RedxDecember said:
This is a honest question. I only ask you respect it. I'm 15 and I'm sure that makes some of you have a surge of anger or resentment towards me. I understand that you have these feelings, but I don't understand why. I am not the kind of teen who plays Black Ops all night over and over. I enjoy a wide variety of genres and I am not a console fanboy. I own the 3 current "in" consoles, using money I've earned from my summer job and money from my birthdays and gifts from Christmas. I'm not the little shit who stays in his room and ignores his parents. I've enjoyed all the great games many of you do, and I share your love of games. So why the hate? Please share your anger about my gaming generation and how to improve my interaction with the older members of the gaming community so I can improve my interaction with you all.
Thank you so much for reading.
One thing I don't like about the young gamers, is that more and more they don't know how to lose gracefully. They take losing like it is the end of the world.
The reason the problem exists is that schools and somewhat new parents have the crazy thing going that they want to convenience and tell kids that other people are no better then them, that everybody is a winner.
I remember back when I was in school, kids that made the great grades got special treatment. For their hard work they got things like candy bars, money/gift cards, special coupons, sometimes a pass to get out a homework assignment they didn't feel like doing. At my high school, the students with the best grades got to go off campus for lunch once or twice a week.
These days, from what I have seen from friends' siblings and my nephew that are still in grade school, such rewards are being given out less and less, and soon they won't do it at all. The reasoning is that children are just so fragile and need to be sheltered from the idea that other students are possibly smarter then them, and that there is a possibility they aren't working hard enough or being lazy, that there is something wrong with them.
With such teaching, eventually students don't see differences in their fellow students and don't have the feeling that somebody might be better then them. They get the feeling that no matter what they do they are and always will be a winner, because they aren't show that other people can be better.
That translates to kids/students that play games and they find that in games there will always be a winner or a loser or somebody that is better then them in some way. So, such kids can't handle losing so they resort to insults and things like saying the winner cheated or used unfair tactics, like keeping the shotgun and getting a fifteen kill streak(I did that and actually, got called a bad player by some brat that doesn't understand that it isn't unfair; it is called using what gives myself the best advantage, if the game spawns a shotgun with 20 rounds in it, why do I have to let it sit there and possibly be picked up by somebody that will use it on me?)
Another thing that I find that I can't stand about the younger gamers, is that the younger they get, the larger the entitlement they think they deserve. It's already to the point where quite a few young gamers have the weird idea the they should be able to play the majority of a game or all of it, before they decide if they want to buy it. That is the big issue with piracy, the young gamers see that they can get the game for free, and then they make up the excuse that why should they pay money if they find that they don't like the game. Other people can't get it through their thick skulls that they have to pay money for it because they played it, that it is wrong to take a game copy for free and experience everything a pay customer gets and not pay the creator/developers the money they are do for the player getting that experience. Plus, don't even try to reason with them that taking an illegal copy off the internet is stealing; they keep throwing up the stupid bull crap argument that if it is a digital copy, there are infinite copies and that nothing has been lost, so it isn't stealing. You can't tell them that it is a possible lost sale for the developers and publishers, because they say that if they didn't like the game they wouldn't have paid money for it anyway, or that it is a game genre they normally wouldn't pay money for anyway. The big problem is that the youth of today are more stubborn than the past generations, it seems that the majority will never admit directly that they are wrong about something.
That is why I can't stand many young gamers. They are partially to blame, but also the people that have been brainwashing them with such ideas, that they are just as good as anybody else and that they are entitled to pretty much anything, are also to blame.