aPod said:
You got to be kidding me.
Nope, im serious like a heartattack.
aPod said:
You want to try and compare pedophilia with homosexuality? I don't think there is a decent homosexual person out there who would put up with such an analogy.
Frankly, I don't give a shit if any homosexual person finds it offensive, sexual preferences are all developed in the same way. The only difference between them is that sometimes the development takes a turn towards destructive or unfulfillable paths.
A paedophile can't help he or she is a paedophile anymore than a homosexual can help that he or she is a homosexual. That's just the facts, and it doesn't matter how "offensive" you or any homosexual or heterosexual person might find it to be, the facts stay the same.
So I didn't "try" to compare paedophilia wih homosexualit, I DID compare the two, and with very sound and unbiased logic to boot.
aPod said:
My political correctness only goes so far for people before I just have to tell them to bugger off and I have zero tolerance for pedophiles or people who get off on the sexual exploitation of children.
Yes, we all have our neurotic little quirks, and for intolerant people like yourself it's flat out impossible to try to relate to someone whose thoughts and feelings regard such abominable deeds as child molestation.
However, discussing a subject like this and base opinions and statements on neurotic quirks might not be the most intellectual thing to do.
aPod said:
Its all rainbows and butterfly's when we try to pat them on the back and say hey buddy you're just you and that's just how it is.
Far from it. There's no "rainbows and buterflies" involved at all. It's just sa in the extreme that some people have to suffer from such a destructive development of their sexual preferences. Becuase ultimately there's really nothing anyone can do o help them.
A society can't relieve child molesters of their responsibility and accountibility when they commit such heinous crimes, and there's really nothing to do to help paedophiles who struggle with their desires either.
So I don't know where you're getting the "rainbows and butterflies" from.
aPod said:
Then those guys go online and look for child porn to get off on, because we all know pron is harmless right, it's just a guy "relieving" some pressure.
Who ever said that child pornography is "harmless"? I sure didn't. If I fundamentally don't believe that a child can give consent to sex, then I sure as hell couldn't approve of the production of kiddie porn where real children are being exploited and molested now could I?
That being said, I find it to be utterly ridiculous the way certain countries outlaw CARTOONED pornography depicting children. Sure I might find it tasteless and repulsive, but the people depicted in such works are cartooned characters, not real children, which means that no real people are being harmed during the production of such works. Hence there is no excuse what so ever outlawing it.
aPod said:
Okay... but you know in doing so he is supporting the exploitation of that child and furthers the need for whoever is making that shit to make more. He is feeding into a disgusting sector of human behavior, desire and need.
Yes, and he should be held accountable for it. Regardless of the paedophiles unfortunate condition, it's not okay to let him off the hook and let him continue to support the creation of works where children are getting molested.
aPod said:
Yes i suppose then if he just keeps it in his own little world its fine isnt it. Yea. Oh wait, he went online to see if there were other people like him. Then wikipedia links him to that chat room full of pedophiles and they explain how you can go to a foreign country and act out your fantasies and not get caught. Have i not said anything that outrages you yet?
Nope, not in the slighest. And that's because I don't participate in discussions letting my feelings influence the way I reason and think about the topic at hand. You should try it yourself sometime, it might give you a more balanced perspective on things.
Yes it's perfectly fine to let paedophiles get in contact with other paedophiles online. Who knows? Maybe the ones who genuinely understands that their sexuality would ultimately hurt children can help eachother and support eachother through the difficulty of resisting the temptation to get child pornography or going abrouda and pay crime syndicates that protsutite underaged children.
The basic fault of your argument is that you automatically conclude that all paedophiles who interact online are ultimately going to share child pornograph or help eachother out to "score", when there's no evidence to suggest it.
Yes, certain people do, and unfortunately certain countries are ill equipped to enforce laws regarding prostituion and child molestation. But that still doesn't make it right to put a stop to the opportunity to communicate just because some paranoid, family valuemongers are afraid what it MIGHT lead to in isolated situations.
The very idea of having a free society rests on the notion that the majority of the people are upstanding and law abiding citizens, despite whatever political views, diseases, sexual preferences or anything else they might have.
Quite simply, you can't call a society "free" if you intend to actively "crack down" on a website whose main function is to be of an informative and encyclopaedic nature, just because SOME people have used it to acquire knowledge of how to buy sexual favors from children.
If we do that, then we might as well ban violent videogames because SOME people claim that they got inspired to murder real people because they played such videogames.
It's not very reasonable to censor and stop something that serves a beneficient purpose just because it is being misappropriated by certain individuals. Deal with the misappropriating individuals instead of trying to deal with what gives them the opportunity to commit crime. Otherwise, "liberty" and "freedom" will be completely worthless.
aPod said:
Life hasn't treated them fairly... what about my friend who opened up to me about her grandpa molesting her and breaking down in tears. Did life treat her fairly? Should i feel pity for the grandpa and let him know i understand he's just a guy with a perversion. That it's okay?
It's pointless to try and tell someone what they should "feel". What im trying to do here is making you THINK, and let your THOUGHT govern your actions and opinions.
