How about your first time with the same sex? haha, just jokes, I know what you mean. I also know that the first time with a new partner, almost always feels like losing your virginity again, well, for me at least... not that I should have that problem ever again, since I now have 'The One' (yeah, not Neo) and have asked her to marry me. (She said yes).EcksTeaSea said:First time having sex with the opposite sex, that was a really awkward and terrible time. It is at this time I learned sex is overrated.