Because everyone seems to forget that maybe the normal people on the other side didn't want it.
German Soldier gets shot in WWII? here's how a lot of people view it: he isn't a normal man who fought out of fear of the repirsal he would face if he refused, he wasn't a father and husband who wanted what was best for his family, he wasn't a man who knew nothing of Hitler's atrocities and he wasn't a man who hated Hitler but felt that invasion would ruin what he held dearest to him back home. He wasn't a patriot who wanted to defend his home regardless of it's leadership, and he wasn't a man hoping to make a difference on the frontlines. He wasn't a man who rejected the Nazi ideals but just wanted to fight with his friends and help make sure they all came back alive, and he wasn't a man who just didn't understand the implications of what he was doing.
No, in the eyes of society, he is a villian who deserved to die. That one little man, caught up on the wrong side of one of the very few "just" wars out of sheer circumstance. People will say "but anyone who agreed must be evil!" without thinking, "hey, maybe very few people actually agreed...". People will say "You should never go along with that sort of thing!" without ever thinking "hey, maybe they didn't know what Hitler was up to, and didn't realize he was such a bad guy!". People will say "you should resist tyranny and evil, and fight for what you believe in!" without ever having felt fear for their lives, their families, their homes before in their entire lives.
You know what? fuck Hitler. Fuck all those who really believed in his aims. But I agree with the OP: It's about time that the hardship and loss faced by the everyday, average citizen of an Axis nations was recognised, because they were victims too. Hell, if we will celebrate the victories of the men fighting for
Stalin, then why not? I'm not saying we should go "booyah, the Axis fought so fucking well, what respect we should have for them!" but that we should simply take a step back and see the guy on the side of evil in this fight. Just see if he really hates jews like his leader, see if he would really sanction murder like his leader, see if he wants to fight this war... because it's very likely he didn't. And that's not even mentioning the civillians...
Korolev said:
No-one is disputing the morality of the motives and actions of the Axis leaders. It's the attitude towards the regular people who were in the wrong place at the wrong time and found themselves stuck on the evil side of a war they were forced to fight in that's the issue.