NeutralDrow said:Short response: no, it's not wrong.
Long response: No, it's not wrong. Expressing one's self is all well and good, but there is no sane reason to not do at least a little code-switching in social situations unless you're literally always around the same sort of people.
The moral of "Be Yourself" always struck me as sort of misplaced. In American and other individualistic cultures, it's always interpreted in a very broad way that really comes across as preaching to the choir (and in more collectivistic cultures, it's counterproductive). The real moral of "be yourself" is more along the lines of "don't be an obsequious boot-licker and/or succumb easily to peer pressure." Those sorts of acts are contemptible at best, self-destructive at worst.
But, just like in many cases, the overtones of a word or phrase don't usually keep up with its broadening meaning, so "social shapeshifting" seems to keep a connotation of "self denial" to, I would presume, most of the people who answered "yes" to this poll. It's really nothing of the sort.
Hey, good to finally meet someone with a lower post rate then mine.9NineBreaker9 said:I... oh God. I'd much rather not know that THAT was my first post.
I'd like to hope that I've grown up a bit... *shivers in fear*
from this threadKuchinawa212 said:Try to distract a squad of them. Then knock them out and take their uniforms. Hopefully I'll sneak out.
My first post was in a thread called "The stupidest way you have hurt yourself" LOLdarksusano said:After having looked back to find how/when I came to The Escapist, I decided to look at my first post which was apparently 2 months after I registered. Nothing too original, just replying to a thread question. It was in a thread asking what you'd do with console commands and me binding hand and head movements to notarget and noclip. Also money. Unfortunately I forgot to add a save point...
Anyway, to the point of the thread! What was your first post? Are you proud of it? Do you think it is particularly Original/Funny/Etc?
Or, if you intensely dislike your first post, use another persons that you liked. Give credit!
why hello and welcome to the escapistNo. Absolutely Not. said:Well, this is my first post.
Hi, everybody!