Because ultimately, feelings are irrational and downright stupid, and letting your intellectual opinions get contaminated by a bunch of feelings is the equivalent of intellectual suicide.
So if we THINK about it for awhile, and just THINK that WHAT IF that grandpa you're refering to DIDN'T HAVE said perversion in the first place, but had a more healthy and non-destructive sexual preference, then yout friend wouldn' likely have gotten molested in the first place, right?
Granted, that the grandfather in question should be held accountable for his actions, and he's clearly proven that he lacks the strength of character to keep his destructive perversion under control, and not only broken the law but also let his urges inflict a severely tramatic experience on another individual. There's no doubt about that.
But reducing oneself to a frenzied and zealous mob mentality governed by pure emotion and sympathy for the victim isn't very reasonable either. It doesn't solve any problems, and just serves to victimize the victim further and anti-intellectually turn the perpetrator into something that isn't human anymore. It's just plain stupid and degrading for everyone concerned.
aPod said:
By the way, I'm not saying every pedophile acts out on his desires but before any child molester touches a child don't you think he thought about it first? To let someone with that sort of perversion believe that what he is thinking is okay and acceptable, you don't think that leads to them acting out on something they now think is okay and acceptable?
That's just speculation, and it will NEVER be right to limit everyones freedom simply to minimize the "risk" of someone being afflicted by a thought that ultimately culminates in that person commiting a crime.
But if we're supposed to be talking about risks here, what do you think happens when you become stigmatized and hounded like an animal by pretty much everyone who finds out who you really are, and for something ythat you had no control over in the first place? Would you become particularly inclined to respect the laws of a society that treats you like human garbage when you haven't even commited a real crime yet?
I doubt you would. In fact, I doubt anyone would. So you're not really a part of any kind of solution by preaching and practising hatred against people suffering from something they have no control over, you're actually a part of the problem.
It's impossible to try to convince someone to act reasonably when you don't treat them reasonably, and the more you shun them, the less likely they are to care about the rules set by the very people who do all the shunning.
aPod said:
Then once they get to that point they think children have a right to have sex with me if they want to. We need new consent laws because im normal and its love and it doesnt hurt anyone. What.... you gotta be kidding me, I dont have an ounce of pity for pedophiles.
Well, we live in free societies where everyon are expected to be abtle to think whatever they want, so it is within every persons right to think that children should be allowed to have sex with adults legally. However, it is not within every persons right to act according to something that is currently illegal and with such well founded reasons.
That said, do you seriously believe that any paedophile would react reasonably when you confront him and his opinions by shouting: "No, you foul monster and abomination! You should be burned at the stake and sent to hell like the child raping demon you are! Shut your mouth before you corrupt anyone else with your deviant mindset!!!"
I mean really, would ANYONE react in a reasonable manner to that?
How about promoting discussion and come up with well founded and intellectual points instead and try to convince paedophiles not to act upon their unfortunate desires that way instead? And perhaps offer some kind of support in helping them to keep their hands away from children and child pornography?
My point is, if a society continues to treat certain people like monsters and teach them that they are monsters, then they will ultimately act like monsters.
Washing your hands of it and continue with anti-intellectual condemnation won't solve
anything. It will just perpetuate the status quo.
aPod said:
Is that okay in your opinion? So long as he isnt physcially doing anything to that child?
That, and as long as he (or she, you seem to forget the female paedophiles)also refrain from supporting and perpetuating the spread of child pornography where real children are being hurt. Then anything else is fine by me.
aPod said:
Would you let your child spend time with uncle touchy unsupervised? Would you want your child around anyone who gets sexually aroused at the thought of intercourse with children? If you believe they are upstanding citizens with full control over themselves... gah i dont know what else to say.
No I wouldn't. Then again, "uncle touchy" (or any other uncle for that matter) has any legal rights to my child. Any time spent by anyone with a child of mine will only occur with my consent and good faith, and it is well wihin my right as a paren to put a stop to any such interaction between my offspring and any outside factor if I deem it fit.
That still doesn't give me reason to hate and condemn someone for something that they haven't got any control over. And i still doesn't convince me that hunting them with torches and pitchforks would be the right way to keep children safe from being molested.
aPod said:
So in your opinion its okay to murder someone for an apple if you're starving because its survival instinct. So if homeless guy goes into someones house murders the whole family its okay because seeking shelter is a natural survival instinct you would sympathize with him?
Thats about all I can think of saying right now.
"Shelter" isn't necessary for anyone's survival. Our ancestors could live healthy lives under the bare sky as long as they made a decent fire to warm themselves with.
And even if shelter was such an important factor, any reasonably urban area has lots of shelters to seek refuge in wihout having to break into someones home and murder them to be able to stay indoors.
But when you're on the brink of death by starvation and with no means, resource or knowledge to gather your own food, your choice pretty much consist of either just laying down and die or taking food from someone else if they have it and refuse to give i to you.
And frankly, any society that lets people living in it to fall to such subhuman living standards have already failed those people miserably.
It doesn't make it "okay", but I for one can admit that I'd do the same thing if I had to choose between my own survival and someone elses survival. Laws and civilisation are nice, but if you can't afford to live by them (i.e actually DYING if you do) then you don't have much of a choice really...