Bernzz said:
You could make, for example, dead baby jokes with friends and they'd all laugh. Would you make those jokes with a random stranger, who may get offended by them? You wouldn't.
That's quite an assumption! Recently I went onto a stage and deliberately did exactly this with the intent of polarising the audience. It worked. Half of them loved it and the other half booed and told me to get off. Then they started fighting with each other. I couldn't have asked for a better response.
Bernzz said:
So even if his outburst wasn't an immature apeshit scenario, he still shouldn't have said it.
Arguably not, but then she shouldn't have touched him, it's not a floor manager's job to get "hands on" with the clientele. Also, put the incident in context with this article:
http://www.dailytelegraph.com.au/entertainment/sydney-confidential/sydney-girls-meet-their-teen-idol-justin-bieber-and-touch-his-hair-face/story-e6frewz0-1225858659362
Now imagine a conversation between the floor manager and her teenage daughter later on at home over "who got to touch Justin, and who's just got pictures up on her bedroom wall" and you might start to get an inkling about why this might be a sore point.
As I was discussing earlier, people in the media spotlight as much as Justin have everything blown out of proportion - both good and bad. This guy is used to millions of people placing
extreme importance on the idea of touching him, that's some pretty serious objectification there that absolutely dwarfs what most supposedly objectified pornstars experience, just for example. Whether people want to touch him because they adore him, or want to brag about "I touched Justin" to their friends, or dream about touching their fist into his face because they don't like him, what's happening right now to Justin is he's becoming a guy who is very accustomed to everyone wanting a piece of him (positive or negative). This happens to anyone even mildly famous but to someone as famous as Justin it means you have to deal with multiple people every single day who all have an agenda for you that involves their own ego and their own perception of who you are, based purely on media, peer-pressure hate/love and hearsay. Suddenly, you don't know who to trust, you don't know whether people's actions toward you are motivated by the normal sort of things that they are, or because of their media-dictated perceptions of you. That kind of thing causes erratic bevaiour in
everybody who experiences it at its most intense level. Michael Jackson, Britney Spears, Madonna, Elvis Presley, The Beatles and many others have all done things which seemed batshit insane at the time when looking at it from the outside through the tabloid lens. If this forum was active in 1963 we'd be having Beatles hate threads, Beatles why-all-the-hate threads, and condemnations about everything they did, from arguing with each other in interviews, to their ridiculous (for the time) dress sense and hair (think about how Lady Gaga is perceived now, that's how The Beatles were perceived back then), and how their music is just a bunch of screaming nonsense aimed at teenage girls. Look how we don't learn from history.