just incase: don't think yourself to be unique in that aspect. It appears to be that quite a few people are very unemotional. It's still too soon to judge, but don't take on that aspect of yourself as a positive thing, in any way. You want to rid yourself of it as soon as possible, if it's possible to do so at all. I know you don't have a solution (neither do I), so just do what you can.

I'd also say that I possibly have difficulty in caring/feeling emotion. But don't you dare admit it until you're certain.

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Fuck it; yay.
How old are you, by the way?

Now 21.
For those stories, 17 (and a half) the first one and 18 (and three quarters) for the second one.

So I'm still fairly young in a way, I guess nothing really is set in stone on the subject.
Oh, and you made me realize I made a typo, I'll fix that (well, the one I saw).

There are many typos in your post: spellcheck it. As for a 21 year old, it seems like you should be a little more wise - At that age, you've had the potential to gain more wisdom than it appears you've acquired. I think I'm just warning you.

Edit: My posts are losing clarity, and I should be asleep, so goodnight.

 

[Dags90]

I was a mess of hormones (17) and it felt amazing. We still talk and things are endlessly complicated between us. He's a bit of an old fashioned romantic, and every time I've just about said "It'll never work between us" he says or does something that makes me think "maybe". It's absolutely maddening.

 

[MasterOfWorlds]

It seems he was just stating that people don't tend to like 'parasites', and that they'd probably flame you for it. He wasn't attacking you; look how fucking cheery he is.

Yep, that's me, super cheery all the time. XD

Actually, it takes a lot to make me feel much of anything emotionally, but I try to be positive, even if it doesn't always work.

Sorry for posting so much in your thread. I'm procrastinating and having fun. And I can't be arsed to edit my posts anymore. And I'm not sure if it notifies you if I just slide it in there. But I bet you wouldn't need to be notified if I did such a thing ;D

Just incase: don't think yourself to be unique in that aspect. It appears to be that quite a few people are very unemotional. It's still too soon to judge, but don't take on that aspect of yourself as a positive thing, in any way. You want to rid yourself of it as soon as possible, if it's possible to do so at all. I know you don't have a solution (neither do I), so just do what you can.

I'd also say that I possibly have difficulty in caring/feeling emotion. But don't you dare admit it until you're certain.

I actually used to be a lot worse, but I've gotten better now. Thanks to my current gf and another close female friend of mine actually. It's getting better, although feeling and expressing are two different things. I'm still no good at expressing emotions well.

 

[MasterOfWorlds]

I was a mess of hormones (17) and it felt amazing. We still talk and things are endlessly complicated between us. He's a bit of an old fashioned romantic, and every time I've just about said "It'll never work between us" he says or does something that makes me think "maybe". It's absolutely maddening.

I had a relationship that was a little like that with a female friend of mine only I was the guy and I'd do something every so often that would make her have feelings for me, which she would tell me about after they had passed to make me feel like a total moron for not seeing it when it was there. We're still friends somehow. XD

 

[curty129]

It seems he was just stating that people don't tend to like 'parasites', and that they'd probably flame you for it. He wasn't attacking you; look how fucking cheery he is.

Yep, that's me, super cheery all the time. XD

Actually, it takes a lot to make me feel much of anything emotionally, but I try to be positive, even if it doesn't always work.

Sorry for posting so much in your thread. I'm procrastinating and having fun. And I can't be arsed to edit my posts anymore. And I'm not sure if it notifies you if I just slide it in there. But I bet you wouldn't need to be notified if I did such a thing ;D

Just incase: don't think yourself to be unique in that aspect. It appears to be that quite a few people are very unemotional. It's still too soon to judge, but don't take on that aspect of yourself as a positive thing, in any way. You want to rid yourself of it as soon as possible, if it's possible to do so at all. I know you don't have a solution (neither do I), so just do what you can.

I'd also say that I possibly have difficulty in caring/feeling emotion. But don't you dare admit it until you're certain.

I actually used to be a lot worse, but I've gotten better now. Thanks to my current gf and another close female friend of mine actually. It's getting better, although feeling and expressing are two different things. I'm still no good at expressing emotions well.

Sigh.. No sleep for me.

Can you give me some general tips? (There're a lot of obvious comments/tips/statements, but include them anyway, if your friend or GF gave you the tip) I'd like to hear what women have to say towards your situation. It may help me.

Edit: If you stop using 'XD', it'll make your posts look a little more refined and in turn, people will be more likely to respect what you have to say. If you're bothered.

It never felt real until my last girlfriend said it.

At least I knew she meant it. Too bad it didn't lasted very long.

I bet you didn't afraid of anything while the relationship lasted.

they would obviously be joking, so i would laugh and say "nice one"

Get out.

 

[Random Argument Man]

It never felt real until my last girlfriend said it.

At least I knew she meant it. Too bad it didn't lasted very long.

 

[Ashcrexl]

they would obviously be joking, so i would laugh and say "nice one"

 

[MasterOfWorlds]

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It's not so much tips as to what to do, but simply someone giving you a reason to care. Both my gf and my good friend had a lot of things going on in their lives that I helped them through. Because of that, I think it helped me to open up a bit. Not sure if that helps, but that's how it helped me.

 

[Julianking93]

Well, the first time it was said to me was by my best friend in middle school.

So, pretty good. I loved them very much too so I would just tell them that all the time. It actually ended up being my first good relationship with someone, which was one of the best experiences in my life.

Then, a year later, they moved ;~;

 

[CrustyOatmeal]

a few of my frends have told me they love me (as frends) but im just that kind of guy. i give hugs to most everybody i know and im a pretty frendly guy straight up so people tend to feel comfortable around me

this thread reminded me of a saying i heard (talking about love and all) somewhere that is completely true/ funny

"women can fake orgasms but men can fake love"

 

[MasterOfWorlds]

'You can say that all you want. I'm still not going to untie you.'

I loled. Hard.

 

[curty129]

'You can say that all you want. I'm still not going to untie you.'

I loled. Hard.

Same here. It makes me envy you greatly. All your posts seem rather witty.

As for you, MOW; I see. Thanks. It did help. Ever so slightly.

 

[Yureina]

I've not known how to respond. It is... difficult for me to feel "love" as an emotion. When it does happen, there is no question of it, but... it is rare.

 

[BehattedWanderer]

Elation. Turns out, it's an amazing feeling. And saying it back, also amazing.

 

[feeback06]

"uh...love you too."

I NEVER know what else to say, which is a big problem -_-

 

[hopeneverdies]

There are two girls who say that a lot to me. I can't tell if they're trying to mess with my head or legitimately flirting. Although one was sort of like a stalker to me.