ImBigBob said:
However, I've found myself saying the phrase a lot simply because most people HAVEN'T heard of the shows, games, movies I like.
Frustrating though it may be, it still reads as dickish. I totally mean no offense, but still.
Those phrases have a negative association with hipsters for a reason (not necessarily justified in terms of their hipsterness, but...).
My dad's a total music nerd, and a good chunk of it rubbed off on me. While my friends were listening to Nirvana and Metallica, I was listening to Tribe and Pixies. My favourite bands change pretty frequently, but usually include both well-known artists (Queen, the Who, David Bowie, Led Zepplin) and virtually unknown artists (The Stone Coyotes, Gatja, Half the World).
The thing is, if I were to go around saying "My favourite band is the Stone Coyotes. You've probably never heard of them," people would react as though I was a dick. Intended or not. Saying I liked Tribe "before they were hyped on Rock Band," a small variation of "before they were cool," similarly.
You just mention these things, few people seem to care. Yes, it's annoying to see dumbfounded looks when you mention you don't play CoD or listen to Maroon 5, but it's one thing to mention an obscure band and another entirely to be all "you've probably never heard of it."