sinclose said:
KitsunetheFox said:
sinclose said:
KitsunetheFox said:
I envy you.
I've grown to bloody loathe my peers and despise my 13 loooong years of schooling. You should have an idea what kind of memories I hold of those days... *sigh*...
I'm not saying that my life at school is perfect. Many times my intelligence is a curse (e.g. People who expect me to do all the work, people who pick on me for being attentive), as well as the fact that being one of the shortest people in the year (not just shortest boy, most of the girls are taller than me as well) brings its own form of punishment.
These are just the good parts, and they will be the parts that I remember.
I believe it was Watchmen who said that the past will always looks brighter to us in the future, because we'll choose to remember the best parts to make the dark atrocities of the present go away for a little while.
My view on the topic is that yes, YOU are the one who chooses what you remember from the past. But seriously, wouldn't you easily remember stronger memories? I've got many strong memories of tough times at school(let me point out that I'm NOT an academic drop-out), to the point that I've decided to scrap my memories of those years as much as possible cause I feel they drag me down. Also, I've got the feeling I'll be needlessly extra-cautious at university...
Maybe, but I make the good parts my stronger memories. Conscious choice may be all that we humans truly have, so we might as well honor it and use it to make life better for us. If you choose to throw away your memories then that is your choice, but life always comes with good and bad, if you don't remember one, then you have nothing to compare with the other.
If you see only the good stuff, then there are no surprises in life, nothing makes you happy.
If you see only the bad stuff, then there is nothing left that can hurt you, nothing makes you sad.
While the second option may sound better, it is the path of the clinically insane. So our choices are:
1) Insanity. Live in our own little bubble to keep out the pain, and strike out at anyone who tries to pop it.
2) Depression. Be the people who try to pop the little bubbles around them.
3) Mix it up. Take good as it comes and when it gets bad, just deal with it or change it. Life may not be perfect, but it's at least better than a life of insanity or depression.
The way we live our lives is our choice. It's not about making the right choice or the wrong choice. It's just about choosing.