It's an interesting notion. It certainly seems to ground the characters a bit, making them seem more real and tangible, especially those with extraordinary backstories. Superman would seem even more impossible if he didn't have Lois Lane. If instead, he was hooked up with some super-powerful woman from beyond the stars and they lived in his ice cave together he'd be all the worse for it. On the other hand, Hawkgirl and John Stewart work because his backstory grounds him already.Lightknight said:Great list.Gorrath said:She-Hulk dated Wyatt Wingfoot and James Jameson; Wonder Woman and Trevor Barnes; Astra dated a normal guy who broke up with her because he had an inferiority complex (irony!); Wonder Girl and Terry Long; Batgirl and Jason Bard; Black Canary and Larry Lance; Kitty Pryde and her various normal boyfriends; Mrs. Marvel and Michael Barnett; Dani Moonstar and some dude I can't remember; Spidergirl had a few regular joes, Starfire (is, was?) dating a normal guy in her current run, America Chavez and Batwoman are both dating normal women, if that counts?JimB said:This is just an off-the-top-of-my-head, anecdotal list rather than a comprehensive, studied one, but: Superman and Lois Lane; Superman and Lana Lang; Superman and Lori Lemaris; Spider-Man and Gwen Stacy; Spider-Man and Mary Jane Watson; Superior Spider-Man and Anna Marconi; Hal Jordan and Carol Ferris (when Carol Ferris is not Star Sapphire); Thor and Jane Foster; Captain America and Peggy Carter; Iron Man and Pepper Potts (when Pepper Potts is not piloting an Iron Man suit of her own); Kyle Rayner and the origin of the "women in fridges" meme; the Flash and Iris West; Daredevil and Karen Allen; Daredevil and the Black Widow; Spider-Man 2099 and whoever his girlfriend is lately, I forget her name; Miles Morales Spider-Man and Kate Bishop; Professor X and Moira MacTaggert or however you spell her last name; the Thing and his girlfriend, the blind sculptor, I want to say her name is Alicia...
Hm. That's all I can think of without sitting down with my comic collection. Good catches on Doctor Manhattan/Silk Specter and Hulk/Betsy Ross, though.
I'm sure I could come up with more if I thought about it. I've no doubt it happens less than with male heroes but it's not exactly rare for a female hero to date a normal guy, especially if we're counting people like Star Sapphire, Pepper Pots and even Black Widow as "normal" people.
Perhaps this story mechanic is common for the same reason we have all these histories of princes and princesses pursuing normal people? It's more relatable than a story about two non-humans.
In some cases, having a "regular" human partner doesn't much help if said "normal" human is some extraordinary person themselves. I mean, Black Widow hardly grounds Daredevil since he's a street level hero and she's on the friggin' Avengers. But they make sense as a couple in the same way celebrity couples make sense; they have a lot in common based on shared, extraordinary experiences. So I suppose the relatability factor really depends on how things are written and why the characters are together.
In any case, I made that list off the top of my head and I'm not even a huge comics fan, just a casual who likes them a bit. Mostly I wrote it out because the idea that "female superheroes don't date normal men" appears to be an unsupported premise. If the premise is unsupported, you're likely to get a bunch of unsupportable/false conclusions based on it. If pairing a woman superhero with a weaker man is a no-no, someone seems to have forgotten to tell the comic writers. I have a bit of a sense that people are accepting the premise as true without actually looking to see if it is. If my list is more exhaustive than I think it is, they might still have a point but I'd be damn well surprised if I came anywhere close to being exhaustive.