Why are men attracted to lesbians?
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Some of us just don't like the look of the male form. Porn is not usually about what we want and more what looks best to us. I know many a female that does the name with Male gay porn. Still I do agree with the men who want relation ships with gay women, that is something i don't understand.
This comic sums it up http://www.smbc-comics.com/index.php?db=comics&id=1023 (it's in link form because I have yet to figure u how to get the proper address for images with an iPad)
I honestly think some dudes are just too weirded out by a penis on the screen so they stick to the chick stuff.
Well, considering the popularity of yaoi, I'd say yes.IllumInaTIma said:
However, when it comes to porn, a lot of straight women watch porn meant for gay men because they find heterosexual porn and how women are depicted in them unappealing, or so I hear, anyway.
Apparently there is a similar fetish there. Not finding gay men attractive, but of finding some bizarre stylised and sexualised version of gay men attractive, in the same way that male fantasies of lesbians aren't much like the real thing.IllumInaTIma said:
There are gay men who are more than a little annoyed about this.
Frankly I have never understood it. But like I said I'm the forever alone type so I don't "get" a lot of this kind of thing.
For me, at least, it's the excess of womanly bits plus the lack of manly bits. I don't enjoy seeing naked men, but do enjoy seeing naked women.
Two or more naked women at once? I'm down for that. Doing things of a sexual nature to one another? Well, I certainly won't be stopping them.
Because that happens far, far too often.
Two or more naked women at once? I'm down for that. Doing things of a sexual nature to one another? Well, I certainly won't be stopping them.
Oh, don't forget the scrotal close-up.TwiZtah said:
Because that happens far, far too often.
I've always sort of wondered the same thing.
Lesbian porn? Sure, I can see why guys watch that, for all the reasons posted here. Not really big on it myself, but I'm not a big porn watcher either.
Real lesbians? Meh, I just don't get it. I remember one of my co-workers once saying, "There is nothing more attractive than two girls kissing. I was just walking down the street and I saw two women holding hands. I watched them the whole time I could in case they kissed." And this got me thinking about I went once to my friend's housewarming party. She happens to be a lesbian, and lives with her partner. On an endtable in their living room is a picture of them kissing on their wedding day. Both women are reasonably attractive, but was I really supposed to find this picture erotic?
Lesbian porn? Sure, I can see why guys watch that, for all the reasons posted here. Not really big on it myself, but I'm not a big porn watcher either.
Real lesbians? Meh, I just don't get it. I remember one of my co-workers once saying, "There is nothing more attractive than two girls kissing. I was just walking down the street and I saw two women holding hands. I watched them the whole time I could in case they kissed." And this got me thinking about I went once to my friend's housewarming party. She happens to be a lesbian, and lives with her partner. On an endtable in their living room is a picture of them kissing on their wedding day. Both women are reasonably attractive, but was I really supposed to find this picture erotic?
Ah, but what if Hitler WAS an abusive lesbian?Evil Smurf said:
That's an interesting Alternate History concept... though I suppose, given that Hitler was already known to be abusive in his relationships with women, I guess it's just "what if Hitler was a lesbian". Which still works!
I'd imagine it's because the fantasy is that both of those ladies would want you at the same time as each other. Double the chance to procreate, no risk of upsetting and losing one of the two mates, and no travel time between encounters. Bonus: one can cook meat while the other one... cooks the meat, if you know what I mean.
And I'd say that you're not attracted to this because you have the higher mental functions to rationalize "But they're inherently not into what I'm offering, why waste time?" and that can actually trump simple animal instinct.
And I'd say that you're not attracted to this because you have the higher mental functions to rationalize "But they're inherently not into what I'm offering, why waste time?" and that can actually trump simple animal instinct.
Like it's been said, Some men see it as a conquest to turn a lesbian to bisexual or straight, or hopes of "joining in" on a threesome.
Same as how some gay people I know fantasize about turning a cute straight guy, gay or bi.
Same as how some gay people I know fantasize about turning a cute straight guy, gay or bi.
http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_ypJnDZ0QDkY/SsErrGKsjFI/AAAAAAAAFjE/ApUWN5XEKHA/s400/hit.jpgHellbirdIV said:
I've had enough internet for the day. I don't want to see this movie.
Well then, Professor James. All you now need to do is enter the stage name of the actresses into Google and you're almost statistically certain to see your would be lesbians wrangling all the sweaty man flesh that you could ever possibly wish to see being wrangled by a woman. It really doesn't matter what their sexual preference is. They're sexual mercenaries, and pornography is all about selling outlandish sexual fantasies. It's not like heterosexual men are lining up around the block to watch realistic depictions of lesbian sex.Professor James said:
In fact, there is only one maligned group of people queuing up for grim, grounded & realistic depictions of sex.
Boring people.
Because in standard porn, we have to deal with a guy and his giant cock flopping about. With lesbian porn...no man to ruin the mood. The last thing I want to hear while fapping is some dude moaning loudly with a shot of his ass taking up most of the screen...
When you're a man making passionate love to a "lesbian" and she comes like a howler monkey it's like you're NTRing an entire sexual orientation.
It makes you feel incredibly powerful
And then theres the whole aesthetic level thing.
But then again, I have just about every sexual fetish known to man, so I can understand OPs confusion. however, like I always say in these threads
>Not liking lesbians
>Not wanting to prove how great your dick is by turning a lesbian into a cock fiend
>You probably don't like preop transvestites or traps with their delicious boy pussies either
>What are you? Gay or something?
The idea of someone narrowing their sexual experiences baffles me; I know girls who have never ridden a dick in their lives, and they're just like "I don't want it". But you've never tried it! "Still, I don't want it, men are different". But you don't know how we're different!
It really just seems like a wall to me, to stop yourself from getting hurt.
To be honest, I've only ever been able to convince one lesbian, and she wasn't big on penetration so... she still had her hymen... It ended just as it started unfortunately. Still... I chase that dream of turning a lesbian.
So, there's that and the aesthetics of two women pleasuring each other. I tend to be very judgemental when it comes to porn though.
It makes you feel incredibly powerful
And then theres the whole aesthetic level thing.
But then again, I have just about every sexual fetish known to man, so I can understand OPs confusion. however, like I always say in these threads
>Not liking lesbians
>Not wanting to prove how great your dick is by turning a lesbian into a cock fiend
>You probably don't like preop transvestites or traps with their delicious boy pussies either
>What are you? Gay or something?
The idea of someone narrowing their sexual experiences baffles me; I know girls who have never ridden a dick in their lives, and they're just like "I don't want it". But you've never tried it! "Still, I don't want it, men are different". But you don't know how we're different!
It really just seems like a wall to me, to stop yourself from getting hurt.
To be honest, I've only ever been able to convince one lesbian, and she wasn't big on penetration so... she still had her hymen... It ended just as it started unfortunately. Still... I chase that dream of turning a lesbian.
So, there's that and the aesthetics of two women pleasuring each other. I tend to be very judgemental when it comes to porn though.
