Why am i cursed with such women?
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I'm not that picky really. Attractive enough to get aroused by, smart enough to have a decent indepth conversation with and not crazy that she'll go off the deep end at sarcasm.
I couldn't even get that far half the time.Ghadente said:just remember that its all your fault and you are always wrong
This for me too. Hell, I even quite fancied my flatmate's friend who's visiting but I was too bloody nervous to bother making a move, so yeah, stuck in 'friendship valley' again...pantsoffdanceoff said:
EDIT: Turns out she's going home today anyway, so that sucks even worse...
hmmm....My manufacturer must have been into making high experimental concept/prototype models. I'm extremely adventurous, Highly erudite, very docile, and sweet nature ( not to " lost in my little world" levels, but very passive, and able to ... you know, look at things from all perspectives rather than that womanly impulse....) I PERSONALLY think I'm quite average in appearance... but I keep fit " though NOT obsessed with working out, just active and alot of martial arts, and sparing" ..I HATE jewelry, most of all expensive types ( whats the point really?) I hate shopping for clothes..if I DO shop, I'm in ..get what I need, and out UNLESS its a game, comic, or toy store... and I encourage you to look at other girls, because chances are I am too..Kukul said:
I like to think that.. I think like one of the guys, but with a feminine, heavy maternal side.
And I'm not picky.
Though, I'm married and not on the market, I do want to state that not all of us are useless, lost in our own issues, or lack of a spine, and common since.... and to win me over, ALL you would need is a good heart, and a sharp mind, everything else is a moot point.
My problem is that I can't find a girl who isn't available, either emotionally or they're already going out with some guy.
From what some people have told me, it all boils down to this:
25% - already in a relationship
25% - don't want a relationship
35% - some imperfection gets in the way
15% - all for the taking
I don't agree with that, just what i've been told. I believe that relationships are when you get to know someone and like them for who they are (and therefore look over imperfections).
These two mindsets are the two main ones that I find in any person, either they're in for a relationship for the hell of it, or they're in to find true love. If you're trying for one, but using techniques for the other, it's going to lead nowhere.
25% - already in a relationship
25% - don't want a relationship
35% - some imperfection gets in the way
15% - all for the taking
I don't agree with that, just what i've been told. I believe that relationships are when you get to know someone and like them for who they are (and therefore look over imperfections).
These two mindsets are the two main ones that I find in any person, either they're in for a relationship for the hell of it, or they're in to find true love. If you're trying for one, but using techniques for the other, it's going to lead nowhere.
This isn't as uncommon as a lot of repliers are making out. Although I've only really encountered this problem sporadically, it's definately out there. My current perspective (feel free to disagree) is that if somebody is really interested in you, they'll hide their crazy side untill it's been long enough for you to understand it or not care. Funnily enough, though, normally if you're really interested in somebody, you wouldn't care from day one...it's one of those things. People talk about "chemistry" and "the one" which aren't really ideas I like very much, but there's definately something to be said for not trying for something serious with every potential opportunity.
There was this one girl who i got on great with and the only reason she wouldn't date me was because her last 2 exes were nut jobs and not exactly child friendly. So now she thinks the entire male species will do the same.hungoverbear said:
And that dear boy is the perfect woman. For the real deal cut one of the 3 features.jasoncyrus said:
Plus if she is clinicly mad she just need to take her pills. ;D
okay lets scratch that.. lets call it creepy uncle and or cousin Gomer issueshungoverbear said: